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to be weirded out by sisters new boyfriend

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gretalse · 30/10/2010 22:26

Tonight I went out with my brother,sister, her new boyfriend and DH. Its the first time we've ever met and I think he's probably the weirdest person I've ever met. He's 34 whilst dsis is only 25 so there is an age difference but they have been going out for a few months.

First of all he divuldged to everyone that he is bisexual, now I have no problem with this but he just randomly declared it before launching into a lecture about how the world is controlled by a new world order and that all Governments are conspiring to enslave their people. He then started rambling about how the moon landings were fake and that we should all start buying gold as soon money will be worthless. Later he told DH that it was obvious to him that I walk all over him and that he needs to reclaim the trousers.

As the evening went on he got quite drunk and when my brother went to get another round of drinks he said that "he'd like to put him on all fours and give him a good seeing too" Shock.

At the end of the evening as we were saying goodbye he went onto tell DH that he needs to put me over his knee to exert his authority. He's the strangest guy I've ever met and to top it of dsis wants me to invite him for Xmas dinner.

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yertile · 31/10/2010 13:52

YADNBU he sounds vile

leandro · 31/10/2010 15:27

What does your DH think of this man and his behaviour

cumfy · 31/10/2010 19:17

Halloween stunt ?

Who employs him ?

gretalse · 31/10/2010 19:30

He's a manager in a computer store.

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huddspur · 31/10/2010 19:46

He's a computer guy, why am I not surprised

thesecondcoming · 31/10/2010 19:57

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ItsGhoulAgain · 31/10/2010 20:26

ahem, huddspur!

[offended geek emoticon]

huddspur · 31/10/2010 20:33

Sorry ItsGhoulAgain but if you'd asked what his job was I'd have guessed that it would be something in the field of computing.

Janos · 31/10/2010 20:34

I'm not sure why people think this guy sounds hilarious!

Well, ok maybe there is some comedy value in his behaviour in a 'shocking your maiden aunt' type way.

But actually he sounds pretty nasty. If someone I was seeing made a sexual comment about my sister, I'd be absolutely livid, not tee-heeing it off. Wouldn't most people?

huddspur · 31/10/2010 20:42

I agree Janos he does sound a piece of work and I'd have a similary angry response if someone had said they wanted to do that to my brother(he is only 11 though).

Janos · 31/10/2010 20:49

Yeah huddspur.

I'd feel protective towards my sister, angry on her behalf and mine, furious at him for saying that in front of my family...

It's just yuck and nasty on so many levels.

ItsGhoulAgain · 31/10/2010 20:49

It's okay [hwink] It's true that IT provides a safe haven for people with social problems!

SarahStratton · 31/10/2010 20:51

Wow can we have a running commentary Christmas Day? Or better still can we come to dinner? He sounds a right catch.

Janos · 31/10/2010 20:52

[hgrin] GhoulAgain

Actually thinking on (cos I'm in that sort of mood), it seems as though he was actively trying to upset/shock people.

What sort of person would set out to do that, I wonder?

byrel · 31/10/2010 21:37

I'm joining Sarah to listen to the Christmas Day Commentary

LittleMissHissyFit · 01/11/2010 14:36

Oh yeah!
Gretalse are you on Twitter? you could tweet to mumsnet, and there's a million fair few that'd follow you...

You could be more popular and certainly more entertaining than the queen's speech...

Chil1234 · 01/11/2010 15:44

"What sort of person would set out to do that, I wonder?"

Someone who is worried that the real them is incredibly dull and tries to make themselves sound more interesting by making offensive remarks. Jim Davidson has made a career out of it :)

pottonista · 01/11/2010 16:16

Invite him for Christmas. Then make sure everyone is wearing a layer of tinfoil under their clothing (especially him), to keep the mind control rays out.

Then send regular Twitter updates...

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