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Which poster would you be gutted to see disappear from Mumsnet?

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AndyouWILLATONE · 02/10/2026 19:39

Which poster would you be gutted to see disappear from Mumsnet?

You know the ones. You see their username and think, excellent, they’re here.

Who are your Mumsnet favourites? No smooching required, just appreciation. 😏

OP posts:
Moveoverdarlin · 02/10/2026 22:45

Literally couldn’t name one. I don’t even look at user names.

QuimReaper · 02/10/2026 22:45

@SoMuchToBits nowadays when you want to tag someone as I have you just now, you type an ampersand and start typing and the website produces a dropdown so you can tag the poster. We used to just bold their name back in the day so we had to type the whole thing out, now you just need to eyeball the first couple of letters to tag someone.

KTSl1964 · 02/10/2026 22:46

I miss Anyfucker too - she was so straight forward and to the point - does anyone know what happened to her?

SoMuchToBits · 02/10/2026 22:47

@QuimReaper yes, I know how to do that, but didn't realise that was the same thing as autofill! I'm really not very tech savvy, sorry! Blush

QuimReaper · 02/10/2026 22:49

I think AF still lurks, and pops up from time to time.

The internet has evolved so much, I think few people spend as much time in one place as they used to 15ish years ago. I know I read more than I post nowadays

QuimReaper · 02/10/2026 22:50

@SoMuchToBits My use of 'autofill' was probably the problem, doubtless the wrong terminology!

researchers3 · 02/10/2026 22:51

Used to be AnyFucker back in the day. No nonsense but kind.

No idea if she's still on here but in another guise.

SoMuchToBits · 02/10/2026 22:53

QuimReaper · 02/10/2026 22:50

@SoMuchToBits My use of 'autofill' was probably the problem, doubtless the wrong terminology!

It's much more likely that I don't know what I'm talking about! Grin

prh47bridge · 02/10/2026 22:55

Dullhead · 02/10/2026 20:32

She’ll still be on Mumsnet just under a different name

I don't think she is. She used to confidently post incorrect advice on the Work and Legal matters boards, and would try to shout down those offering correct advice. I think I would recognise her style. It has been years since I've seen her.

ThatCyanCat · 02/10/2026 22:57

KTSl1964 · 02/10/2026 22:46

I miss Anyfucker too - she was so straight forward and to the point - does anyone know what happened to her?

She admitted having a second home during Covid and her star fell.

I never understood why she was popular. People said she was so straightforward and helpful but all I ever saw was her haranguing women who had just received shocking news about their relationships and hadn't thrown him out and cut up his suits within thirty seconds. She also couldn't accept her young adult children's sexuality and thought she could dictate what consensual, legal activity they got up to in their own bedrooms with long term monogamous partners.

DyslexicPoster · 02/10/2026 22:58

I have been on here since having my pfb many years ago. The only posters I recognise are on long running threads. I have changed names multiple times. So no one sticks out anymore.

Matzochist · 02/10/2026 23:01

Gnr24 · 02/10/2026 19:54

I was coming on to say MrsTerryPratchett, I see a couple of posters agree.
I've always thought she was wise and someone you could go to for advice.

I also agree!

Is AnyFucker still around?

SequinsandSlippers · 02/10/2026 23:01

I was gutted and still am to have lost polkadotsandmoonbeams from our Glitterball threads a couple of years back. They were very knowledgeable on dance, friendly, and used to start our Strictly threads <waves to eine who took over and continues to do a sterling job.> Flowers
But I often wonder where polka went/if something happened to them. I guess we'd never know.

PrettyLittleRose · 02/10/2026 23:02

ThatCyanCat · 02/10/2026 22:57

She admitted having a second home during Covid and her star fell.

I never understood why she was popular. People said she was so straightforward and helpful but all I ever saw was her haranguing women who had just received shocking news about their relationships and hadn't thrown him out and cut up his suits within thirty seconds. She also couldn't accept her young adult children's sexuality and thought she could dictate what consensual, legal activity they got up to in their own bedrooms with long term monogamous partners.

Yes I never got the love for this poster (AF) either. As has been said, it's all subjective.

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cabus · 02/10/2026 23:03

Haven't seen ShatnersWig in a while. An interesting and thoughtful man, rare on here, always did his research.

PrettyLittleRose · 02/10/2026 23:04

britneyisfreebutnotokay · 02/10/2026 20:16

Bluntness1000 I think she was called. Miss her!

I don't.

grinandslothit · 02/10/2026 23:09

Two of my favorites are already gone
Anyfucker and Xenia

QuimReaper · 02/10/2026 23:15

all I ever saw was her haranguing women who had just received shocking news about their relationships and hadn't thrown him out and cut up his suits within thirty seconds

Likewise and perfectly put!I posted in the Relationships topic once about a crisis and regretted it.

Mind you I went on to marry him and then divorce him so maybe she was on to something Grin

OsfameronTanamoril · 02/10/2026 23:17

Xenia! She was so entertaining with her " I went back to work 30 minutes after giving birth" and " I closed a deal for my client while watching my son win a race at Sports Day". 😀

PrettyLittleRose · 02/10/2026 23:17

grinandslothit · 02/10/2026 23:09

Two of my favorites are already gone
Anyfucker and Xenia

Definitely subjective! 😬

sherbetlemonade · 02/10/2026 23:17

AndyouWILLATONE · 02/10/2026 20:03

Does anyone else read a post and think this has to be so and so under a name change? Like you recognise their style of writing?

Yes, but they are usually the goady whatsits, the oddballs, and the occasional one who posts two near identical drama threads a couple of months apart under two different usernames, not realising that some posters have long memories!

PrettyLittleRose · 02/10/2026 23:18

OsfameronTanamoril · 02/10/2026 23:17

Xenia! She was so entertaining with her " I went back to work 30 minutes after giving birth" and " I closed a deal for my client while watching my son win a race at Sports Day". 😀

😆

GiveOverWillYou · 02/10/2026 23:21

In general I love this site for the willingness of people to reach out to each other at any time of the day or night with advice/support/handholds etc so in that respect I would miss the majority of posters if they disappeared (not the arseholes obviously, but helpfully they usually show themselves as such and can therefore be avoided)

I will forever revere and miss LangCleg!

I also admire and am so grateful for the wisdom
of many of the women here ❤️

Datun (legend), EreshKiga, HelleofaBore, EmpressK, Hoardasaurus, , Redtoothbrush, Igmum, GaspodeTheWonderDog, Nauticant et al

Wonderful x

RoobarbsCustard · 02/10/2026 23:23

Shloopie · 02/10/2026 22:21

Is Crumbs still here? The one with the candlelit cumberland sausage, five perfect children, and the Parisian hotel bedroom?

Haha I remember her / the hotel bedroom…

RoobarbsCustard · 02/10/2026 23:24

OsfameronTanamoril · 02/10/2026 23:17

Xenia! She was so entertaining with her " I went back to work 30 minutes after giving birth" and " I closed a deal for my client while watching my son win a race at Sports Day". 😀

I think she was here until even recently? Although my concept of recently is getting further off the older I get.