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Can I ask my opposite neighbours to remove their reflective window film?

183 replies

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 12:45

any time there is sunlight it just reflects directly into our house and somehow always directly into my eyes :(

would I be wrong to let them know and ask if they can find a different solution? I’ve never spoken to them

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concertinacornflake · 25/07/2026 13:56

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 13:31

For everyone that keeps suggesting it, we already have blinds! How is it fair that we sit in darkness to accommodate their heat solutions?

Unfortunately life isn't always 'fair'?

TheSmallAssassin · 25/07/2026 13:58

KrazyKatty · 25/07/2026 13:48

Really? I’d prefer not to be a ‘be kind’ mug. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Being considerate is what makes societies able to rub along together. I'm just being rational.

TheSmallAssassin · 25/07/2026 13:59

concertinacornflake · 25/07/2026 13:56

Unfortunately life isn't always 'fair'?

I used to say to my children "Life isn't fair, but we can do our best to make it fairer"

LightlyRoamingOcelots · 25/07/2026 14:02

YABU. The sun is only ever in one position at a time so there's only a very limited number of place/direction of sight combinations that would actually lead to the sun reflecting into your eyes - if you take a step to the left or right, hey presto the sun is no longer in your eyes. They have every right to reflect the sunlight away from their home to stop it from getting so hot indoors and it would be ridiculous for them to take it down for your benefit.

Why not plant a shrub in front of your house to provide some screening?

ChocolateCinderToffee · 25/07/2026 14:04

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 25/07/2026 13:14

There’s a blind system that clicks into the frame of the window, very neat and compact, and you can position it partway down the window which would solve it for you. you get all the light, but block the spot that’s causing the problem.

Obviously if they’ll do something, great, but they chose and paid for the film so won’t be keen to remove it.

Have you got a link please?

concertinacornflake · 25/07/2026 14:04

TheSmallAssassin · 25/07/2026 13:59

I used to say to my children "Life isn't fair, but we can do our best to make it fairer"

We can, but it's outside your control whether other people will also choose to do that. So it's not very sensible to waste energy on minor issues you can just fix for yourself.

Indaloo · 25/07/2026 14:06

Get film yourself. It’s the only option which is actually going to work because they arent going to remove it are they.

Indaloo · 25/07/2026 14:06

Get film yourself. It’s the only option which is actually going to work because they arent going to remove it are they.

TheSmallAssassin · 25/07/2026 14:06

concertinacornflake · 25/07/2026 14:04

We can, but it's outside your control whether other people will also choose to do that. So it's not very sensible to waste energy on minor issues you can just fix for yourself.

There's no harm asking though? Who knows, the neighbours might be nicer than some of the people on this thread.

Olive123456 · 25/07/2026 14:06

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 13:00

Maybe I didn’t explain it properly. It’s my opposite neighbour to the side, and due to the angles there is a concentrated beam of light that goes directly from one of their windows right into our eyeline level when sat on the sofa.

it’s genuinely blinding, it’s not just that their windows are a bit too shiny for our liking

Move your sofa.

NovemberMorn · 25/07/2026 14:08

KrazyKatty · 25/07/2026 13:48

Really? I’d prefer not to be a ‘be kind’ mug. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Being considerate to others is not being a 'mug'.Thank God most people are not so entitled, and they can see the problems they are causing others if they are pointed out politely.

NormasArse · 25/07/2026 14:13

KrazyKatty · 25/07/2026 13:48

Really? I’d prefer not to be a ‘be kind’ mug. 🤷🏻‍♀️

You think being kind makes you a mug??

concertinacornflake · 25/07/2026 14:15

TheSmallAssassin · 25/07/2026 14:06

There's no harm asking though? Who knows, the neighbours might be nicer than some of the people on this thread.

Yes, which is why I originally said: If it's only a small beam, I'd probably just put something on my own window to block that spot, plus tell them what the impact is in case they choose to fix it.

BacksToTheFuture · 25/07/2026 14:18

Jc2001 · 25/07/2026 12:54

Talk to them and offer to pay for an alternative solution.

Make sure to also take a home baked cake when you do, works wonders for inconsiderate neighbours apparently 😁

minipie · 25/07/2026 14:19

I would definitely ask them. And take some photos showing the problem so they see it for themselves.

But first see if you can think of suggestions for how they can fix it without taking the film down. For example I wonder if it would work if they rub some soap on the outside of the window, or something else that “dulls” the mirror. That might stop it concentrating the light enough to solve your problem.

Basically if you can make it easy for them they are more likely to do it..:

minipie · 25/07/2026 14:21

I did hear about mirror film causing an opposite neighbour’s plastic rainwater pipes to melt - not cheap to replace. And it definitely can cause fires too. So maybe emphasise these risks not just the annoyance factor.

SowWhatNow · 25/07/2026 14:25

Fiftyandnotsonifty · 25/07/2026 12:57

If it was me I would speak to them, I suspect they are completely unaware of the issue it’s causing you.

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The neighbours: "Oh I'm sorry that's unfortunate for you. What are you going to do?"

minipie · 25/07/2026 14:29

SowWhatNow · 25/07/2026 14:25

The neighbours: "Oh I'm sorry that's unfortunate for you. What are you going to do?"

Not everyone is a selfish prick

Mrsm010918 · 25/07/2026 14:33

You need horizontal slat blinds. They can be angled so light coming in like this reflects up toward the ceiling. I have these in my lounge and it stops us being blinded by the sun all morning

ProudClare · 25/07/2026 14:38

ive got this on my front and back windows. It drops the temp by about 8 degrees. We are east/west facing. It’s only really an issue in super bright heatwave weather I suspect. I wouldn’t remove it.

Olive123456 · 25/07/2026 14:44

EmeraldRoulette · 25/07/2026 13:13

Oh, it's probably on the inside then

It may well be the stuff that they just bought themselves.

I don't know why people are being complete wankers on here - possibly they don't know exactly what you're talking about because it is absolutely fierce and it's not good for passing motorists either (you may not have any anywhere you are though)

I would definitely talk to them. It would probably help my flat but it would absolutely blind the people opposite!

i'm on a development. We did have somebody who put in tinfoil up in desperation. The people on the whatsapp group who are being blinded by it pointed it out and the guy took it down straight away.

not everyone is that nice, but some people are.

Sooo glad i'm not in a neighbourhood whatsapp group.

pragmatismuniversalsentimentalist · 25/07/2026 14:55

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 13:10

It’s new, it’s only been up for a week or so.

unfortunately we can’t rearrange the room as we have a fireplace and fitted shelving on the opposite side of the room to the sofa.

Cant you put something like a decent sized vase just in the right spot on the windowsill to stop the dazzle just in thr spot you are sitting on the sofa?

tinyspiny · 25/07/2026 14:56

These threads are ridiculous someone pays to have reflective screen and they are a sociopath if they won’t remove it because it upsets/ affects a neighbour but people who come on here to complain about children screaming and disturbing their peace are told to suck it up because that’s what happens when you have neighbours . Make your minds up , you can’t have it all ways .

fartotheleftside · 25/07/2026 14:57

pragmatismuniversalsentimentalist · 25/07/2026 14:55

Cant you put something like a decent sized vase just in the right spot on the windowsill to stop the dazzle just in thr spot you are sitting on the sofa?

So confused as to why so many people think this is my problem to fix

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