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How did Jonathan Ross come back from the Russell Brand/Andrew Sachs thing?

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Bandsis · Today 07:07

Quite apart from Russell Brand hiding in plain sight, how did Jonathan Ross ever work again?

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Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · Today 09:53

AtIusvue · Today 09:51

Chris Moyles I think

Yes, but I’m pretty sure that JR referred to it too.

Mmmnotsure · Today 09:53

SomeoneIsWrongOnTheInternet · Today 09:45

I wasn’t. It was very dependent on what area you were in. The north west was shit for this, the midlands more open. The north west is still very dominated by sex-determined roles and thinking.

A lot of places and people are always very determined to keep thinking that they are ‘the new wave’ though. There are still news stories every so often about ‘the first woman to do this that or the other’ - on the one hand it may show improvement, on the other it shows the extent of barriers in place especially if you are not living in London and the Home Counties. There is always far too much emphasis on ‘don’t they know it’s 2026’ as if the year numbers make any difference whatsoever to culture - I can assure you that everyone thought themselves too modern and sophisticated to have a war in 1914 too! That’s an ongoing bugbear for me. Culture is so easily swayed as long as people are easily swayed, and unfortunately the more privileged people are the more easily they tend to be swayed by passing breezes.

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Late 70s/80s, greater London. Girls did needlework, cookery. Boys did metalwork, woodwork. No question of anything different. When one girl did science A-level the only - and obvious - conclusion on the part of the lads was that she was a lesbian.

IroningWhileWatchingTV · Today 09:53

Th UK is far behind the US in terms of female equality.

‘Normal’ men need to step up more in the UK and call out this type of non funny, non clever, humiliating, put down behaviour which is predominantly against women.

As Sean Lock stated in a programme, one reason he hated RB was the fear that one of his daughters could bring home ‘that’. If men won’t protect their wives better, perhaps they will their daughters.

cloudtreecarpet · Today 09:54

AtIusvue · Today 09:51

Chris Moyles I think

He should be worried right now I would imagine.
Never liked him & he's another "bully" type of presenter.

AndresyFiorella · Today 09:55

I was shocked JR was invited to do Celebrity Traitors. The BBC have short memories

Rainandhail · Today 09:56

QuietChristmas2026 · Today 09:51

Oh god all these comments are reminding me, at the beginning of sixth form (so the very oldest of us might have turned 17 the previous week) the maths teacher was in a relationship with one of the students which had apparently started in the summer, so when she was definitely 16. It was not a secret, when the sixth formers went to the pub at the weekends he was there with them all, nothing hidden. He was openly known to have had a relationship with a different sixth former a few years previously too. I wonder how she feels about that now?

Yes- this is absolutely the culture I remember.

I also remember two Maths teachers openly discussing my 13 year old friends hair in front of her and the rest of the class. Isn’t her hair beautiful? The colour and how it contrasts with her jumper.

I was also assaulted by an old man when I was helping out on a French restoration site in my early 20s. He was in his 60s and he came into my bed while I was asleep and put his hand up into my bra and started kissing my neck. I woke up and shouted him off me.

The next day everyone was acting like I was putting them all out as I was fuming. No discussion of police or reporting it.

cloudtreecarpet · Today 09:57

UncleColm · Today 09:37

I relate to this...I was in my twenties at this time - I loved buying the magazines and reading all the celebrity gossip. But they had articles like 'the circle of shame' where they would highlight any spots/cellulite/fat, etc on women. Or they would have whole articles on how some celebrity (almost always women) had gained weight. Women could be very cruel to women....but I didn't give it a lot of thought at the time - in hindsight it was awful, showing no caring at all towards the feelings of those people who were being criticised.

I remember working in a cafe around the year 2000 and customers sitting with their coffee looking at page three girls - I hated those 'newspapers'... We never had them in my house growing up. And those girls were so young.

I absolutely hated Little Britain - dreadful 'comedy' even at the time.

