to want my DH to forgive me

[inthedoghouse1]

Have namechanged as going to let my H read this.

So.. we spent the last 2 weekends fitting some nice new doors on our cupboards. This morning, while looking for some shoes at the bottom of my cupboard, I lost my balance and fell, and unfortunately hit one of the mirrored doors, and cracked it (not that noticable, but cracked all the same). I immediately apologised a few times, went to work, apologised again by text and email.

Now, 12 hours later, my H is still mad at me and says I should be feeling guilty as well as sorry, as all the hours he spent installing them. Ive said sorry as many times as I can, and now im just getting angry. He says he is going to be angry for weeks still!

AIBU in thinking it was an accident, and he should let it go?

In the first flush of our relationship I know hubbys first thought would have been for me but I must admit I do have suspicions about whether his first thought NOW would be "is she OK" or "more expense" if I damaged something NOW.

He is notoriously tight but I KNOW he would quickly get over it and be pleased I was not hurt and tbh if he DIDNT I wouldnt be begging forgiveness and any guilt I felt over my error would be quickly replaced by annoyance at him be so unreasonable.

I could understand him being annoyed if you had thrown something or been really careless but to sulk over something like this is really childish.

I'm going to go ahead and assume/hope that evilpoptart is being sarcastic.