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AIBU or is dh a dickhead?

127 replies

Mowgli1970 · 10/09/2010 20:22

Dh got home before me, rang to see what to do for tea. I said pizza, potato and salad. Got home, he's cooked pizza and omelette so I asked where are the potatoes and salad? He replied he hadn't done them as he thought pizza and omelette would be enough. He got the pizza out of the oven, I said they're not quite cooked through. He flipped at this point, shouting that whenever he cooks I criticize him! Is it just me that thinks this is completely ott?!

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activate · 10/09/2010 21:02

oh FGS this is not a praise the bloke thing - he's being a twat - omelette and pizza is not a meal - it's two different things that shouldn't go togehter fgs

passive aggressive doing it wrong on purpose so he doesn't have to do it again

not sweet and trying

people who try do it right

scottishmummy · 10/09/2010 21:06

LOL,passive aggressive cooking.oh aye freud hes a vile dh alright

maryz · 10/09/2010 21:07

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Pan · 10/09/2010 21:07

I think activate has a point. Just not this one.Grin

lal123 · 10/09/2010 21:08

Nope Scottishmummy - looks like the concensus is that he should leave her....

HecateQueenOfWitches · 10/09/2010 22:35

This has got nothing to do with the gender of the person. It is about the rudeness of leaping in with the critical remarks and ignoring the things the person has done right. That is demoralising

AND it's the sort of thing that if a woman on here was describing being done to her by her male partner we'd have posters linking to checklists of abusive men and womens aid numbers!

cupcakesandbunting · 10/09/2010 22:39

FGS pizza and omelette?

Your husband is clearly coco loco. I am worried for you and worried for the tools on here who think that YABU.

Pizza and omelette. That's like when my ex cooked for me chips and jacket potato. His brain was wired up wrong.

scottishmummy · 10/09/2010 22:48

yep,if woman described husband criticising her cooking efforts.it would def be you are a goddess.how very dare he.the kick im in the clackers/id ave him crew would rock up shouting hes an abuser/leave him/call women aid

Pan · 10/09/2010 22:51

cupcakes. Why are you so aggressive? Have you been drinking?
yes, your ex's brain was def. wired wrong.Smile

cumfy · 10/09/2010 22:52

He should just have cooked tea.

What would OP say then ?

fruitstick · 10/09/2010 22:56

I can't believe I am being asked whether pizza and potato is more reasonable than pizza and omelette Hmm

cupcakesandbunting · 10/09/2010 22:59

It's my humour, Pan. Some people like it, some don't. Sorry if you don't

pointydog · 10/09/2010 23:00

yabu

SandStorm · 10/09/2010 23:01

I'd just be happy for someone to cook my dinner on a Friday night.

Pan · 10/09/2010 23:01

ok. no probs. just missed it.

maryz · 10/09/2010 23:30

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Marlie09 · 10/09/2010 23:30

Best laugh I've had all day.

Tell yr DH thanks for cheering me up.

Glad it's not just me who has these issues :o

tethersend · 10/09/2010 23:32

You're right, maryz- knob=door knob=cock.

nob is a member of the aristocracy, no?

pointydog · 10/09/2010 23:33

uh uh. Nob.

maryz · 10/09/2010 23:35

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hobbgoblin · 10/09/2010 23:37

dur pizza and potato is two carbs in one meal. It's WRONG man.

mumeeee · 10/09/2010 23:38

YABU, Your DH cooked tea and you criticize his cooking
We never have pototoes with Pizza. Omelette does seem a a bit strange, But you shoulsd have just let him get on with it.

tethersend · 10/09/2010 23:42

No, it's knob.

Shall we see what the pedants' take is on the issue?

Pan · 10/09/2010 23:45

Pedant here. And bloke. It's 'nob'. I know this.Smile

Stretch · 10/09/2010 23:48

tethersend Fri 10-Sep-10 20:41:16
Think of it as a cheese omelette with toast and tomato sauce. Just served differently.

It all goes to make a turd anyway.

Thanks, you have just made me snort! Grin Now ds2 is stirring.