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How did Jonathan Ross come back from the Russell Brand/Andrew Sachs thing?

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Bandsis · Today 07:07

Quite apart from Russell Brand hiding in plain sight, how did Jonathan Ross ever work again?

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LeaveMooFreealonepleaseCadburys · Today 15:14

Horses7 · Today 14:58

Perhaps not the rapist brush but his behaviour towards Andrew Sachs was deplorable - remember he shouted down the phone RB has f***d your granddaughter amongst other things that were said.
This is just one thing we’re aware of - he is really awful, perhaps he was just nice in front of you - doesn’t make him an angel.
edited - as rapist became spell checked to racist!!

Edited

Behaviour not just towards Andrew Sachs but also to his granddaughter actually.

Thundertoast · Today 15:15

Imdunfer · Today 13:45

Either grooming is evil or grooming is capable of producing three children from a long standing marriage in a business which usually breaks relationships down and five adults who adore each other and won't say a word against each other, in which case exactly how evil can that be?

Which is it?

Or is it just possible that there can be healthy love matches between a 16 year old and a 26 year old?

Whats your lower limit to this logic, out of interest? 14 and 24? 10 and 20?

SheilaFentiman · Today 15:18

Willow12345 · Today 15:00

Agree @queenceleste
Seems bizarre that there’s been no investigation?
She was 13 when they first had a relationship, he was 47. He then married her when she was 18 and he was 52. Marriage didn’t last of course.
All very grim.

This from a daily express article:

When the scandal first emerged, Mandy was questioned by police but she and her family refused to press charges.

She said: “What good would it do? What happened happened. And I suppose because we did go on to get married when I was 18 it didn’t seem as bad.

Imdunfer · Today 15:22

Thundertoast · Today 15:15

Whats your lower limit to this logic, out of interest? 14 and 24? 10 and 20?

I'm talking about Jonathan Ross and his 38 year marriage to Jane Goldman. The age ranges you mention are both irrelevant and illegal.

napody · Today 15:22

Puppylucky · Today 12:59

How do you know Jane Goldman was a virgin when she met Jonathan Ross? You are reaching a bit now!

Re reading I did make it sound like that so fair comment. My point was a general one based on men dating much younger women based on misogynistic ideas about 'body count'. Him being geeky again no way negates that- a geeky 26 year old could easily be intimidated by the experience of women his own age and prefer a child (that's what a 16 year old is although they've reached the age of consent).

Totally agree @thundertoast's point on the 'she was mature for her age' defence, especially if @puppylucky met her at 17so AFTER she's got involved with a man in his mid to late 20s.

I know it happens. I know it can result in stable long term relationships. I don't know her personal background and nobody actually knows how 'vulnerable' (you keep using that word) another person is. We have an age of consent based on our view that all children are vulnerable by virtue of their age, and that large age gaps with a teenager as the younger partner again have an asymmetry by virtue of the ages involved, other factors notwithstanding.

I would also be interested in your lower limit- 15 years and 364 days? 14?
I still think the gap is highly questionable, and combined with the Sachsgate behaviour it contributes to me extremely low view of him. Just because misogyny is massively widespread doesn't mean it can't be called out, and patterns like this point towards misogyny.

PetulaGordeno · Today 15:24

queenceleste · Today 14:29

The relationship which still horrifies me is Bill Wyman and Mandy Smith. They met when she was 13. It’s such a sad story. Didn’t seem to cause him that much trouble.

He’s just been on Brandreth’s podcast and it made me wretch.
As does the Wogan interview with them around their marriage, sitting there talking about her like she was invisible.
He knew she was 13. She may have looked older but 17 tops. We all did in the 80’s I was in clubs at 14/15. Thank God I wasn’t beautiful like her. It was like a curse.
No wonder she was always ill. I can remember reading her autobiography and it was actually a good read. I think she’s in a better place now.
Sadly her second husband was awful to her but at least he was closer in age.
Her mother had a lot to answer for. She let her daughter move in with that disgusting Wyman at 14/15.
But I think he was the one who got caught as the tabloids went to town.
I think in the 60’s/70’s rock stars regularly slept with very young girls.
I do remember one big star said in the 80’s touring the U.S. he was informed of the age of consent in each state as he arrived there.
I hope Mandy Smith is well, wherever she is. Now and again when I see an old pic of her I think she was so, so lovely. In an era when there were enhancers or fillers.

sandyrose · Today 15:28

Horses7 · Today 14:58

Perhaps not the rapist brush but his behaviour towards Andrew Sachs was deplorable - remember he shouted down the phone RB has f***d your granddaughter amongst other things that were said.
This is just one thing we’re aware of - he is really awful, perhaps he was just nice in front of you - doesn’t make him an angel.
edited - as rapist became spell checked to racist!!

Edited

Yes that was awful and I didn’t work with him
until some years later so perhaps he changed. But my point was that I haven’t seen any signs that he behaved in a predatory way behind the scenes, unlike RB and others. I wouldn’t know what he was aware of and wasn’t but I don’t think it’s a good idea to make assumptions about something so serious.