Going to a garage/workshop with my car & having to talk to the mechanic in the office while surrounded by calendars/posters of topless women.
I hated that kind of thing!
Bloody hated page 3!

Alexisclarerose · Today 09:58

I think this every time I hear him on Classic FM. I remember when it happened - him laughing along like a complete and utter twat and can’t believe he’s come up smelling of
roses

45fh · Today 09:59

Vintlet · Today 09:48

@Thundertoast
Joanna Lumley is eight years older than her husband. She met him as a school boy. He was at her son's school. Later she bumped into him again and they married. They are clearly very happy and I like Joanna. Do you damn Joanna for marrying someone she met when he was just a school boy and she was the Mum of a fellow student?

Eh?

How on earth could she be the 'mum of a fellow student' when she had her son at 21, so her H to be would have been 13 at the time and would have finished school by the time JL's son would even be starting school???

Lomonald · Today 10:00

QuietChristmas2026 · Today 09:44

Late 80s, office job, wasn't allowed to wear trousers.

My god actual adult women! We were eventually allowed to wear trousers in winter by the time I was leaving school, but it was just if it was snowing ! I live in Scotland so there was snow but still!

rosagarten · Today 10:01

WinterKitchen · Today 08:37

Georgina said that her grandparents blamed her for the whole thing, not those two twats.

That is genuinely terrible. Poor woman.

zingally · Today 10:02

I think because he was the biggest name. He already had a much more established reputation and was a big cash cow. The BBC let him go VERY reluctantly, and ITV were very happy to take a chance on him. I think he also got away with it, because he's managed to keep a pretty low profile since then, going more mainstream, and kept his nose clean.

RaspberryCoffeePot · Today 10:02

LumberPainJackie · Today 07:24

Men forgot, a lot of women didn't. Men and boys clubs control the media still. I dont think ppl who put him on shows are women...

I think JR is a bit of a bore. I used to think he was edgy when I was younger, but as I've got older I've realized he's a bit of a nerd who just talks fast, which gives the illusion of being interesting.

Unaisarmyofone · Today 10:02

QuietChristmas2026 · Today 09:44

Late 80s, office job, wasn't allowed to wear trousers.

90s school PE - girls weren't allowed to run more than 800 metres for our 'long distance' on sports day, the boys got 800m and a mile.

Same era the girls got kicked off the hockey pitch mid match so the boys could practise. There was at least a parental outcry about that one though.

SheilaFentiman · Today 10:03

Both a man and a woman at the BBC resigned over the incident. a higher- up (the woman) resigned because they were overall in charge and the man with more direct knowledge also resigned:

On the evening of 30 October it was announced that Controller of Radio 2 Lesley Douglas had tendered her resignation, which had been accepted.[26] Her resignation letter did not address the question of whether she had approved the pre-recorded show for transmission.[27] That day, Ross was suspended without pay from all BBC shows for a period of twelve weeks.[28]

The BBC issued an apology on 8 November, stating that the calls were "grossly offensive" and a "serious breach of editorial standards".[29]The corporation apologised specifically to Sachs and Baillie, and also to licence fee payers. The evening before this formal apology, David Barber, head of Specialist Music and Compliance at Radio 2, also resigned.

I think similar happened over the Trump broadcast - a very senior person resigned quickly to show corporate remorse, and then later review leads to more resignations of those directly involved in decisions

AgentKim · Today 10:04

Ive never understood why these people are on the TV over and over. They are not talented and the people behind them who turn a blind eye should be put in the dock as well. J R is a horrible human being and is not anyone I like to see on the telly.
There must be loads of people that can do the same job yet they use the same people again and again.
What makes me sad is when a girl is too scared to complain about any sexual wrong doing that may have happened, or just told to be quiet because the star for some reason , is too big. This happens over and over again and must stop. The cover up is just as bad as the crime.

AtIusvue · Today 10:06

Has ITV had anywhere near the same scandals?

