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salsmum · 12/10/2010 22:01

I work as a carer and a lovely lady who I work with told me that her grandson was circumcised a week ago (part of their religion) at 4 weeks old, by a priest and although hes still a bit sore its better to have it done when they are little because babies don't feel pain Shock.
Having 2 kids who are now adults I'm afraid I'm inclined to disagree with her.
I'd like to clearly state that I'm not against circumcision for what ever reason I just find it strange that she should think that babies dont feel pain Confused.

OP posts:
LynetteScavo · 13/10/2010 18:26

diddle, as is is possible. I know people who have had their baby boys circumsised shortly after birth at private hostpitals. I always presumed it was straight after birth, but I'm not sure.

lennon80 · 13/10/2010 18:35

Yeah that will be why..I have a massive issue with his penis. That is the thing with the internet and chat forums its often full of narrow minded and culturally parochial people who want to argue about things that they have very limited knowledge of. I am not wasting any more of my time on this as I can see it is totally futile as you do not listen you just want to score points with glib and highly immature comments. Enjoy the rest of your life with your blinkered outlook.

It lowers the transmission of HIV..an indisputable FACT..and the primary reason why I will protect my son because I cant be there ensuring he always wears a condom but this is something I can do for him.

www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/factsheets/circumcision.htm

colditz · 13/10/2010 18:40

So if you have fantastic reasons (as you seem very sure that you have) he will want it done at twelve, won't he?! So waiting will not have harmed him in any way.

lennon80 · 13/10/2010 18:43

No because it is a bigger procedure at 12 and healing time is much longer. When done between 1-12 weeks it takes 7 days to heal as opposed to weeks if he was 12. Its a minor day case procedure under local when he is tiny.

Miasma · 13/10/2010 18:45

"That is the thing with the internet and chat forums its often full of narrow minded and culturally parochial people"

You said it

I have nothing further to add except what when I said 'I fought' in my previous post I wasn't saying I had a fight with.. I was an iPhone correction for thought. Honestly!

colditz · 13/10/2010 18:45

But he will have had a choice. He will have had a say in what gets done to his penis. Don't you think that it's important not to remove parts of someone's body before they have a choice in the matter?

lennon80 · 13/10/2010 18:46

Male Circumcision and Risk for HIV Transmission

Several types of research have documented that male circumcision significantly reduces the risk of HIV acquisition by men during penile-vaginal sex.

Biologic Plausibility

Compared with the dry external skin surface, the inner mucosa of the foreskin has less keratinization (deposition of fibrous protein), a higher density of target cells for HIV infection (Langerhans cells), and is more susceptible to HIV infection than other penile tissue in laboratory studies [2]. The foreskin may also have greater susceptibility to traumatic epithelial disruptions (tears) during intercourse, providing a portal of entry for pathogens, including HIV [3]. In addition, the microenvironment in the preputial sac between the unretracted foreskin and the glans penis may be conducive to viral survival [1]. Finally, the higher rates of sexually transmitted genital ulcerative disease, such as syphilis, observed in uncircumcised men may also increase susceptibility to HIV infection [4].

International Observational Studies

A systematic review and meta-analysis that focused on male circumcision and heterosexual transmission of HIV in Africa was published in 2000 [5]. It included 19 cross-sectional studies, 5 case-control studies, 3 cohort studies, and 1 partner study. A substantial protective effect of male circumcision on risk for HIV infection was noted, along with a reduced risk for genital ulcer disease. After adjustment for confounding factors in the population-based studies, the relative risk for HIV infection was 44% lower in circumcised men. The strongest association was seen in men at high risk, such as patients at sexually transmitted disease (STD) clinics, for whom the adjusted relative risk was 71% lower for circumcised men.

Another review that included stringent assessment of 10 potential confounding factors and was stratified by study type or study population was published in 2003 [6]. Most of the studies were from Africa. Of the 35 observational studies in the review, the 16 in the general population had inconsistent results. The one large prospective cohort study in this group showed a significant protective effect: the odds of infection were 42% lower for circumcised men [7]. The remaining 19 studies were conducted in populations at high risk. These studies found a consistent, substantial protective effect, which increased with adjustment for confounding. Four of these were cohort studies: all demonstrated a protective effect, with two being statistically significant.

Ecologic studies also indicate a strong association between lack of male circumcision and HIV infection at the population level. Although links between circumcision, culture, religion, and risk behavior may account for some of the differences in HIV infection prevalence, the countries in Africa and Asia with prevalence of male circumcision of less than 20% have HIV infection prevalences several times higher than those in countries in these regions where more than 80% of men are circumcised [8].

