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I don't want to let gas man in

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Whyohwhy99 · 04/08/2026 14:49

I don't want to let the gas man in. I have already cancelled twice. Every year I get warning letters.. I don't want to let anyone in. I don't want have any form of interaction. I don't want anyone physically in my house. I don't even know when they are coming. I just know its an afternoon appointment.

OP posts:
JenniferBooth · 04/08/2026 20:43

Whyohwhy99 · 04/08/2026 20:41

I could screen shot dds 360 that will say how long I have been in the house. But that doesn't stop them saying I didn't let them in.

Have they pulled that stunt before

Ours ended up on Channel 4s Dispatches because of it plus other things

Whyohwhy99 · 04/08/2026 20:44

ConstantlyFuriosa · 04/08/2026 20:38

You can do it, OP. A few deep breaths and keep it simple. I suffer with anxiety and have to do exactly this every time I have a safety check because I hate people in my space and the waiting about makes me stressed. I don’t tell them all of that; just the bit about it making me anxious if I don’t know when they’re coming. They’re always very nice about it.

Oh I'm not going to tell them anything about that. I was going to call and say about them not turning up. Before I get warnings for something that wasn't me.

OP posts:
ConstantlyFuriosa · 04/08/2026 20:45

MNLurker1345 · 04/08/2026 20:42

This is part of the problem OP has, she can’t make the call. It seems simple to us but she has said that she can’t verbalise it on
a telephone call. She does not have our experiences of calling and explaining and does not feel able to do it.

@Whyohwhy99, to put it gently, an advocate would be able to speak for you. DS?

GP appointment soon, good!

Unfortunately OP will have to try. I know it isn’t easy for everyone to do, but if she calls first thing and explains she was in all day waiting it stops any further action. At this point it’s probably necessary to call. Or get someone else to do it.

ConstantlyFuriosa · 04/08/2026 20:45

Whyohwhy99 · 04/08/2026 20:44

Oh I'm not going to tell them anything about that. I was going to call and say about them not turning up. Before I get warnings for something that wasn't me.

That’s good. First thing tomorrow. I have faith in you, @Whyohwhy99 !

NeverDropYourMooncup · 04/08/2026 20:47

JenniferBooth · 04/08/2026 19:54

Well we are capped and we still have to have it done Doesnt bother me except when they lie that i havent let them in and you cant get safer than capped.

You can, actually - disconnected at street main level and all pipes removed.

Means they can check that there isn't a leak immediately below the cap where there is still a gas supply. Or that morons haven't done something like try to uncap it, bring in calor gas cylinders or suchlike.

JenniferBooth · 04/08/2026 20:48

NeverDropYourMooncup · 04/08/2026 20:47

You can, actually - disconnected at street main level and all pipes removed.

Means they can check that there isn't a leak immediately below the cap where there is still a gas supply. Or that morons haven't done something like try to uncap it, bring in calor gas cylinders or suchlike.

Thats fair enough Neither DH or i would do that but i understand why they have to check it

Whyohwhy99 · 04/08/2026 20:50

JenniferBooth · 04/08/2026 20:43

Have they pulled that stunt before

Ours ended up on Channel 4s Dispatches because of it plus other things

Edited

No but they have turned up at other times that were not booked . One called and said I'm outside your house. But I wasn't home. And they put it as if I had missed them.

OP posts:
JenniferBooth · 04/08/2026 20:52

Whyohwhy99 · 04/08/2026 20:50

No but they have turned up at other times that were not booked . One called and said I'm outside your house. But I wasn't home. And they put it as if I had missed them.

Colour me shocked 🙄

LIZS · 04/08/2026 20:53

Are you on your own? Text back and ask when they are likely to show up. Ask for a call when they are on their way. We always get a call when they are leaving the previous job. Presumably it is a rented property so you have an obligation to give access, or arrange for someone else to let them in.

Whyohwhy99 · 04/08/2026 20:58

LIZS · 04/08/2026 20:53

Are you on your own? Text back and ask when they are likely to show up. Ask for a call when they are on their way. We always get a call when they are leaving the previous job. Presumably it is a rented property so you have an obligation to give access, or arrange for someone else to let them in.

