Demented, yours is a truly horrible story, I'm sad to hear it.
I really think it is the key to why things were handled as they were (and please do not for a second assume that I think it was the right way to handle it).
The fact that your Gran didn't believe it when it was her own son (as in, I presume you mean she didn't believe it could happen, not that it happened).
Not so long ago. Paedophiles barely existed, and I mean statistically, not in reality. A previous poster mentioned that if 10 adults weren't aware of child abuse then it didn't happen. Men were "allowed" to beat their wives, parents were allowed to hit their children.
I was not alive for most of that time but it definetely happened and this was the time when Ratzinger was being so ineffectual in bringing child abusers to justice.
Things have changed. Corporal punishment in schools is ended, men are no longer allowed to get away with beating their wives and children, rape is dealt with differently and child abuse is dealt with differently too.
I think that Ratzinger (at the time) was guilty of covering up child abuse by not standing up and being counted, he brushed it under the carpet because that was an option at the time. Nowdays, one would like to think someone in his position would be all over it and the perpetrators brought to justice quickly.
I just wish he would turn around and damn child abusers and set out a means of dealing with abuse within the church for and from today. Whilst he puts out a stream of progressively more severe statements regarding child abuse the church is damaged further.
I think Catholic bashing is rife. Any poster on these threads who isn't religious appears to be delighted to take the opportunity to point out how ridiculous it is to have faith.
And true, it is ridiculous, there is no proof and that's why it's called faith.
Booing is rude, but you kow what, I think it's fair enough. The booers have taken the time to travel and stand and wait their turn to show their displeasure and good on 'em. They're acting upon their beliefs. As will I tomorrow Cold Comfort when I will be genuflecting.
(I mean really CCF, f
k off!)
BDim witted sniping like that makes me
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