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MN is quite happy to let innacurate thread titles be posted that could promote discrimination against disabled children and their famillies

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wasuup3000 · 24/08/2010 16:10

Title say's it all.

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Tiredmumno1 · 25/08/2010 21:24

oh good grief, then read the threads.

that poster went against the rules, so in fact we won as we dont have to listen to the offensive crap they were spouting no more, thank god.

Tiredmumno1 · 25/08/2010 21:28

ccpccp it was not just this thread that he was goading on.

he really was being an arrogant sod, and couldnt even find it in him to apologise for any offence he may have caused,

so not proud just glad, he said some horrid things, on the other thread aswell then decided to follow us, and carry on over here.

he broke the rules and was warned, but carried on doing it anyway, his fault his problem,

and maryz is a regular poster isnt she??????????

pigletmania · 25/08/2010 21:30

No she hasent got ODD sorry for not clarifying, she can be obstanent and defiant but I feel its part and parcel of normal toddler behaviour. I do feel though that it is at the best of times more than others though because of her communication difficulties. We are having a good week and are noticing positive developments. Still referral to Ed psych as the pre school would like to know how to support her in her communicaiton. Now that SALT has made her a communication board with pictures of different aspects of her daily routine, it has imporoved things a lot.

pagwatch · 25/08/2010 21:32

Hmm. Not sure.
I am not sure I am feeling proud he is gone.
I am quite pleased though that I haven't just roamed this thread all day to shit stir and tell other posters to STFU.

that I think would make me stand out as a pointless twat.

mary is a regular poster . Your barely concealed glee at her distress is not terribly flattering.

pigletmania · 25/08/2010 21:35

That is why we are putting referral to paed on hold as we are noticing so many positive changes. And feel that she just needs time to develop in her own time, the SALT has now agreed as she can see for herself. When first referred to SALT dd social communication was similar to ASD that is why SALT suggested a refferral to paed, but as the weeks have gone by dd 3.5 has really come out of her shell, enjoys social interaction and makes her own efforts to communicate to people and is getting to be more chatty. Ok she stil has a bit to go but i think that with the help from SALT and ED psych intervention she will continue to improve.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 25/08/2010 21:39

ccpccp - do you ever say anything nice?

2shoes · 25/08/2010 21:46

glad to see freedom to troll is more important to the feelings of others, lovely

ccpccp · 25/08/2010 21:47

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 25/08/2010 21:50

ccp-enjoy your victory? Sorry,but you sound about 13. And way too angry about someone else being banned.

pagwatch · 25/08/2010 21:53

yes. Absoloutely. Barely concealed glee.

your attempts at righteous indignation are hilarious. esapecially as you don't even know who mary is and were questioning whether she was a genuine poster.

Xenia · 25/08/2010 21:56

What did he say that was objectionable? Just give me one example - was it the writing style or the things said or swear words used?

Tiredmumno1 · 25/08/2010 21:58

ccp right now you are getting annoying, no one and i mean no one mentioned anything about teen suicides but breton, so no one had a hand in upsetting mary but breton.

there was no need to come out with that sort of thing, it was another line to upset people.

christ do you understand that. again no one but him said anything like that, so poor mary got upset because of one complete ignorant twunt

Tiredmumno1 · 25/08/2010 21:59

as above xenia

loopyloops · 25/08/2010 22:00

Assertions that teenagers commit suicide because of petty tiffs and to be cool was the big one really, which is obviously very upsetting if you've been affected by such a thing.

2shoes · 25/08/2010 22:00

Xenia why don't you read the thread that the troll started in AIBU if you are so interested.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 25/08/2010 22:02

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Xenia · 25/08/2010 22:02

What's the thread and I'll read it if I get time.

loopyloops · 25/08/2010 22:04

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ccpccp · 25/08/2010 22:04

No idea who MaryZ is - she deleted her posts rather than let others read them. Does that mean shes no longer on MN?

Of course I say nice things Fanjo, but not when I see bullying like I saw in some parts of this thread.

Pugwatch, yourself and others were instrumental in getting Breton banned (though he did himself no favours after getting the MNHQ warning). Too right shes felt good about it, though maybe not now she realises she may have contributed to MaryZ leaving.

Claw3 · 25/08/2010 22:07

Piglet, its lovely to hear that your dd is getting some support and making progress, i really hope it continues.

Ds was referred to SALT when he was 2 years old, at the time i was unaware of what i should expect as i didnt have mn and SALT basically fobbed me off! Other parents experiences on here have taught me so much.

Good luck Smile

Glitterknickaz · 25/08/2010 22:08

Bullying.... would that be making deliberately inflammatory remarks designed to cause maximum distress?

Cos that was Breton, Norwegian whatsisface and YOU. No one else.

loopyloops · 25/08/2010 22:09

Don't forget Sweden.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 25/08/2010 22:09

we aren't at school you know-although maybe you are? All this 'are you proud' stuff sounds a wee bit unhinged.

Tiredmumno1 · 25/08/2010 22:10

i dont think maryz has left mn, just the thread, she asked hers to be deleted as she was upset after what happened.

who can blame her.

bret had everything explained to him time and time again, along with facts like he asked but he carried on.

so it was pointless starting the thread in the first place if you are not going to lilsten the answers, but keep harping on that he was right and we were all wrong.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 25/08/2010 22:11

wonder who the trolls really are,it's all very strange

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