to want to get hold of my best friends NOW ex boyfriend and kill the bastard?

[TheLadyEvenstar]

as he is a lying cheating fat ignorant 2 timing cheating dirty cunt who deserves to be strung up by a fucking noose and slowly totured until he screams and then totured some more?

TLE ..omfg . Your poor friend, what a nasty bloke.

i hope he gets piles.

OMG Your poor friend. He has clearly had unprotected sex your friend needs to get checked asap!!!

I spoke to her a little while ago and we were both in tears.

She kept saying "I want my dad I want my dad" I know exactly how she feels in that respect.

All I could say was
"we may not have our dads but we have eachother and I love you"

She and I have both had an inkling because of the way he treated her more recently but we thought it was just he was getting fed up of her learning to be 33 and have a life instead of sitting in all the time like she did until 6m ago.

I have known them both for years and have always thought he was a decent guy except when they were rowing and he said some really hurtfull things to her.

I am trying to let her have her time to talk to him but I want to call her and make sure she is ok.

Xales, I will broach that with her over the next couple of days when she has had a chance to clear her head.

pull his pubes out one by one and then rub vinegar on his bits.... bastard

hope your friend is ok....

she will be, I will make sure of it!!
Thankyou

hey if you need a hand pulling his bits off i'm available monday to friday from 9am - 11:30am and anytime at the weekends.....

ON2T1, I might take you up on that!!

Right i will be back in a sec I need to call her

What does she need to say to him? There would be jack shit I'd need to say to someone who had fucked me over that spectacularly.

There's no going back and every second she wastes talking to that scum is another precious second of her life wasted.

Your friend is a better woman than me, I could not sit and talk. I would hate him too much.

OMG your poor friend, Im really glad she has you, some ladies do not have anyone.

Once you have calmed down ,remind your friend that she is lucky she found out now while she is young enough to find a decent man and have a baby with him . Let her ex go to this other woman ,she can be very good to him ,while he will enevitably find someone else to be good to (again). And he hangs out at a barbers ? is he not gainfully employed ? He must have something he cherishes ? xbox ? record collection/cd's etc ,i feel a chill in the air ,a nice bonfire to warm you up is called for dont you think ?

I am really worried about her I have spoken to her and she said she has drawn blood from him in 2 places.

If I was worried before I am frantic now!

no he is not employed well he is but never paid any tax etc I can feel a call coming on.
and a huge bonfire!

i hope the two places where his cock and one of his balls

Yep, I agree, go and get her. And dont you go attacking him!! :)

You need to go & get her, if the police are called by neighbours etc she will be arrested

I have just spoken to her and she said he is leaving now and she is off to bed.

I feel sick with worry and told her I am here for her if she needs to talk through the night.

Am also very worried as she seems so so damned calm

Are you able to go to her lady?

No

Can you call her again? The drawing blood comment sent my warning signals sky high. Do you know if he has definatly gone yet?

I'm sure if I had to go through what your frined has this evening that "going to bed" would be the last option on my list of things to do.

TSF, I have kept calling every 30 mins or so, I will probably end up getting on her nerves lol. But she is like a sister to me and I am worried sick, all she keeps saying is she is fine.

I wish I could get to her but it ain't happening!

Lurked last night. TLE did you get hold of her last night? How's she doing? Poor thing.

I spoke to her this morning, she is in work now and trying to hold herself together.

He told her he was sorry and he didn't know why he had done it, that nobody knew about the kid, and that he only slept with her a couple of times(like that makes it better!!)
He apologised but she is standing her ground and has told him it is over, he has said she can trust him I don't think I will repeat her reply as it wasn't very nice.

Poor girl is in a terrible state and keeps crying.

I am going up on Thursday but before then am going to buy her a new duvet set and bottle of wine.

If he only slept with her a couple of times how come he gets text from this other woman saying how much she loves him and hinting at sex?

Sounds like your friend is well rid.