International Clinical Trials

Three randomized controlled clinical trials were conducted in Africa to determine whether circumcision of adult males will reduce their risk for HIV infection. The study conducted in South Africa [9] was stopped in 2005, and those in Kenya [10] and Uganda [11] were stopped in 2006 after interim analyses found a statistically significant reduction in male participants? risk for HIV infection from medical circumcision.

In these studies, men who had been randomly assigned to the circumcision group had a 60% (South Africa), 53% (Kenya), and 51% (Uganda) lower incidence of HIV infection compared with men assigned to the wait-list group to be circumcised at the end of the study. In all three studies, a few men who had been assigned to be circumcised did not undergo the procedure, and vice versa. When the data were reanalyzed to account for these occurrences, men who had been circumcised had a 76% (South Africa), 60% (Kenya), and 55% (Uganda) reduction in risk for HIV infection compared with those who were not circumcised. The Uganda study investigators are also examining the following in an ongoing study: 1) safety and acceptability of male circumcision in HIV-infected men and men of unknown HIV infection status, 2) safety and acceptability of male circumcision in the men?s female sex partners, and 3) effect of male circumcision on male-to-female transmission of HIV and other STDs.

Male Circumcision and Male-to-Female Transmission of HIV

In an earlier study of couples in Uganda in which the male partner was HIV infected and the female partner was initially HIV-seronegative, the infection rates of the female partners differed by the circumcision status and viral load of the male partners. If the male?s HIV viral load was

lennon80 · 13/10/2010 18:48

Cost-Benefits and Ethical Issues for Neonatal Circumcision in the United States

A large retrospective study of circumcision in nearly 15,000 infants found neonatal circumcision to be highly cost-effective, considering the estimated number of averted cases of infant urinary tract infection and lifetime incidence of HIV infection, penile cancer, balanoposthitis, and phimosis. The cost of postneonatal circumcision was 10-fold the cost of neonatal circumcision [37]. Many parents now make decisions about infant circumcision based on cultural, religious, or parental desires rather than health concerns [38].

Some persons have raised ethical objections to asking parents to make decisions about elective surgery during infancy, particularly when it is done primarily to protect against risks of HIV and STDs that don?t occur until young adulthood, but other ethicists have found it an appropriate parental proxy decision [39].

Considerations for the United States

A number of important differences from sub- Saharan African settings where the three male circumcision trials were conducted must be considered in determining the possible role for male circumcision in HIV prevention in the United States. Notably, the overall risk of HIV infection is considerably lower in the United States, changing risk-benefit and cost-effectiveness considerations. Also, studies to date have demonstrated efficacy only for penile-vaginal sex, the predominant mode of HIV transmission in Africa, whereas the predominant mode of sexual HIV transmission in the United States is by penile-anal sex among MSM. There are as yet no convincing data to help determine whether male circumcision will have any effect on HIV risk for men who engage in anal sex with either a female or male partner, as either the insertive or receptive partner. Receptive anal sex is associated with a substantially greater risk of HIV acquisition than is insertive anal sex. It is more biologically plausible that male circumcision would reduce HIV acquisition risk for the insertive partner rather than for the receptive partner, but few MSM engage solely in insertive anal sex [40].

In addition, although the prevalence of circumcision may be somewhat lower in U.S. racial and ethnic groups with higher rates of HIV infection, most American men are already circumcised, and it is not known whether men at higher risk for HIV infection would be willing to be circumcised or whether parents would be willing to have their infants circumcised to reduce possible future HIV infection risk. Lastly, whether the effect of male circumcision differs by HIV-1 subtype, predominately subtype B in the United States and subtypes A, C, and D in circulation at the three clinical trial sites in Africa, is also unknown.

Summary

Male circumcision has been associated with a lower risk for HIV infection in international observational studies and in three randomized controlled clinical trials. It is possible, but not yet adequately assessed, that male circumcision could reduce male-to-female transmission of HIV, although probably to a lesser extent than female-to-male transmission. Male circumcision has also been associated with a number of other health benefits. Although there are risks to male circumcision, serious complications are rare. Accordingly, male circumcision, together with other prevention interventions, could play an important role in HIV prevention in settings similar to those of the clinical trials [41, 42].

Male circumcision may also have a role in the prevention of HIV transmission in the United States. CDC consulted with external experts in April 2007 to receive input on the potential value, risks, and feasibility of circumcision as an HIV prevention intervention in the United States and to discuss considerations for the possible development of guidelines.

As CDC proceeds with the development of public health recommendations for the United States, individual men may wish to consider circumcision as an additional HIV prevention measure, but they must recognize that circumcision 1) does carry risks and costs that must be considered in addition to potential benefits; 2) has only proven effective in reducing the risk of infection through insertive vaginal sex; and 3) confers only partial protection and should be considered only in conjunction with other proven prevention measures (abstinence, mutual monogamy, reduced number of sex partners, and correct and consistent condom use).