It doesn't allow me to text back.

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Somersetbaker · 04/08/2026 21:00

KeepPumping · 04/08/2026 20:34

It monitors your gas usage from minute to minute, unusual spikes in flow can trigger a system shutdown in advanced systems.

Bollocks and even more bollocks. Don't spread lies and bullshit.

Cantwaitforwinter · 04/08/2026 21:06

It takes 10 minutes if that. If you can look after a property that isn’t yours, leave.

HatKat · 04/08/2026 21:06

I work for a contractor who carries out Gas Safety checks and boiler maintenance repairs. If your property is social housing, it is part of your tenancy agreement and a legal requirement to allow access. Legal proceedings do commence if you do not allow access which usually results in a fine and eviction from the property. If you are struggling due to the timeframe they give, I am sure if you kindly ask them they will honour you a smaller timeframe for the appointment. It takes between 20 and 30 minutes to complete the check and is for your own safety. Do you have a family member that can be present whilst the engineer attends? A Housing Officer? There are lots of options to make you feel more relaxed about it. Its best to be honest with the company who are carrying it out so they they can try to suit your requirements / needs. X

ChamonixMountainBum · 04/08/2026 21:06

"GAS MAN"

This thread reminds me of that episode of Bottom

I don't want to let gas man in
shellyleppard · 04/08/2026 21:08

@ChamonixMountainBum 🤣🤣🤣🤣

CaptainMyCaptain · 04/08/2026 21:08

KeepPumping · 04/08/2026 20:34

It monitors your gas usage from minute to minute, unusual spikes in flow can trigger a system shutdown in advanced systems.

It will show an unususl spike in gas flow but it won't tell you gas is leaking into your kitchen or that you are in danger of carbon monoxide poisoning

Whyohwhy99 · 04/08/2026 21:09

Cantwaitforwinter · 04/08/2026 21:06

It takes 10 minutes if that. If you can look after a property that isn’t yours, leave.

Ok I will go pack 👍

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Goodiebagh · 04/08/2026 21:10

Aw OP
I hate it too. I always feel so awkward and stand around not knowing what to do with myself! Get a little job to do whilst he is in doing these checks, like clearing out your wardrobe or getting kids stuff sorted for a charity shop run, Then when he knocks let him in and say your busy doing X but to shout if he needs anything..he wont
and have a little treat stashed away for yourself for after its done.

shellyleppard · 04/08/2026 21:12

@JenniferBooth with regards to gas boiler checks you have to let them in. Its in your tenancy agreement which you sign when you move in

Whyohwhy99 · 04/08/2026 21:15

ChamonixMountainBum · 04/08/2026 21:06

"GAS MAN"

This thread reminds me of that episode of Bottom

Edited

Oh i didn't make that up in my head then.

OP posts:
JenniferBooth · 04/08/2026 21:15

shellyleppard · 04/08/2026 21:12

@JenniferBooth with regards to gas boiler checks you have to let them in. Its in your tenancy agreement which you sign when you move in

Im aware of that yes and im not bothered It only bothers me when they tell lies and say i didnt let them in when i did.
My tenancy agreement is from 1994

Cantwaitforwinter · 04/08/2026 21:16

Whyohwhy99 · 04/08/2026 21:09

Ok I will go pack 👍

I obviously meant if you can’t but that works

KeepPumping · 04/08/2026 21:20

CaptainMyCaptain · 04/08/2026 21:08

It will show an unususl spike in gas flow but it won't tell you gas is leaking into your kitchen or that you are in danger of carbon monoxide poisoning

Carbon monoxide detectors, in use since the 1990"s I believe, can tell you that. Advanced meters can shut down a system based on irregular flows, waiting until the gas man visits on the 25th of August or whatever to poke around can"t do that?

Cantwaitforwinter · 04/08/2026 21:20

Whyohwhy99 · 04/08/2026 21:09

Ok I will go pack 👍

I’m a tenant and have a legal duty to keep not only my home but my landlord’s property safe and up to a legal standard. If I refused to do so I’d expect my landlord to have my ass out on the street before I could blink. Why can’t you do a basic adult task?