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to be weirded out by sisters new boyfriend

93 replies

gretalse · 30/10/2010 22:26

Tonight I went out with my brother,sister, her new boyfriend and DH. Its the first time we've ever met and I think he's probably the weirdest person I've ever met. He's 34 whilst dsis is only 25 so there is an age difference but they have been going out for a few months.

First of all he divuldged to everyone that he is bisexual, now I have no problem with this but he just randomly declared it before launching into a lecture about how the world is controlled by a new world order and that all Governments are conspiring to enslave their people. He then started rambling about how the moon landings were fake and that we should all start buying gold as soon money will be worthless. Later he told DH that it was obvious to him that I walk all over him and that he needs to reclaim the trousers.

As the evening went on he got quite drunk and when my brother went to get another round of drinks he said that "he'd like to put him on all fours and give him a good seeing too" Shock.

At the end of the evening as we were saying goodbye he went onto tell DH that he needs to put me over his knee to exert his authority. He's the strangest guy I've ever met and to top it of dsis wants me to invite him for Xmas dinner.

OP posts:
igetmorelovefromthecat · 30/10/2010 23:02

Wow.

WhoAteAgentZigzagsBrain · 30/10/2010 23:04

Does she like to be seen as outrageous by association?

Or it could be that she's got a low self esteem and he deflects attention away from her?

I hate it when people get a kick out of making others feel really uncomfortable.

lokaku · 30/10/2010 23:05

He'll certainly make it a christmas to remember. In all seriousness if someone had said that about my younger brother, warrior sister would have come out.
You could just about attribute the comments about you and your DH as drunken pisstaking but the one about your brother was bang out of order.

pressyourthumbsintothispumpkin · 30/10/2010 23:14

If he also thinks that swine flu was invented to try to get us all to take new mind control drugs I met him at a wedding last year!

Your sister must have some issues to work through. Hopefully she'll do so swiftly and get rid of this guy.

nortine · 30/10/2010 23:25

I nearly fell off my chair reading that. Seriously where your sister meet this guy, I've met some pretty strange people in my time but never someone who has blurted out what he'd like to do sexually with another member of the group he is socialising with. Does your db know that he said that OP?

aaaaaAAARGHandbreathe · 30/10/2010 23:27

YANBU and YUK.

What have your sister's previous boyfriend's been like?

Original poster
gretalse · 30/10/2010 23:29

Most of my sisters boyfriend have been a little strange but nothing like this guy.
nortine db doesn't know and I think its best not to tell him.

OP posts:
TethHearseEnd · 30/10/2010 23:34

I think you're just jealous Grin

groggymama · 30/10/2010 23:37

34?

redflag · 30/10/2010 23:37

Haaa haaa haaa he sounds like a car crash!

Invite him just for giggles!

Funkychunkymunky · 30/10/2010 23:42

What did sis say about it all?

reratio · 30/10/2010 23:42

YADNBU I think a lot of people are underestimating what he said. If we replaced the OPs brother with a sister and he'd said he'd like to put her on all fours and give her a good seeing to then there would be uproar. on MN.

Original poster
gretalse · 30/10/2010 23:46

Dsis nodded along when he was outlining his various theorys and she seemed to find it funny when he declared he wanted sex with db.

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redflag · 30/10/2010 23:46

reatio, he is obviously a sandwich short of a picnic.

All his theories could be correct though. Confused

LoopyLoupGarou · 30/10/2010 23:50

I think you need a frank discussion with your sister. All the rest aside, what he said about your brother was awful - degrading for her and probably mortifying for your little brother.
Also, telling your husband to discipline you is shocking. Tell her exactly what you think.

Oh, and Christmas should be... fun?!

Thingumy · 30/10/2010 23:50

Christmas dinner will be fun.

LittleMissHissyFangs · 30/10/2010 23:55

astonished!

booking front row seats for christmas..... Grin

TiggyD · 31/10/2010 00:00

He's a tosser.

pallette · 31/10/2010 00:02

I agree with reratio, the comments about your brother should not be taking lightly, he was bang out of order. and he wouldn't be anywhere near my christmas dinnertable.

beobelle · 31/10/2010 00:07

LMAO I wouldn't mind being a fly on the wall in hose on Xmas day.

DeadPoncy · 31/10/2010 00:14

beobelle, if you were a fly on that wall, he would probably pick you off to eat you, while muttering "Lives, master, lives, give me lives..."

If he thought of it, that is.

Still think he's boring!

DinahRod · 31/10/2010 00:15

Find these types tiresome. He's using his "I'm so craaazy and unorthodox" shit to be offensive and your dumb sister has fallen for it.

Hope you eviscerate him next time he says something vile, the comments re your brother were just awful.

saltdog · 31/10/2010 00:20

Where did your sister get this guy from, the comments directed at you and your brother were shocking and I wouldn't have stood for them if they'd been said to me.
Hell would freeze over before I had this man for Christmas dinner. What did your db and dh make of him

WhoAteAgentZigzagsBrain · 31/10/2010 00:41

Bloody hell dinah, there's no need to be using words like eviscerate at this time of night Grin

MaimAndKilloki · 31/10/2010 01:06

Wow, he sounds.. erm.. interesting?

Tbh, I'd tell my DB, if only for the look on his face. [hgrin]

Do you reckon your sister actually thinks he's talking sense?