I’m skint and think this is a good way to pay off some debts – AIBU?

[WhereTheresAWill]

I?m a single parent and although I have a day job it?s minimum wage, so like most people money is tight. I have debts to pay off and anything extra is very much needed so I can get back on an even keel. I started doing webcam work a few months ago after a suggestion from a friend who?s in a similar industry (she?s an escort), and it?s helping me to pay off my debts and give me a bit of extra cash to treat my DC. I can?t do a second job outside the house as I have no evening childcare for my DC, so in that respect it?s ideal. At present I only work on the cams for approx. 3 hours on Friday and Saturday nights when DCs in bed and although there are some time wasters on the site I work from, most of the blokes are fine (with some interesting requests!) and I have a few regulars, one of which spends approx £40-50 a time when he has a show with me.

I know the moral majority won?t approve and will say that I?m being exploited, used, abused etc. but they are the ones paying a lot of money to see me put on a show, so surely it's the other way around! I just dress up, watch TV until a show is requested then do a bit of a dance and a strip tease and watch the money to stack up as the minutes pass - so who?s the fool?! I?m not a victim, as I choose to do this and actually enjoy the fact that these men are paying me to put on a show for them. They can?t touch me, have no idea where I live or even what my real name is, so it?s safe from that point of view, and if I don?t like them for any reason I can kick them out of my ?room?. Obviously I?ve only been doing it a few months and the novelty may wear off, but if things go well, my friend has suggested I could branch out into the odd bit of escorting as well to up my income a bit more.

AIBU doing this to make a bit of much-needed extra cash?

"MrSpoc Thu 10-Feb-11 13:29:54

fatlazymummy - i already said i would do it but not with men. why becasue I am not gay."

being gay doesn't really come into it, so to speak, as a prostitute it's irrelevant whether or not you are attracted to your clients, they have paid to enter your body. so you've got an asshole, you could use it.

www.prostitutescollective.net/

mrs is definitely a user, probably a payer, and almost certainly struggles to get any

Aitch it is very relivant. how many women prostitues sleep with women who pay them?

If it a stupid statement you made.

Appletrees - how have you come to this rediculas conclusion? I dov not need to pay. i am very good lucking and have never had a problem pulling. I also am happily married and get enough thank you.

Now what about you? are you struggling to sell yourself and no one will even pay you?

rediculas ! could someone please translate, having difficulty.

I agree appletrees.

Think he read the OP's post and his ears pricked up as it is probably a subject he knows a lot about.

Mrspoc-can you not see that you're doing yourself no favours in looking like a twat?

'how have you come to this rediculas conclusion? I dov not need to pay. i am very good lucking and have never had a problem pulling'

Ha Ha Ha

Actually it's more than just rediculas I can't read and make sense of the entire post. Anyone here know what language Mr Spoc is speaking

Is it space alien?

Please explain?

his ears pricked up are they pointy like the real Mr spoc ?

so what some of the spelling is off. only little people try to pick other peoples spelling up to try an make them self's feel better. Carry on you are the one looking like a little idiot.

What you laughing at Thingumy? have we met?

Only SOME of the spelling???Hahaha

No Mr Spoc, the women folk here look educated.

The thing that horrifies me about all this is that the OP is talking about selling her body - and to my mind, her soul, for what is sex if not a window into the soul? - for a measly £100! a day. If she got a normal job, any job, she could easily make that - it's not as though doing this is going to be some magic panacea.

I earnt £200 today, working at home - I, like the OP, have childcare responsibilities, so have to work round them. I suspect I'm more educated than the OP. But more than that, I have some self-respect and a modicum of ingenuity.

When a woman thinks that the only thing she has left to sell is her body, as she - presumably - believes there is nothing else she could do or skills she could sell that would make her more - then we know that we are looking at a woman with pitifully little self-belief or self-love.

Her poor kids - how long till they find out? And what will it do to them??

OP - GO GET A JOB. A NORMAL JOB. You know it makes sense, or you wouldn't be posting on here. If you want advice on that, I'm sure loads of people will be able to make constructive suggestions.

Yuck.

What you laughing at Thingumy? have we met?

Are you even more laughable in real life?

Apparently being good-looking, able to pull and happily married does not mean that you don't have to pay. Some men like paying don't they?, especially as all of us women are frigid.

but dumb. you are trying to use bullyboy tactics in order to stear away from the topic at hand.

The reason is because may be you have nothing of value to add. Little girls can be so bitchy.

Carmen you are so right, hit the nail on the head, some men like paying, dictating the terms and holding all the power.

i am not sure why some men pay. i just dont need to.

Mrspoc why are you posting on this particular thread? Do you feel like you know something about prostitution?

If the posters on here are men haters and irritate you so much then why come on a forum that is full of women.

I wouldnt post a predominantly male message bopard that was apparently full of women-haters.

MrSpoc, for your info, many prostitutes will have sex with anyone who will pay them -male or female.

Sexuality has very little to do with prostitution.

Little girls can be so bitchy.
well yes big girls can be very bitchy, they can stand on their on their own two feet, they can think and articulate their thoughts, they can spell, they can work for more than £100 per weekend providing sex shows to silly little men who have been suckered into thinking only webcam Wanda likes it like they do!