PetulaGordeno · Today 15:31

For anyone below my age demographic, I would say 50 and under I lived in an era when a wrinkly Rolling Stone, Bill Wyman, dated a 13 year old girl and married her at 18. She is Mandy Smith.
They appeared on chat shows, the news teams filmed their wedding and asked everyone for twee comments although I do love that the Stones’ drummer had a face like thunder. Packed full of celebs all having a lovely time while the bride had gone down to about 6 stone, looking like she’d been captured.
She moved in with him at 14, with her mother’s encouragement.
And the mother? She married the rock star’s SON. I shit you not. So JR marrying his young wife made few waves by comparison.

How did Jonathan Ross come back from the Russell Brand/Andrew Sachs thing?
napody · Today 15:32

sandyrose · Today 15:28

Yes that was awful and I didn’t work with him
until some years later so perhaps he changed. But my point was that I haven’t seen any signs that he behaved in a predatory way behind the scenes, unlike RB and others. I wouldn’t know what he was aware of and wasn’t but I don’t think it’s a good idea to make assumptions about something so serious.

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I don't think anyone suggested that he has done anything illegal? Just that we need to raise the bar and there should be social consequences for men who enable and encourage other men in this way.

LeaveMooFreealonepleaseCadburys · Today 15:37

napody · Today 15:32

I don't think anyone suggested that he has done anything illegal? Just that we need to raise the bar and there should be social consequences for men who enable and encourage other men in this way.

Exactly that. We need to call out all behaviour that treats women as objects

Boomer55 · Today 15:43

Bandsis · Today 07:07

Quite apart from Russell Brand hiding in plain sight, how did Jonathan Ross ever work again?

I don’t like him, but why wouldn’t he work again? It was a tasteless phone gag. 🤷‍♀️♥️

Horses7 · Today 15:45

LeaveMooFreealonepleaseCadburys · Today 15:14

Behaviour not just towards Andrew Sachs but also to his granddaughter actually.

Yes his granddaughter suffered too (she had also been in a relationship with RB) and says she became an addict as a result of the phone calls.
Also she didn’t have a relationship with AS for 8 years, spoke again shortly before his death.
Can’t believe JR and RB ‘got off’ so lightly after Sachsgate.

SheilaFentiman · Today 15:51

Horses7 · Today 15:45

Yes his granddaughter suffered too (she had also been in a relationship with RB) and says she became an addict as a result of the phone calls.
Also she didn’t have a relationship with AS for 8 years, spoke again shortly before his death.
Can’t believe JR and RB ‘got off’ so lightly after Sachsgate.

She hadn’t “also” been in a relationship with RB, that’s what the call was about, she wasn’t in a relationship with JR.

According to this article, it was 3 years and not 8

And she was making progress coming off drugs before the call was broadcast, rather than the call causing her to become addicted

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2011/aug/13/georgina-baillie-adam-ant

Don’t get me wrong. The call was awful and the decision to broadcast it was terrible.

Horses7 · Today 16:07

SheilaFentiman · Today 15:51

She hadn’t “also” been in a relationship with RB, that’s what the call was about, she wasn’t in a relationship with JR.

According to this article, it was 3 years and not 8

And she was making progress coming off drugs before the call was broadcast, rather than the call causing her to become addicted

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2011/aug/13/georgina-baillie-adam-ant

Don’t get me wrong. The call was awful and the decision to broadcast it was terrible.

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Can’t understand your quibbling … but if you quibble get your facts right.
I’ve just re-read HER interview from today - she says her relationship never recovered with AS and she didn’t see or speak to him FOR 8 YEARS!!
She also claims RB ruined her life and she spiralled into alcohol and drug addictions
Perhaps she’s fibbing?? Jeez!
By my using the word ‘also’ another quibble of yours I don’t understand what you’re talking about. I clearly didn’t mean she’d been in a relationship with JR.

Are you Mrs Brand or Mrs Ross??

SheilaFentiman · Today 16:14

Horses7 · Today 16:07

Can’t understand your quibbling … but if you quibble get your facts right.
I’ve just re-read HER interview from today - she says her relationship never recovered with AS and she didn’t see or speak to him FOR 8 YEARS!!
She also claims RB ruined her life and she spiralled into alcohol and drug addictions
Perhaps she’s fibbing?? Jeez!
By my using the word ‘also’ another quibble of yours I don’t understand what you’re talking about. I clearly didn’t mean she’d been in a relationship with JR.

Are you Mrs Brand or Mrs Ross??

Sigh. Of course I’m not married to either of them. Don’t be ridiculous.

Could you link to the article/interview you mentioned? You are asking me to get my facts right, but I linked to the interview from which I got my facts. If you have a different source, please link it.

What did you mean by “also” in your earlier post, then? It was not clear to me, and you just saying “clearly” doesn’t make a thing clear.

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