Is it because there’s something going on with the specific culture at the BBC?

Because it’s funded by the taxpayer, so held to higher standards and more interest for the press to investigate?

Because the BBC are much bigger? More likely to have more scandals.

That if there is something going on, it’s easier for ITV, as a private company to cover things up?

Why is the BBC forever caught up in this stuff?

We know there’s the Philip Schofield stuff at ITV but it seems like every year there’s a BBC scandal where lessons will be learned.

Violetparis · Today 10:07

cloudtreecarpet · Today 09:15

You were a child but I was a full grown adult.

However, I grew up in an era where boys at school "pinged" girls bra straps, made vile sexist comments regularly and even felt us up to see if we were wearing sanitary pads then made jokes about us being "on the blob".
We laughed along with it, thought it was "normal", would never have complained about it & wouldn't have been listened if we had. So I think we didn't see the toxicity of the late 90s/2000s for what it was at the time because male privilege, mysogny etc was just ingrained in us, almost part of our DNA.

I am glad my daughters are young adults in a very different time & would speak up about things I wouldn't have.
Still a long way to go though and the rise of incels and the manosphere is a worrying trend that I hope gets stamped out.

I am mid 50s and I now sadly think there will be no era for women where they are not oppressed. Lived through the blatent sexism of the 70s and 80s, lad culture and now the trans rights movement which insists women should not have single sex spaces and are fascists if they disagree. I was so niave and hopeful when I was younger.

BrandiedAromatics · Today 10:07

Vanessa Feltz explains well how she was mesmerised by Brand but then it just isn't funny ...

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EasternStandard · Today 10:07

BadSkiingMum · Today 09:31

I remember not knowing what to think about that incident at the time. It was all just grim.

Brand was always utterly repellent to me and has now been shown to be a horrific predator, but it is quite interesting to note that it was actually Jonathan Ross who first brought Georgina Baillie into the prank phone call and turned it sexual, by shouting ‘He fucked your granddaughter!’.

Georgina Baillie’s performance persona was quite sexualised at the time (burlesque etc), which didn’t help her portrayal in the press. But it was Andrew Sachs who didn’t speak to his own granddaughter for years after the incident. Talk about shaming from those closest to you…It was all such a mess.

This article is quite interesting explaining the whole incident from Georgina Baillie’s point of view:
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2011/aug/13/georgina-baillie-adam-ant

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Interesting to hear her pov. I’m glad they made up.

Horses7 · Today 10:08

I remember this incident well as it was so shocking.
JR was actually worse (just) than RB during the radio show and he only had 12 weeks without pay from BBC, not sacked and he didn’t resign in shame.
I hope someone or something comes back to bite him - horrible man with a big ego.

SheilaFentiman · Today 10:08

Vintlet · Today 09:48

@Thundertoast
Joanna Lumley is eight years older than her husband. She met him as a school boy. He was at her son's school. Later she bumped into him again and they married. They are clearly very happy and I like Joanna. Do you damn Joanna for marrying someone she met when he was just a school boy and she was the Mum of a fellow student?

PP seems to think you have the timeline wrong.

But if you can’t see a difference between meeting someone briefly whilst they were still at school and then meeting them as an adult and starting a relationship, and a 26 year old dating a 16 year old, then I don’t know what you are smoking.

Hadroncollideer · Today 10:08

FancyKitten · Today 07:29

This type of humour was a thing during that era, we sometimes forget. They went too far on that particular occasion. But it wasn’t live, was it? The production team had okayed it. Imagine the laffs with the boys behind the scenes... Until it bit them on the arse!

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Agree, it was very much the shock jock, lads era.

Chris Evans said some appalling things on his radio 1 breakfast show. It was in many ways car crash radio. Hes very much reinvented himself as a cosy nice family man.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · Today 10:10

Quite apart from anything else, I find JR’s voice very irritating. I have to switch off his Classic FM slot.

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