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colditz · 13/10/2010 18:49

And I haven't questioned the reliabilty of studies done on HIV and circumcision, I am questioning why you don't feel it's necessary to give your son a say in what you remove from his body. It's not a toenail clipping, it's a whole body part!

lennon80 · 13/10/2010 18:50

Miasma yes I did say it..because given I am a white woman who was brought up Catholic I am still able to look past my own narrow scope in order to benefit my child.

TandB · 13/10/2010 18:51

I am currently trying to pick my jaw off the floor where it has landed after dropping during my reading of this thread.

People actually, seriously, truly think that a good reason for lopping off a part of a child's body is that the child's mother prefers sex with a circumsised man? Is it just me or is it a bit weird to make this decision based on a child's future ability to sexually please his partner? That kind of reasoning has no place in a decision about a medical procedure which will cause pain to a child.

It's a no brainer for me - if it isn't necessary or beneficial in a medical sense, don't do it. I am honestly gobsmacked.

As regards the OP, my understanding is that newborns don't have fully developed nervous systems so while they can feel pain (as they would following a bit of their body being chopped off) their reaction to pain stimulus is delayed. So if a child was accidentally put in a bath that was too hot, there would be a slight delay before the child started screaming, meaning that the child could be badly scalded before the parent realised.

Miasma · 13/10/2010 18:52

I don't think you've got anyone convinced that your doing it for your son Lennon.

lennon80 · 13/10/2010 18:52

Coldtiz..for exactly the same reason you dont give your child a choice about what vaccinations they have. I bet you argued for the choice women made over the MMR and for them to decide NOT to have their children vaccinated didnt you?

colditz · 13/10/2010 18:54

I'm sorry, I genuinely, not-being-awkward-, did not understand your very last sentence - something about the MMR?

Miasma · 13/10/2010 18:57

Your vaccination argument is completly flawed.

Most of the diseases we vaccinate children against kill children.

Children do not get aids from unprotected sex.

lennon80 · 13/10/2010 18:58

oh there you go again Miasma..cant find a suitable retort so resort to suggesting I am a pervert because I want to circumcise my son..what kind of backward warped person are you?

Oh no thats right your just some fool on mumsnet who cant articulate themselves properly or does not have a clear definitive argument and so resorts to insults.

Miasma · 13/10/2010 19:00

Oh dear oh dear I don't even know where you are getting that from love, it must be in your mind, not mine!

colditz · 13/10/2010 19:00

Lennon - you haven't responded to anything that's been said to you in a measured manner, so your hissy fit at miasma is a little hypocritical.

I get where you are coming from on the vaccines thing now. but vaccines against childhood illnesses have to be given during childhood. Circumcision against aids can be put off until the child is somehwat approaching a sexually active age, as although a child might catch measles at 3, he certainly won't catch aids with his penis before he is twelve.

TandB · 13/10/2010 19:02

Um, I think it was actually me, not Miasma, who pointed out that the mother's sexual preferences should have no place in a decision about a medical procedure in a child.

lennon80 · 13/10/2010 19:02

Miasma..I am not providing a vaccination argument I am using it as a comparison. You are too much of a fuckwit to deal with so I am not going to reply to your posts any more. You clearly cannot follow the thread and its all too confusing for you.

Colditz..Basically I was making the point that it is a preventative measure and like vaccinations as my previous post stated it is a decision which is viewed by many ethicists as being an appropriate parental proxy decision.

Re MMR I was asking you your feelings/position about women refusing to give their children the vaccine?

TandB · 13/10/2010 19:03

And last time I checked, you can protect against STDs by wearing a condom, but no-one has invented a full-body measles-proof condom.

TandB · 13/10/2010 19:04

Oh, I didn't realise it was THAT sort of thread. Call people fuckwits and fools if they don't agree with you.
I'll close the door on my way out.....

lennon80 · 13/10/2010 19:05

No but like I said at 12 its much more healing time.

Actually I have answered everything that has been said in a measured way and that is totally unfair to suggest I havent..go back and read the posts. I do take offence at the real attack here from people who are not reading or comprehending what is being said..I mean now someone else has jumped on and is banging on about mothers sexual preference again..wtf?

Miasma · 13/10/2010 19:06

Says she who hasn't answered one question that's been put to her and is how resorting to name calling because she's not getting her own way.

Boo hoo

Toys out the pram !

lennon80 · 13/10/2010 19:08

kungfupanna...if I was suggesting that you trying to protect your child in the way you thought best from many hours of research into peer reviewed research papers then actually was all about your sexuality and tried to suggest you were perverted..you too would become rather angry and if you choose to look back at the thread you will see I have been ganged up on and verbally insulted by numerous people on this thread and I am getting totally sick of it now.