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To think that resources are being wasted on underserving scrubbers

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rezbites · 20/01/2011 10:12

It makes me very angry to think that deserving parents, like Riven and her partner, are being denied the help the help they so clearly need when there are others in our society who are bleeding the system dry and giving nothing back. Please let me explain what I mean.

Where I live (and in other parts of the country too, I'm sure) there is a certain "underclass" of young women - you know the ones I mean - little scrubbers who clearly model themselves on Vicky Pollard - who are provided with everything by the State. They have not suffered abandonment, divorce or bereavement. They have not been made redundant or struggled to find a job - they have never tried to get one. They have chosen to become single mothers, straightout of school in many cases, so that they qualify for social housing and benefits to live on, claiming that they cannot work because they have a child. They think the world owes them a living and it is their right to claim all these things. I do not mean to suggest that they are typical of single parents or council tenants generally because I know that they are not. They are a feckless, but very visible, minority.

Why should the country waste resouces on these selfish, irresponsible deadbeats who have chosen that lifestyle, at the expense of people in genuine need of help - the disabled, the vulnerable and those who through no fault of their own have ended up in very difficult circumstances?

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poshsinglemum · 24/01/2011 08:45

Actually I AM a scrubber. And proud! Grin

pascoe28 · 24/01/2011 09:23

Not much more to say other than I don't think the State should pay anyone any more money than anyone else, simply because they have children.

Regarding inheritance - it's not up to the State to decide who gets to keep what (who "deserves it" or who has "earned it") with regard to legacies and so on - it should be a private matter within a family.

bestmamaderwelt · 24/01/2011 11:26

Why? Do you really thing the lure of A crappy two bed and just enough money to keep your head above water encourages people to have children? Once again how do you expect these people and there children to survive? Maybe we should just remove them from there homes and give them to more deserving rich families?

pascoe28 · 24/01/2011 11:55

bestmamaderwelt - somewhere else on this thread I argued for ending CB for new children after a certain date. That way, existing families will not suffer, new ones will have children on the understanding that they pay for them themselves.

bestmamaderwelt · 24/01/2011 11:57

But again what if your financially secure and then things go tits up? What then?

pascoe28 · 24/01/2011 12:06

Then you use the savings you carefully put aside for such an eventuality.

I jest...

People have lost the ability to think that they might need to support themselves because they have always (not unreasonably) presumed that the State will step in and help them out.

I would like that attitude to change.

bestmamaderwelt · 24/01/2011 12:33

the average working mother with a normal job ie 9-5 isn't going to be able to save, its just not how a large proportion of the world live. Have you not noticed how many houses are repossessed lots of working people cant afford there mortgages let alone put money aside.

wendihouse22 · 24/01/2011 14:00

Whilst I don't like the term "scrubbers", I do know of young girls who, in their mid twenties have never had a job since leaving school.

A member of my family does not want to work, he child is now at primary school and still doesn't see why she should find employment.

She drives a car; she likes a drink; she smokes. Her accommodation is paid for, she is entirely dependent on the State.

This, I do not like.

I don't like the idea of the Royal Family either. They live in the biggest council house in the land.....

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