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Do you take people at face value on here?

284 replies

mutznutz · 07/01/2011 22:12

You know some posters tend to enter a thread with "Well I'm a Doctor, Lawyer, Teacher, Head Teacher" or whatever...well do you give their post any more creedence because of it or do you just disregard it completely and read what they have to say as if they'd never mentioned it?

Bearing in mind any of us can be anything we claim to be?

Thanks in advance
Mutznutz OBE Grin

OP posts:
giyadas · 07/01/2011 23:22

Missypie - she's just sneakily testing the waters to see if anyone suspects her. Grin

theevildead2 · 07/01/2011 23:22

Well I am neither evil nor dead, but I have never lied about anything on here or exaggerated so I tend to assume others don't. Although recently I did notice a pretty obvious glaring lie from one poster as if what they had previously claimed to be true.. their current story would have to be a lie iyswim

RubberDuck · 07/01/2011 23:23

Quack

AnyFucker · 07/01/2011 23:25

there are some proper boasters that is for sure

I dunno whether they are actually lying, bu they do take every opportunity to wax lyrical about their children, their house, their DH's salary Hmm , their fab clothes etc

oh no, hang on, that's just my Envy showing itself

tomhardyismydh · 07/01/2011 23:26

who is it mutznutz ?

AnyFucker · 07/01/2011 23:26

US, I am honoured (although I have to be since I got fuck-all say in the matter Grin )

NotShortImFunSized · 07/01/2011 23:27

I don't tend to take any more notice if they say that but I don't doubt that they are what they say Confused

I never lie on MN, I just don't see the point in pretending to be something/someone you aren't, which is probably why I get sucked in by the not so truthful threads/posters!

FabbyChic · 07/01/2011 23:27

If I boast about my kids it is because they are all I have achieved, makes me feel I got something right.

MarniesMummy · 07/01/2011 23:27

I know amum who's like that in RL mutz. She's hard work.

Sassybeast · 07/01/2011 23:27

'coughs' - 'I've' got the big blue ring at the minute.

usualsuspect · 07/01/2011 23:31

You just take the boasters with a pinch of salt though ...most of it is tongue in cheek anyway

MarniesMummy · 07/01/2011 23:31

If you don't take people to be telling the truth it all becomes a bit pointless though.

I think I have to believe people or I'd leave MN.

PonceyMcPonce · 07/01/2011 23:31

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MissyPie · 07/01/2011 23:31

Would it be reasonable to say that some people post things on here just to get varying opinions - perhaps the thread does not relate to the OP but someone they may know, and to give advice to a friend perhaps it's easy to get advice from us

I'm just too darn nice not to suspect anyone of bullshitting

Oooops, there goes my first porky pie...did anyone notice lol

JaneS · 07/01/2011 23:32

I don't think the level of bullshit here is very much different from RL, tba.

In RL, you come across some people who claim to know it all, who'll wade into any discussion claiming to be the authority ... 'tis the same here.

MissyPie · 07/01/2011 23:33

I'm just too darn nice not to suspect anyone of bullshitting

does that even read right???

cross out the not and maybe we have a statement??

Honeydragon · 07/01/2011 23:33
Envy

At me if you like anyfucker, I'm short, skint and if my dh was actually home long enough to judge I'm sure he probably be very annoying and my kids are currently demons.

You want to be just like me don't you Grin

nikki1978 · 07/01/2011 23:34

I usually presume people are telling the truth. Although sometimes on certain threads like asking for funniest drunk stories or whatever it amazes me how many people can come up with so many funny stories off the top of their heads. Maybe there are just a hell of a lot of people on here. Or maybe I am jealous because my memory is so crap Grin

MarniesMummy · 07/01/2011 23:34

I thought that was a clever piece of writing.

It's good to go!

bumpsnowjustplump · 07/01/2011 23:34

I take EVERYTHING people say on here with a pinch of salt now.. This is after being sucked in by a poster to the point of actually sending them money (Well Tesco vouchers infact) and then finding out that the whole thing was a lie. Never again... It is sad as it has Jaded me and a lot of other people now.

FabbyChic · 07/01/2011 23:36

Bump, sorry that happened to you that is well mean.

ENormaSnob · 07/01/2011 23:36

I don't lie on here.

I have noticed the occasional poster where I think Hmm

MissyPie · 07/01/2011 23:36

bump..you did WHAT??

quietlysuggests · 07/01/2011 23:37

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quietlysuggests · 07/01/2011 23:38

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