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to be weirded out by sisters new boyfriend

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gretalse · 30/10/2010 22:26

Tonight I went out with my brother,sister, her new boyfriend and DH. Its the first time we've ever met and I think he's probably the weirdest person I've ever met. He's 34 whilst dsis is only 25 so there is an age difference but they have been going out for a few months.

First of all he divuldged to everyone that he is bisexual, now I have no problem with this but he just randomly declared it before launching into a lecture about how the world is controlled by a new world order and that all Governments are conspiring to enslave their people. He then started rambling about how the moon landings were fake and that we should all start buying gold as soon money will be worthless. Later he told DH that it was obvious to him that I walk all over him and that he needs to reclaim the trousers.

As the evening went on he got quite drunk and when my brother went to get another round of drinks he said that "he'd like to put him on all fours and give him a good seeing too" Shock.

At the end of the evening as we were saying goodbye he went onto tell DH that he needs to put me over his knee to exert his authority. He's the strangest guy I've ever met and to top it of dsis wants me to invite him for Xmas dinner.

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NannyPatsSausagePlait · 30/10/2010 22:28

He sounds hilarious! WOuld cheer Christmas RIGHT up

ApricotWorms · 30/10/2010 22:30

He sounds a real catch! Does he like David Icke?

fuzzysnout · 30/10/2010 22:31

Ahh - perhaps he was nervous.

No - he's a weirdo!! YANBU!
Invite him for crimbo,make sure you invite another good looking bloke for him to flirt with, encourage his bizarre conversations and sis will probably have gone off him by the end of the day!

MsKalo · 30/10/2010 22:31

Have ur parents met him?! Let us know how that goes! What a fruit!

taintedpaint · 30/10/2010 22:31

Part of me would love him to come round for Christmas. But another part of me would be completely horrified to have him in my house! Other than the sexist comments, nothing else expressively bothers me, but it's the unpredictablity that would stop him from coming to my house.

I take it you don't want him there?

HecateQueenOfWitches · 30/10/2010 22:31

good grief.

In your shoes, I'd look my sister in the eye and say

"So you want me to invite to my house a conspiracy theorist who tells strangers about his sexuality, thinks I walk all over my husband who should hit me to regain control and who would like to have sex with my brother? I think not."

grapeandlemon · 30/10/2010 22:32

I think he sounds like a scream, my sister's boyfriend just sits there with an inane grin and is Mr Bland, it would be much more fun to have this one over for crimbo!

nigglewiggle · 30/10/2010 22:33

Make sure you buy him a turquoise tracksuit for xmas so that he can properly channel David Icke. Grin

ENormaSnob · 30/10/2010 22:34
Shock

I like Hecates idea.

pjmama · 30/10/2010 22:34

Your post made me lmao! At least he's entertaining if nothing else?! Grin

MrsRhettKilledTheButler · 30/10/2010 22:35

fyi, the moon landings were fake... but anyhoo, he is seriousy wieird

gretalse · 30/10/2010 22:36

Just got a text from my db saying "dsis has excelled herself with this one, what a douche."

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ENormaSnob · 30/10/2010 22:39

I actually find it really offensive that he said that about your brother.

He sounds like an attention seeking loon.

cheesesarnie · 30/10/2010 22:39

atleast he wasnt painfully shy i suppose!

gretalse · 30/10/2010 22:41

ENormaSnob I agree with you particulary as my db isn't gay and is only 20

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huddspur · 30/10/2010 22:47

LMAO, he sounds like a scream, if you don't want him for Xmas send him to me I'll put him next to the MIL, he'll keep entertained and off my back.

Seriously though I find what he said about your brother totally unacceptable and I would have told him so similarly I would have let him know my displeasure about his request for my husband to beat me into submission.

huddspur · 30/10/2010 22:50

OP can I ask what your dsis said when he expressed his desire to have sex with her 20 yo brother?

DeadPoncy · 30/10/2010 22:52

Sorry, I disagree that he is "unpredictable". He is repeating every known weird trope, but there's a thing there which is genuinely weird or original

If she won't dump him, tell her he would bore you all to death over Christmas, so sorry, he is not invited!

gretalse · 30/10/2010 22:53

Huddspur she just laughed, me and DH exchanged looks of astonishment.

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BitOfFunderthepatio · 30/10/2010 22:54

While he is a gift for the Christmas entertainment, he is probably a living nightmare for your sister, and on that basis, I would tell him to go jump.

WhoAteAgentZigzagsBrain · 30/10/2010 22:55

Did they have a bet beforehand about how much they could weird you out?

Surely your sister must see something in him, does she normally go for freaky, 'I'm going to test your sense of embarassment' people?

gretalse · 30/10/2010 22:57

She has always gone for slightly quirky men but this guy was in a different league even for her.

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BrandyAlexander · 30/10/2010 22:57
Shock
Rindercella · 30/10/2010 22:59

He said that he wanted to "put him on all fours and give him a good seeing to" about his girlfriend's brother? Shock And he said this in front of all of you? Shock That is seriously shocking.

Oh, and YANBU. He sounds seriously weird.

MadAboutQuavers · 30/10/2010 23:00

I would ask her what the hell she sees in him to be honest

Sounds like he has no concept of how to get on with people in a social situation

He wasn't on anything was he, by any chance?