What wouldn't you admit out loud ?

[2ndNatureTime]

Im sure they'll be lots of judgement on here as always but here we go

I really wish I hadn't married my 1st husband. He was a loser and still is.
I find 99% of kids so dull

Still blows my mind that we all exist but nobody had any control over being here at all and only because two people decided to have sex ( majority of the time , I know it’s not like that for every child born with IVF and so on) and how one may be born to extreme wealth and others so poor. Just how many sperm the average man has and we were all once a sperm and an egg.
Sorry if none of that makes sense .

Same! My guilty secret.

When people talk about losing seven plus stones, I am genuinely shocked. How could they have put on the weight of an entire adult human in the first place.

I am two stone overweight and trying to lose it.,
ds2 is very overweight and he can’t seem to motivate himself to lose it and I feel he should. He put it on at Uni and I hate seeing him so big . He knows what to do.
I feel sad there isn’t more I can do to help him ( doesn’t live with me)
I feel bad for judging him , but I know other people do too.

Me too ! Hard to live with regrets isnt it .

It is easier dead than alive. I am not at all suicidal though. We come from the source and we go back to the source after each incarnation. I strongly believe in karma reincarnation and past lives. Life gets harder and harder after each lifetime. Our close relatives and friends that have passed on are all waiting to greet us on the astral plane. As are our deceased pets. The celestial sphere is joyful and living on the earthly plane is challenging.
Wow sorry I did not mean to type so much!

Gosh, not looking forwards to life being harder in the next life then Augustus 40 ! Or does it depend on what we are doing in tne current life that determines what happens next ?

That I use mumsnet

I regret my field of study, it's completely useless and now it's too late.

I absolutely love my husband and kids but I'm such an unhappy person deep down inside, one would never say.. They don't know. I just feel so empty.. So sad.

I talk to myself in the mirror and create scenarios in my head, act out scripts, sometimes imagine worst case scenarios and even cry ( is this normal)? Cringe *

I will play also a song, imagine myself living a good life, being the boss, being admired and inspiring.. Cringe.. I just feel I'm a yearner at heart.

I would never get married without being financially stable again and independent. Ever

My nipples are no longer as sensetive as before I had my kids and I miss that, I love having them suckd and pinchd during sex but the feeling is no longer as intense

My SIL ( married to husbands brother) irritates me so much, she's a people pleaser, perfect suzie, find her low key competitive. Always talking about how perfect her marriage and husband is. Is in MILs ass all the time.Seeking non stop validation from her. She's also very judgemental and holier then though . She drains me..

Don’t get me wrong I like a Kit Kat as much as the next person but they are a simple beast wafer check chocolate check even number of fingers check check

Absolutely tragic. That’s child abuse. The poor boy.

That having a man besotted with you is quite enjoyable. Should have married the one who couldn’t keep his hands off me. I thought passion was overrated and stability was more important, now I’m not so sure.

When I'm a passenger in a car, or, on the rare occasions I use public transport, I sometimes imagine I'm in a music video from the 1980s. I might put the air conditioning on and pretend I'm in some video where the wind machine is making my hair look fabulous while I'm singing some power ballad or other. Or, on other days, I might be on a bus, looking out wistfully as life goes by.
I'd never admit that to anybody I know, they'd think I was bonkers!

What did she say?
sometimes I crave when I’m unwell to be looked after. Just for a few hours.

That I cannot stand most of the other people in my department at work and often feel like I'm from another planet when I have to interact with them. I've had great colleagues in other workplaces but this one is just awful.

And that there are many times I want to run away from my domestic caring responsibilities but can't as they rely on me.

This. I cannot believe the sheer bloody effrontery of him, standing there admitting he stole this woman's life and youth and saying oh but poor poor me. Bastard.

Why the pile on? This thread is to say opinions you would not out loud and a previous comment re being widowed was rightly called out. I actually think the same as the op but for good reasons don't say it out loud.

ComtesseDeSpair

I also do this.

Sometimes when I’m driving alone, I pretend I’m driving a horse and carriage.
I use all the commands.

I wouldn’t either but my kid has seen me a couple of times and announced it in front of a lot of people 🤷🏻‍♀️
Once I saw my mother from the perspective of us being equal (eg adults, with own family etc) I realized if we weren’t related I wouldn’t want to do anything with her.
i also don’t like staying overnight at peoples houses - hotels are different. Especially if I don’t have an ensuite bathroom.

Ah, OK. Glad you're having a great time, though! Is it possible to say how you met him?

Apart from my DD, if I could re live my life I'd have different family. Siblings, parents, other relatives. The lot. I've never felt truly loved by my family. Always felt like my existence was a sore point for them. They always found something negative in anything I do or don't do. My DD is the only family member who I feel truly loved by.

I am a single parent, and one reason why I haven't settled down yet is because I am embarrassed by my family. I'll probably meet the one later on in life. At the moment I'm just telling everyone I'm happier single.

@TiredShadows

Im sorry you are feeling like this. I can totally understand but sadly have no advice of how to not feel like it. (Well the only thing that’s worked for me is a high dose of anti depressants.)

”How sharper than a serpent’s tooth it is to have a thankless child”

This quote springs to mind several times a day.

Unfortunately King Lear and I have a lot in common. I never imagined we would have when I was studying all those years ago!

I absolutely detest the way everyone is on a “journey”.
”Oh my weight loss journey is going so well”. “No love - you’re on a diet”.
”We are just started our pregnancy journey” “FFS you’re pregnant, you’re gonna get fat and then go through a lot of pain to push it out - it’s how we all got here”

That I never want to work again. I want to watch countdown, sit on my arse, eat crisps and cheese and shag my husband daily (he's lovely, rare I know). I've done my bit. I've worked since I was 12 as I had hand me downs as a child and a bullying family.

I have three millionaire friends who are as tight as a ducks arse. Two I'm dropping because they're fucking smug selfish arseholes. I don't like their husbands or politics ( which I suspect are the husband's).

I'd also like to drink champagne but as someone who has overcome an alcohol dependency I can't tell anyone that I think about booze every day. I'm not cured and it helped me through two house repossessions (due to serious illness and no financial help) and CSA.

I'd like to live in a two bed cottage by the seaside and my extended family can do one. I don't want space for others or to cook for them.
No one bar my niece helped me when I was given two years to live and I'm not giving them a penny when I sell my company shares.