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To think that resources are being wasted on underserving scrubbers

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rezbites · 20/01/2011 10:12

It makes me very angry to think that deserving parents, like Riven and her partner, are being denied the help the help they so clearly need when there are others in our society who are bleeding the system dry and giving nothing back. Please let me explain what I mean.

Where I live (and in other parts of the country too, I'm sure) there is a certain "underclass" of young women - you know the ones I mean - little scrubbers who clearly model themselves on Vicky Pollard - who are provided with everything by the State. They have not suffered abandonment, divorce or bereavement. They have not been made redundant or struggled to find a job - they have never tried to get one. They have chosen to become single mothers, straightout of school in many cases, so that they qualify for social housing and benefits to live on, claiming that they cannot work because they have a child. They think the world owes them a living and it is their right to claim all these things. I do not mean to suggest that they are typical of single parents or council tenants generally because I know that they are not. They are a feckless, but very visible, minority.

Why should the country waste resouces on these selfish, irresponsible deadbeats who have chosen that lifestyle, at the expense of people in genuine need of help - the disabled, the vulnerable and those who through no fault of their own have ended up in very difficult circumstances?

OP posts:
ILoveItWhenYouCallMeBoo · 20/01/2011 14:22

WTF??

pascoe you reckon single mother are now abusing their dsc?

Hullygully · 20/01/2011 14:23

I think it's fab that ilikemilk's hubby pays the tax that keeps us all in asses milk. What's your contibution, dear?

bupcakesandcunting · 20/01/2011 14:24

What? Not even you, ILikeMilk? It's just the way you've been going on, I thought you were so perfect that you crapped diamonds.

ILikeMilk · 20/01/2011 14:25

I wish bupcake! That would be a solution to the world's poverty.

Hullygully · 20/01/2011 14:26

Everyone loves comforting and easy stereotypes, it makes life lovely and simple and saves all that bothersome thinking.

But the reality is Ilike, Pascoe and co, that every case is different, and each time somebody says, what about X, you say, well, all right, not them, but them others. "Then others" don't exist, they are just a whole bunch of humans with mixed up reasons and circs struggling to get along.

bupcakesandcunting · 20/01/2011 14:27

"Those that defend it (oh so funnily) fail to see the appalling lives such benefits recipients lead and will perpetuate amongst their children."

LOL.

Like I said my mum was a single mum, not working. I am not. I have a degree, a job, a mortgage and no plasma screen gogglebox. My brother is finishing uni and is a successful musician. Oh noes there are people that don't sit in your pigeonholes.

GooseFatRoasties · 20/01/2011 14:27

This thread has got some gems on it. Well said pagwatch. Anyhow, going to collect fatherless dd from school then check the bank to see if my benefits are in. I fancy a luxury holiday. LOL

( flicks two fingers at OP )

ILoveItWhenYouCallMeBoo · 20/01/2011 14:28

""Then others" don't exist, they are just a whole bunch of humans with mixed up reasons and circs struggling to get along."

exactly hully.

everyone has a back story, everyone.

DameShirleyKnot · 20/01/2011 14:29

the problem is that pascoe is a bit like an arsehole. you know like an opinion? only pascoe has three and uses one of them to spraypaint cars.

Hang on.

ReclaimingMyInnerPeachy · 20/01/2011 14:29

Pascoe youa re so single tracked aren;t you?

You seem to think you either start and end on benefits or enver go enar them at all

I for one only wish this was the case

bupcakesandcunting · 20/01/2011 14:29

" Anyhow, going to collect fatherless dd from school then check the bank to see if my benefits are in. I fancy a luxury holiday. LOL"

That's if my prole-catcher van doesn't catch you and bring you back to the camp workhouse.

Mwah ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.

ILoveItWhenYouCallMeBoo · 20/01/2011 14:31

"Those that defend it (oh so funnily) fail to see the appalling lives such benefits recipients lead and will perpetuate amongst their children."

so what went wrong with me then? surely if these scrubbers are teaching their children how to scrounge, then my parents were teaching me how to work full time my whole life and claim nothing? didn't happen with me. am i faulty? have i bucked the trend completely. was i the start of it all? Shock

Hullygully · 20/01/2011 14:31

Go round em up, Buppy. Get the ones in the short skirts with muffin tops and tatts first.

ILoveItWhenYouCallMeBoo · 20/01/2011 14:31
lifeinlimbo · 20/01/2011 14:32

Hey I paid the tax that keeps us all in asses milk. And the VAT.

I think ilikemilk is like the black klukluxclan member. Shes just 'scrounging' off the state her DH.

RealityIsKnockedUp · 20/01/2011 14:32

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LadyBlaBlah · 20/01/2011 14:32

Actually pascoe, people are arguing (hilariously) against the prejudice and stereotyping of people on benefits, that's all........nobody is saying the benefits system is perfect. I would certainly argue there is a benefits trap........a totally different debate!

bupcakesandcunting · 20/01/2011 14:32

Short skirts? They don't wear short skirts any more. Pyjama bottoms tucked into Uggs is en vogue amongst these feckless harlots.

pagwatch · 20/01/2011 14:33

I am just a bit bum fuddled about how calling a group of people names and layering negative stereotypes upon them and their families, helps.

Pascoe, you are sniffy about thisecwho don't want to call them names and suggest that such liberal thinking keeps this 'underclass' trapped. But what alternative are you suggesting.

Not helping to create aspiration and not calling them names dies not seem any less constructive than the ops tactic of not creating aspiration but being very rude.

And I am still in the basement but I find I like it. I can tunnel through to the fallen womens shelter soon and we can drink Bacardi breezers and watch jezza.

Hullygully · 20/01/2011 14:34

Here's one! Get her quick.

And she's awaiting

bupcakesandcunting · 20/01/2011 14:34

It's Blue WKD nowadays, Pagwatch. I do wish you people would keep up.

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 20/01/2011 14:35
RealityIsKnockedUp · 20/01/2011 14:36

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Hullygully · 20/01/2011 14:37

A cleaner who's a bit mean with the nuggits