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Can I ask my opposite neighbours to remove their reflective window film?

183 replies

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 12:45

any time there is sunlight it just reflects directly into our house and somehow always directly into my eyes :(

would I be wrong to let them know and ask if they can find a different solution? I’ve never spoken to them

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Leopardprintbikini · 25/07/2026 16:08

Do you stamp your foot and cross your arms when you say "it's not fair" and "how is that fair"

Lovemycat2023 · 25/07/2026 16:14

I understand the issue is that putting it on the inside can cause thermal stress and the glass can crack. Might be worth letting them know that.

Borborygmus · 25/07/2026 16:14

Just speak to the neighbours and see what they say.

ElectricLegs · 25/07/2026 16:17

I have the same problem with a neighbour’s window across the road. Up here the sun moves across the sky so the dazzle only lasts 15-20 minutes each day and only for a few weeks in the year.

NovemberMorn · 25/07/2026 16:17

If your neighbour was aware (so far they are not) and refused to do anything, you do have rights.
If the glare caused damage to your property, they would be responsible.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 25/07/2026 16:23

Leopardprintbikini · 25/07/2026 16:08

Do you stamp your foot and cross your arms when you say "it's not fair" and "how is that fair"

Nah, she'll just hold her breath until the neighbours do what she wants.

CoolingOffInTheSea · 25/07/2026 16:35

I don't think people are suggesting pull down blinds, but the kind you can tilt, so it's still light but it will stop the glare, I thought most people had those

Bunnycat101 · 25/07/2026 16:36

I think you should mention it but also be conscious that this could be the worst period. It might not be as bad in winter. Even if you don’t own the garden, I’d look to get a pot with something tall in it for outside as there is a good chance you could block the light enough to stop it being an issue with planting rather than relying on blinds.

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 16:55

CoolingOffInTheSea · 25/07/2026 16:35

I don't think people are suggesting pull down blinds, but the kind you can tilt, so it's still light but it will stop the glare, I thought most people had those

We have quite expensive thermal honeycomb pull-down blinds

OP posts:
fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 16:56

Bunnycat101 · 25/07/2026 16:36

I think you should mention it but also be conscious that this could be the worst period. It might not be as bad in winter. Even if you don’t own the garden, I’d look to get a pot with something tall in it for outside as there is a good chance you could block the light enough to stop it being an issue with planting rather than relying on blinds.

We are in a first floor flat 🤦‍♀️

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OriginalUsername2 · 25/07/2026 17:08

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 16:56

We are in a first floor flat 🤦‍♀️

What you need is a wacky waving inflatable arm-flailing tube man.

saveforthat · 25/07/2026 17:14

I'm with you op, it's selfish. I don't have any neighbours with this but once had to follow a camper van with reflective covering against the back window. I was absolutely blinded and had to pull over and wait so I wasn't directly behind it.

Whaleandsnail6 · 25/07/2026 17:14

Would net curtains work? That way you aren't in darkness, can still see out and they would hopefully block the lightbeam a bit?

You can speak to your neighbours, but if they refuse to remove the film as it benefits them, then you might need to consider things that you can change in your home to minimise the discomfort that this causes you.

Jaxhog · 25/07/2026 17:15

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 13:00

Maybe I didn’t explain it properly. It’s my opposite neighbour to the side, and due to the angles there is a concentrated beam of light that goes directly from one of their windows right into our eyeline level when sat on the sofa.

it’s genuinely blinding, it’s not just that their windows are a bit too shiny for our liking

If its concentrating the light in this way, it could actually be dangerous. Either to your eyes or to anything combustible in your room. You need them to change it,

Weeellokthen · 25/07/2026 17:20

tinyspiny · 25/07/2026 13:21

You can ask but I doubt they will remove it , I wouldn’t if I were them .

Aww, aren't you a peachy neighbour 😁

bumblingbovine49 · 25/07/2026 17:22

MargaretThursday · 25/07/2026 14:59

People seem to be split into two groups here:

Tell them then they have to "be kind" and take it down if they don't they're mean.
Don't bother, they won't take it down, I wouldn't.

