to want to get hold of my best friends NOW ex boyfriend and kill the bastard?

[TheLadyEvenstar]

as he is a lying cheating fat ignorant 2 timing cheating dirty cunt who deserves to be strung up by a fucking noose and slowly totured until he screams and then totured some more?

she is still on trial period at work - new job, so couldn't.

Hi All

Just wanted to update you all.
My poor friend is going through it still.

The baby is 13m old not 30m. He was concieved when my friend had a job in a different company and went out with them a few times. He says there was no love there just sex which had been offered on a plate and so he took it "just like all blokes" .
He says he has not had anything to do with the woman since other than to see the baby.
She has been calling my friend to ask if she has seen him as she needs money for the baby.

I went to see my friend the other day and she is in a terrible state. She goes between talking about everyday things to sobbing. I feel so useless because I can't help her.

I have tried to talk to her but she is so confused and hurt. I know when I went through this with DS1's father that I got rid asap. But she is not a strong person sadly.

First time I have seen this thread, OMIGOD, your poor friend, and she has been feeling like this for 7 weeks
AND the other woman slut has been calling her re. money!!
Words fail me, she is lucky to have you as a friend.
I wish her luck.

I have only just seen this too. Hope your poor friend is OK. I agree the OW is a slut and I would say her ex is a lying bastard. She will eventually realise she is better off without him but she must be going through it right now. If the baby is 13months That is almost years he has been cheating and thats if the baby was conceived right away.

See, the "oh she meant nothing to me, it was all a drunken mistake" might have worked if he had confessed to your friend straightaway. Or if he had only just found out about the baby and confessed then. But he didn't. He was aware of the child, he helped with the child and he maintained contact and very friendly contact at that, with the other woman. I think that is the greatest betrayal of all. Your friend can not trust him because he hasn't admitted to her, she found out. If she had not read the text she would be none the wiser.
Your friend is not responsible for the fact the other woman can't get in touch with this man. If she calls again, tell her to contact the CSA, then block her from the phone. Or block her anyway.

Oh it wasn't blamed on drink just that she was offering it on a plate.