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AIBU?

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To enjoy a wee joint every night to unwind?

155 replies

ganga · 15/10/2010 14:13

Alcohol makes me feel like crap, but having a small joint helps me relax and sleep. I don't smoke cigs, do coke, e's, crack etc and generally lead a healthy lifestyle. Work p/t, have 2 DC.

Think I would have grown out of it, gave it up easily when TTC, pregnant and when breastfeeding x 2, but still enjoy the feeling it brings! AIBU?

OP posts:
rubyslippers · 15/10/2010 14:14

Every night?

WitchyFlisspaps · 15/10/2010 14:14

Do you eat Gregg's sausage rolls to deal with the munchies? If so then YABU.

belgo · 15/10/2010 14:14

Have a Biscuit instead.

wahwahwah · 15/10/2010 14:14

Ohhhhh............. I can't be bothered.

faverolles · 15/10/2010 14:17

I love it when a MNers first post is like this.

twirlymum · 15/10/2010 14:18

what wahwahwah said

mayorquimby · 15/10/2010 14:19

would love one right now.
not smoking at the moment as it's term and have decided to lay off it.

Lulumaam · 15/10/2010 14:20

ah, sweet, half term not for another week here

if you are serious, then needing something every night , without fail, to unwind would scream dependency

i don't think you can say you live a healhty lifestyle if you smoke weed everyday and are dependant on it to relax

if you need wine every night or you cannot relax, then you have a problem too

sue52 · 15/10/2010 14:20

Smoking is bad, bake low sugar brownies instead.

earlymorningwaking · 15/10/2010 14:23

YANBU! Looking forward to (someday) legalisation.

HowAnnoying · 15/10/2010 14:24

YABU to smoke every night, if you said a couple of times of week I would say YANBU.

I think taking most drugs in moderation is OK.

ZOMBIEEEESywriter · 15/10/2010 14:30

YABU.

Why risk getting caught and all the hassle that comes with that when you have two dependents?

Don't you care about them? They'll be aware that you're smoking weed before you realise it and do you really want to model such behaviour to them?

Hate to be a sour puss but at the end of the day it's not legal and until it is you shouldn't smoke it if you have kids, you've got too much to lose.

scotsmuminengland · 15/10/2010 14:31

YANBU - Gave up a long time ago but I still remember how good it was

Hammy02 · 15/10/2010 14:31

YANBU. I don't smoke anything but love a glass of wine every evening and don't see the difference.

TorcherQueenie · 15/10/2010 14:43

YANBU We spend perhaps £20 a month on ours its mostly for the husbands insomnia but I never turn one down either. DD7 vomited a week ago just after I had one and I sobered up a hell of a lot faster than I would of with a glass of wine or two!

Thingumy · 15/10/2010 14:44
DeadlyNightShadeofViolet · 15/10/2010 14:45

YABU

FindingMyMojo · 15/10/2010 14:45

cheers thingumy

YAsoooooNBU!

Thingumy · 15/10/2010 14:49

I don't smoke it anymore,dh and decided to try and relive our youth and bought some about 3 years ago,I had about 4 puffs and had a whitey from hell.

I'll stick with cheap white wine.

ShatnersBassoon · 15/10/2010 14:49

I'm outraged Shock

chimchARRRRGGGGHHHHHHH · 15/10/2010 14:49

yanbu Smile

MaMoTTaT · 15/10/2010 14:52
furryfungus · 15/10/2010 14:59

Mmmm....what a lovely environment for your children. Are you a fan of mental illness and under achievement?

FindingMyMojo · 15/10/2010 15:02

actually smoking is very old skool - you need a vaporizer!

AuntiePickleBottom · 15/10/2010 15:03

Top politicians, police chiefs and even some doctors are implying the drug should be regarded as a "safe" way to relax.

But they are the dopes. Cannabis KILLS.

Cannabis smoke contains FOUR TIMES as many cancer-causing chemicals as tobacco smoke, and can also lead to lung cancer, bronchitis and emphysema.

There is also evidence it can trigger heart attacks.

The drug can cause hallucinations, aggravate schizophrenia and other mental disorders and undermine the effects of anti-psychotic treatment.

Other effects include infertility and impotence. Excessive use has been linked to low sperm count and, in women, reduced fertility.

Supporters claim the drug relieves pain. Indeed, the Government is funding trials to see if it can help multiple sclerosis sufferers.

But the trials use a special type of cannabis inhaled as a vapour which does not allow the user to get high.

When the active element THC ( tetrahydrocannabinol ) is in full force in the illegal variety, it is dangerous.

As a cannabis smoker inhales, about 400 different chemicals are released into the bloodstream via the lungs.

It then rushes straight to the brain.

The pulse rate increases, blood pressure goes down, eyes become bloodshot and the mouth dry.

The "high" effects start minutes after smoking and can last up to four hours.

Many of the fifty-something liberals who praise the drug they took in their youth need to look at the facts. A shocking report earlier this year showed that smoking dope was worse for your health than smoking cigarettes.

This is because users like to inhale more deeply and keep the smoke in their lungs for as long as they can, to get the maximum high.

But they are depositing four times more burnt waste in the mouth, throat and windpipe than with cigarettes.

The study at New York's Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Centre showed the risk of head and neck cancer was 2.6 times greater among cannabis users than those who had never used it.

Cannabis use can lead people to think they can drive safely when they are lethal accidents waiting to happen.

The drug stays in the body's fatty tissues for several days after use. Smoking cannabis on a Saturday might impair your ability to drive until the following Wednesday.

In countries where tests are carried out, more drivers have accidents under the influence of marijuana than alcohol.

Unlike tobacco, cannabis persistently alters the molecular mechanisms of the brain.

Researchers have proved that users will develop short-term memory loss.

Regular users slowly become dependent and often fail to realise they are hooked.

They become lethargic and lack motivation. Cannabis is "a stealthily noxious substance" says consultant psychiatrist Dr Andrew Wilski, of the Pembury hospital in Tunbridge Wells, Kent.

He says of regular users"With time, a state of low motivation with reluctance to make constructive efforts in life develops. This can lead to a general sloth, aimlessness and depression.

"I am convinced that wide use of the drug would in the long run cause terrible psychological and social devastation."

There is also evidence that smoking cannabis can trigger heart attacks in older people.

A study in Boston, Massachusetts, showed the drug could increase the risk of cardiac arrest five-fold by increasing the heart rate by up to 40 beats per minute.

Other scientists found that the drug could cause cancerous tumours to grow faster by suppressing immunity.

Dr Steven Dubinett from the University of California, said"THC may encourage tumour growth."

Professor David London is part of a team of eminent physicians and psychiatrists who spent two years investigating the impact of drugs. He said"I don't think anyone should go away with the idea that cannabis is safe.

"We know the effects of tobacco. I would hate it if in ten years there were a similar epidemic of disease from the effects of cannabis smoking."