Op says How is it fair that we sit in darkness to accommodate their heat solutions?
So: How is it fair that their flat gets overheated to accommodate Op's light issues?
That's a similar question just from the other side. A compromise isn't all on one side.

Currently they probably have no idea that their heat solution is causing issues - so they're not being a bad neighbour here.
But Op has no idea how bad the heat situation is. eg. One of my dc is on medication where heat causes her more issues than normal. It's the first year she's been on it, and she's really noticed the difference. So OP might go round and find that there is very good reason why they need to keep the heat down.

So rather than going round and expecting them to do all the compromising, I'd say that the OP should look and see if there are any simple adjustments they can do - blind, move sofa, put same stuff up etc rather than just expecting others to suffer the heat so they don't have to.

If there's genuinely nothing they can do, then a conversation would be the way to go. But the expectation should be that they're working together, whether it's an adjustment (eg if the window is slightly open, does that mean the light's at a different angle so doesn't come in.

Finally a sensibile answer. I was going to type something along the same lines but this says it perfectly

Weeellokthen · 25/07/2026 17:25

KrazyKatty · 25/07/2026 13:32

So you expect your neighbours to remove their perfectly legal window film that’s coming in through one window of your house and only affecting you when sat on your sofa?

Instead of shifting your bookcase and moving your sofa to a different position?

Good grief OP, you’re the CF in this scenario. 😂😂

Fit some shutters instead of roller blinds.

Edited

😂naw she isnae

Boreded · 25/07/2026 17:25

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 12:51

Yes and we’re having to have them down them all day every day when there’s even a bit of sunshine… doesn’t really seem fair?

Is it fair for them to have to have the light shine into their room all day.

I have a reflective screen on one of my windows because if I don’t it is about 10 degrees hotter in my office. Pull your blinds down and tilt them upward (not downwards) slightly, problem solved.

Anothernameretired · 25/07/2026 17:34

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 15:57

This is just completely backwards. If a neighbour is doing something that negatively affects another neighbour, it’s on them to fix it.

I’m just sitting quietly in my living room minding my own business and they’re the ones disrupting things

Have you gone over the speak to them yet?

It's going to be really hard for them to come up with a solution if they don't even know.

OwlCalledSage · 25/07/2026 17:37

I’d ask nicely. And if I were the neighbour I’d look into changing the film.

PrettyLittleRose · 25/07/2026 17:43

Have you talked to them yet @fartotheleftside ? As a pp said, you may need to have them around to see what you mean. I am sure they will do something about it if you say the sun is blinding you because of this reflective film. I would......

How much of the day is it blinding you though? The sun moved around during the day, and it moves fairly quickly, so it can't be blinding you for that long can it? Sorry if I am wrong.

Ignore people saying 'get blinds' and net curtains! Net curtains LOL. They must think it's 1992! I haven't had nets in my house since the last century!

BluesandClues · 25/07/2026 18:20

Well the Walkie Talkie skyscraper reflected and concentrated sunlight enough to melt cars, so I would say there’s a bit of precedent for mirrored windows causing issues. So I don’t think OP is entirely being unreasonable.

AInightingale · 25/07/2026 18:44

Is there an issue with security cameras (perhaps another neighbour has them) and the film is for privacy? There is another thread on here atm started by someone annoyed that cameras are pointing at her windows, and the film has been mentioned as a solution. Unfortunately, as these cameras proliferate, neighbours aren't happy with being caught up in the surveillance.

johnd2 · 25/07/2026 18:53

BluesandClues · 25/07/2026 18:20

Well the Walkie Talkie skyscraper reflected and concentrated sunlight enough to melt cars, so I would say there’s a bit of precedent for mirrored windows causing issues. So I don’t think OP is entirely being unreasonable.

I was going to mention that too, if the neighbour is aware of the fire risk they might have liability. However the issue was the curved facade in that case.

To the OP I would say that due to the change of the sun's angle throughout the year, it will probably not be at eye level for many more days, and by August it will be fine. So if the neighbours don't change anything it'll be fine soon anyway.

We get random dazzling light from windows opposite end even cars parked outside sometimes, luckily it's only a short time but it's weird when the room lights up and you look out and it's the windscreen of a lorry delivering a skip or something!

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