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Can I ask my opposite neighbours to remove their reflective window film?

183 replies

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 12:45

any time there is sunlight it just reflects directly into our house and somehow always directly into my eyes :(

would I be wrong to let them know and ask if they can find a different solution? I’ve never spoken to them

OP posts:
CurlewKate · 26/07/2026 20:14

blooba · 25/07/2026 12:46

No. Don’t you have any blinds?

Don’t they? Why should the OP block her windows for their benefit?

Ihatelittlefriendsusan · 26/07/2026 20:52

CurlewKate · 26/07/2026 20:14

Don’t they? Why should the OP block her windows for their benefit?

Amd why should they change anything about theirs for her benefit?

CurlewKate · 26/07/2026 22:01

Ihatelittlefriendsusan · 26/07/2026 20:52

Amd why should they change anything about theirs for her benefit?

Because their actions are having a significant impact on the OP. If you actively change something you have to consider how it will affect others.

Itsallthebsame · 26/07/2026 22:22

Have you spoken to your neighbours yet?

Ihatelittlefriendsusan · 26/07/2026 22:34

CurlewKate · 26/07/2026 22:01

Because their actions are having a significant impact on the OP. If you actively change something you have to consider how it will affect others.

There is zero proof and only the op's belief that this is the cause of the issue.

It could equally be someone having put up a mirror or a camera.

KiwiFall · Yesterday 06:43

CurlewKate · 26/07/2026 22:01

Because their actions are having a significant impact on the OP. If you actively change something you have to consider how it will affect others.

In an ideal world yes but if they own their property and not doing anything illegal or against regulations then they don’t. Neighbours put trees up, put cameras up, and build onto their property etc all the time and although it may negatively impact their neighbours theres not much the neighbours can do if above board.

Azandme · Yesterday 06:57

fartotheleftside · 26/07/2026 19:49

Not really my problem…we are also very hot, we air the house out with the breeze at night and also bought an air conditioner

I suspect this may be the response you get.

Interesting that you're taking this position after 7 pages of explaining why your problem should be their responsibility to fix though.

Whatthefork1 · Yesterday 12:00

I mean of course you can ask, but expect them to refuse… it is their property.

LoafofSellotape · Yesterday 12:10

We bought a blind that when pulled you can see out of but no one can see in. Gives a lovely glow to the room as still let's light it but would sort your problem as it would diffuse the glare.

Tessasanderson · Yesterday 13:53

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 12:56

Absolutely no way, why should I pay not to be blinded in my own home?

You lost me here. This is by far and away the 100% solution to this. At present your neighbour has no problem with their reflective film.

If thats your attitude, well tuff luck buttercup.

If you were to suggest to them you would pay for a none reflective alternative of similar ilk. Do they do a more matt or darker film? it would probably either be accepted or maybe even paid for themselves.

concertinacornflake · Yesterday 14:18

LoafofSellotape · Yesterday 12:10

We bought a blind that when pulled you can see out of but no one can see in. Gives a lovely glow to the room as still let's light it but would sort your problem as it would diffuse the glare.

Where was this from please?

Trallers · Yesterday 14:41

You can't really call it unfair when they don't have a clue they've caused anyone a problem. It's not like noise issues where the offending persons knows full well what they're doing and doesn't give a crap. These people fixed a problem on their flat and are in blissful ignorance that it's bothering anyone else.

I wouldn't waste a moment being annoyed until you've actually spoken to them to see if there's anything they can do from their end. It's quite possible that they won't care and you're then stuck with finding a solution. Cross that bridge if you get to it though.

LoafofSellotape · Yesterday 15:20

concertinacornflake · Yesterday 14:18

Where was this from please?

Blinds2go

Think it was called magic blind,ill try and find it

TooHotToBoogie · Yesterday 16:18

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 13:07

Thank you 💙 sorry just a bit surprised by all the people saying I shouldn’t ask them!

I’m worrying now that they’ve had it done professionally and therefore won’t want to remove it. Everything I’ve read says that these kinds of films should be applied on the outside of the window for heat protection. We’re in first floor flats so unlikely to have done it themselves if it is on the outside of the window.

Just ask! Id be upset that someone was suffering because of film on my windows

Boomer55 · Yesterday 16:20

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 12:45

any time there is sunlight it just reflects directly into our house and somehow always directly into my eyes :(

would I be wrong to let them know and ask if they can find a different solution? I’ve never spoken to them

No you can’t.

TooHotToBoogie · Yesterday 16:29

Boomer55 · Yesterday 16:20

No you can’t.

Yes, yes you can talk to them!

KrazyKatty · Yesterday 17:35

Weeellokthen · 25/07/2026 17:25

😂naw she isnae

haud yer wheesht wumman 😘

MinnieCoops · Yesterday 17:43

You don’t seem to think this is your issue but it is. I can’t think many would remove it on your behalf when they’ve just done it for their benefit

Weeellokthen · Yesterday 18:15

KrazyKatty · Yesterday 17:35

haud yer wheesht wumman 😘

Away an bile yer heid 😚

Narwhalsh · Yesterday 18:32

Your neighbour has installed something to keep the temperature of their property down passively, this is a good energy saving measure rather than relying on air conditioning.

You aren’t being blinded all day because the sun moves across the sky and will reflect in different directions. It must just be the particular time of day you are sitting down to watch TV?

ThatLemonBee · Yesterday 18:40

Sorry but you can’t expect them to do that ! Just get blinds or reflective film yourself

NovemberMorn · Yesterday 18:43

It's 2 days since the OP started this thread.
If they haven't even informed the neighbour they have a problem yet, either this thread was started just to get replies....or they simply like moaning.

Bernardo1 · Yesterday 19:39

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 14:57

So confused as to why so many people think this is my problem to fix

Well nobody else is going to.

If you won't have a conversation with them, then ameliorating it is down to you

MrsPerfect12 · Yesterday 19:40

It’s perfectly respectable for the OP to have an issue with this. I’d change it if I knew there was a problem.

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