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AIBU?

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To report this guy to his manager?

278 replies

AngryBeaver · 27/02/2011 17:48

Dh took one of our dc with him to Tesco earlier. They did a bit of shopping and then he took her to the cafe for a drink and a scone.
Whilst they were eating dh overheard another customer ask a cafe worker if he would keep an eye on her things,while she took her child to the loo.
The worker said yes.
The same worker then approached my dh and dd's table and said to dh..."check out the hot young mum when she comes out the toilet!!"Shock

Dh gave him one of these Hmm and turned away.
He told me when he got home,I was shocked and angry,not least because some perv had spoken like this infront of dd.

I rang Tesco and complained to the manager,who told me he was appalled.

my mum however,thought I was ott.
So,was I bu?

OP posts:
52Girls · 28/02/2011 19:18

It's still going on, in a quiet moment at work I wondered if it would be. Just waiting for the op to the pervy table cleaner a scumbag plebian, and we're done! Wink

52Girls · 28/02/2011 19:18

To call....CALL!!!!

squeakytoy · 28/02/2011 19:28

jesus,I didn't complain on behalf of dh..i complained on behalf of dd!

did DD ask you to complain? oh no, because she wasnt even aware of it...

and is your husband not capable of opening his own gob and "protecting" his daughter from such "sleaze and pervertion" from a lowly table wiper...

usualsuspect · 28/02/2011 19:32

St Davids peace

AngryBeaver · 28/02/2011 19:38

he was also a scumbag plebian? Grinare we done then? I've got a cracking headache and I can't be chuffed anymore...
i like that usualsuspect St Davids,I'm with you

OP posts:
saffy85 · 28/02/2011 19:46

Ahh well. Least you gave your local Tesco a bloody good laugh. Grin

Bogeyface · 28/02/2011 19:58

Just dont be surprised the next time you are in Tesco if the sleazy pervy table cleaner gobs in your pomme frite et jus de boeuf

52Girls · 28/02/2011 20:19

YABU.

bupcakesandcunting · 28/02/2011 20:20

"jesus,I didn't complain on behalf of dh..i complained on behalf of dd!"

Bwah ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! Grin

OP, you clearly do not think you were U. Why ask?

PorcelinaOfTheVastOceans · 28/02/2011 20:25

cannot believe this thread is still alive and well Grin

RunAwayWife · 28/02/2011 20:34
bupcakesandcunting · 28/02/2011 20:59

OP I am kind of offended at RunAwayWife's link. Please phone her and tell her on my behalf that she has wounded my delicate constitution with her sexual weirdery. DS was present but was too oblivious/pre-occupied with Waybuloo's to care much. BUT THAT'S NOT THE POINT!

RunAwayWife · 28/02/2011 21:02

She will need my phone number....it is 0900spankme Grin

bupcakesandcunting · 28/02/2011 21:04

YOU SEXUAL FREAK, RUNAWAY.

Am also sad that there are no fireman wolfing down graveh n chipz :(

RunAwayWife · 28/02/2011 21:05

Grin have I lowered the tone of the thread?

Bogeyface · 28/02/2011 21:07

Dammit bupcakes, I was going to post that!

Shall i ring DH at work, tell him and then get him to ring for both of us?! :o

bupcakesandcunting · 28/02/2011 21:07
bupcakesandcunting · 28/02/2011 21:09

But, Bogeyface, can your DH muster the required amount of cat's bum mouth/Disgusted, of Tunbridge Wells type disdain to make thsi type of call?

RunAwayWife · 28/02/2011 21:13

Have a pom bear and relax Grin

AngryBeaver · 28/02/2011 21:15

bupcakes,you're right dd didn't notice.i just think he shouldn't talk to customers like that,and you're also correct when you say i don't think i was bu!so nope,shouldn't have asked!i did say earlier though i accept i was in the minority.

dh just came in when i was watching runaways link..he just heard the music and went "i love this riff" then came round the computer and was like "what the fuck are you watching?!!" Grin

OP posts:
bupcakesandcunting · 28/02/2011 21:17

Was he horrified to see you objectifying men, AngryBeaver? Wink

zookeeper · 28/02/2011 21:21

"shocked and angry?" Very OTT. I think your DD will live Hmm

worraliberty · 28/02/2011 21:22

What is so bad about a small child knowing some men find some women attractive and vice versa?

As someone else said, if he'd made a crude comment about her tits or her arse then that would be bad in front of a child but to call the lady 'hot'?

Your poor child may need years of therapy lmao. Anyway, she probably thought he meant the heating was up too high...

AngryBeaver · 28/02/2011 21:29

worraliberty oh god,stop saying lmao!!its very teenager on facebook. I don't know how many more times i can ask you if you think it;s normal for a stranger to approach a family and ask them about another customer?? i do.you're obviously fine with that.. don't think i know anyone in real life though who hasn't gone Hmm when i told them!

bupcakes yes,he was appalled! and told me that he had to seek out kelly brooks 'arty' photos of her flaps to overcome my betrayal Grin

OP posts:
bupcakesandcunting · 28/02/2011 21:34

I could never forgive DH looking at nuddy pics of Kelly Brook. May as well draw a pair of tits on a cardboard box and get him to stare at that.

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