What wouldn't you admit out loud ?

[2ndNatureTime]

Im sure they'll be lots of judgement on here as always but here we go

I really wish I hadn't married my 1st husband. He was a loser and still is.
I find 99% of kids so dull

I fecking hate other humans. I don’t want to be near them I don’t want to talk to them I just want to be alone. But apparently this is weird so I just pretend.

All of this 🥺

I'm married with 5 kids and I watch 'POV single woman with no friends and lives alone' tiktok videos.

I think kids have better outcomes when mum stays at home

I sometimes pretend I have Charles Dickens as a passenger in my car (I chose him as he liked speed - ie trains that could do 35mph, which scared a lot of people - and was keen on new inventions, i think he would have liked cars). I imagine telling him all about the car and how it works, and how to drive it. I imagine the article he would write about this wonderful new contraption, driven by a woman! Not wearing a bonnet! And wearing trousers!

Sometimes I give a lift to Henry VIII. I reckon he would have liked cars too. But he is not allowed to order my execution.

Jesus Christ 😂

Who told you this? I would love to correct your ignorance

Do you think you could do it elsewhere? You're derailing enough as it is and you've made at least one abusive post. Perhaps an AMA thread?

I hate how many kids are impacted by having shit parents - seriously there should be some sort of rules and testing before you can have kids.

This actually made me chuckle!

That I’m disappointed that I’ve not got the relationship I’d hoped either my adult children. We’re not estranged but I feel we don’t have a great connection either. It makes me very sad 😞

Smartphones are a scourge on society and will significantly contribute to the demise of humanity

That is the point of the thread, no? Things you'd never say out loud.
You can keep your judgement thanks, you've no idea what my life has been like for the last 2 decades. I feel how I feel and I was clear that I love him and will miss him terribly. I can feel more than one thing at once and it doesn't have to make sense to anyone but me.
I'm sorry for your loss.

I absolutely love this post!

Yes! I always felt guilty as a sahm even though I was by no means a lady of leisure like people seemed to imagine, by the end really needed to get back out there. That’s great you’re having a lovely summer! Mine are getting older, but not quite at that stage yours are just yet. I’ll be there in a couple of years. Maybe that’s what I’m missing, most of the people I work with either don’t have children or have teens/adult children so have more freedom. I do just really enjoy my job too, so kind of miss it when I’m off for such a long time.

I do say that out loud! But I agree with you.

I wish I could see all the deleted comments on this thread. Just curious.lol

Marrying for love is stupid and will find you divorced and raising your kids alone and poor; much better to marry for money.

I think the point is that she hasn't told them? 'What would you never say out loud......'

How I’m sometimes treated poorly at home verbally and wish I could escape somewhere with a space just for me. I’m so low I don’t know what to do I feel if I go the dr they would be rushing me to spit it out I’m scared because I don’t know what to do I have so much going on in my head I feel like screaming or crying but nothing comes out.

Maybe global warming is what’s meant to happen as an evolutionary stage of the planet and is inevitable. The fact that we are here is completely irrelevant.

From what I recall, they're all some variant of "fuck off" "u cunt" and "well ur a poohead". I'm pretty sure we're not missing anything.

I agree. Again, I think I come too close to admitting this out loud on MN where lots of the blended family threads really upset me in the way children are expected to quietly weather so much.

And I know there are other shit parents too, but the issues tend to bubble to the surface less often on here.