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Words and phrases that make you shudder

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GreatUserName · 05/10/2026 20:25

We all know MN hates the word 'moist' and the term 'picky bits' but what other words or phrases do you dislike?

The word flesh gives me the creeps.
<involuntary shudder>

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GreatUserName · 07/10/2026 11:42

Yupstillhere · 07/10/2026 10:30

Chocs.

Shudder!!

Edited

Or Choccies

Hot choccy
Posh choccies

OP posts:
GreatUserName · 07/10/2026 11:43

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 07/10/2026 10:53

Oh that's reminded me of another one, also about fruit

'Chopped into' (cereal or muesli)

Is 'Cutted up' better? 😂

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ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 07/10/2026 11:46

Tina46 · 06/10/2026 23:09

Just thought of another Mumsnet one.

'teacher here' or 'dentist here' at the start of a comment.

‘Think’ does my head in. It’s ridiculously unnecessary.

I work with children - think nursery setting.

I have a high cardio hobby - think cycling.

I have food allergies - think lactose intolerance.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 07/10/2026 11:46

Yupstillhere · 07/10/2026 10:30

Chocs.

Shudder!!

Edited

Or fizz, and biccies.

SparkyBlue · 07/10/2026 12:02

The words Shall and Poorly just irritate the life out of me. Also the word lounge. It’s a living room or a sitting room to me I find it odd hearing lounge but I totally get that it’s a cultural /regional thing. Describing your spouse as your “other half” also sets me off but what really grates on me is people calling some person they are barely dating their “partner”. There was a post on here a while back where someone referred to their schoolgirl daughter’s boyfriend as their daughter partner. I mean a teenage boyfriend isn’t a bloody life partner. Not saying they might not end up together long term but at this stage it’s her boyfriend. Also people referring to my “new partner”. If he is new then he’s hardly your partner at this stage . Partner to me is a longterm committed relationship.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 07/10/2026 12:04

Yes, i agree about ‘other half’. Nobody is the other half of me, and I wouldn’t want anyone to be, either.

Lovemelovemycat · 07/10/2026 12:27

Ride or die
Middle for diddle
This one
Win/win
Scoot
Sustenance
Shits and giggles
Slay
Sure I’ll think of some more

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 07/10/2026 12:28

I’ve never heard of ‘ride or die’. What does it mean?

Lovemelovemycat · 07/10/2026 12:30

Oh yes; the misuse of ‘iconic’ when it really really isn’t.
’Grab’ a coffee
Can I get. No, it’s may I have

Lovemelovemycat · 07/10/2026 12:30

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 07/10/2026 12:28

I’ve never heard of ‘ride or die’. What does it mean?

F knows.

sherbetlemonade · 07/10/2026 12:33

Oh god, yes. It is something DH says when he has more than one item of information to impart.

"Things various"

AAARGHHHH.

Madamefroufrou · 07/10/2026 12:37

crucified - not so much shudderable as monumentally offensive

chocolatestodgeandcustard · 07/10/2026 12:46

"Pieces" for items of clothing, as in "I picked up a few pieces from M & S yesterday."

"Elevate"
"Glow up" - now being used about homeware.
"I'm loving. . ." or from "content creators" (which also makes me cringe), "We're loving. . ."

Madamefroufrou · 07/10/2026 12:48

ect
hubs/hubby
pop - in all its patronising manifestations or
pop - in all its denotions of time savvy ness

it is what it is

to each his/their own - shudder - when used to close down a discussion,
double shudder

we don’t take cash

so many …

iloveanearlynight · 07/10/2026 13:19

I'm 'excited for' Autumn..
No you're fucking not. You may be excited ABOUT it (if you're 5 years old) but you can't be excited on behalf of a season.

Can't we just say looking forward to, any more?

Yolandyouhoo · 07/10/2026 13:22

My particular bugbear is the word ‘perfect’. I’ve just been speaking to a medical professional who said perfect after everything I said.

iloveanearlynight · 07/10/2026 13:27

The ever increasing normalisation of using 'f' instead of 'th'. It's not Mafs, it's maths. It's not free, it's three. It's everywhere and so lazy.

In a similar vein, 'anythink' and 'somethink'. There are no such words. Please speak properly. You sound incredibly thick speaking like that.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 07/10/2026 14:05

GreatUserName · 07/10/2026 11:43

Is 'Cutted up' better? 😂

No it is not. Every time I reach for a pear I think of that phrase. 🙄

Norwaygirl · 07/10/2026 14:14

aminchargeist · 05/10/2026 20:30

Toilet and Posh

What's wrong with the word toilet? I hate people saying trouser for trousers, red lip for red lips, math for maths.
Also the latest mispronounced med-i- eval as med - eeval and mischievous as misch- eevious. Why are people missing a syllable from one and adding a syllable to another?

BeeCucumber · 07/10/2026 14:23

“Reach out” - you contact someone
”Cos” - its because
“Brought” - instead of bought
”Iconic” - is it a Russian idol?
”Curate” - are you a museum or art gallery?
”Kinda of” - either it is or it isn’t

Oneearringlost · 07/10/2026 14:26

I came across the word "Meekend" today, as in a weekend for "me".
It was mentioned in the i newspaper, as the portmanteau words that Gen Z tend to use, like "bromance, Brunch, Staycation, Chillax" etc..
Not keen.

Pepperlee · 07/10/2026 14:37

iloveanearlynight · 07/10/2026 13:27

The ever increasing normalisation of using 'f' instead of 'th'. It's not Mafs, it's maths. It's not free, it's three. It's everywhere and so lazy.

In a similar vein, 'anythink' and 'somethink'. There are no such words. Please speak properly. You sound incredibly thick speaking like that.

I agree. It makes me cringe.

Norwaygirl · 07/10/2026 14:40

Oneearringlost · 07/10/2026 14:26

I came across the word "Meekend" today, as in a weekend for "me".
It was mentioned in the i newspaper, as the portmanteau words that Gen Z tend to use, like "bromance, Brunch, Staycation, Chillax" etc..
Not keen.

Meekend! That's the worst yet.

JaneJeffer · 07/10/2026 14:41

Oneearringlost · 07/10/2026 14:26

I came across the word "Meekend" today, as in a weekend for "me".
It was mentioned in the i newspaper, as the portmanteau words that Gen Z tend to use, like "bromance, Brunch, Staycation, Chillax" etc..
Not keen.

I don’t think Gen Z can be blamed for those words!

DosPerros · 07/10/2026 14:43

The number of people out and about who refer to their child as ‘baby’, ‘bubba’ or ‘bubs’.

He’s six FGS!!!!