So, dh has publicly liked a pornstar instagram photo

[Didntthinkthiswouldbeme]

Guessing he's perhaps Done it by accident ot something

He already made florty comments to someone on tiktok a year ago
A women made a comment, that she likes dancing around to a certain song in her pants
To which he replies film it and post it

Hewas was following some random women he doesn't know

After that happened he said sorry amd it won't happen again... and the comment about filming it and posting was a joke

If it’s not a deal breaker and you are not considering splitting. Then investigating is not really going to achieve much.
He will just perhaps apologise. Rinse and repeat. Just like the last time.

Op please look into omar minwhallas secret sexual basement and the podcast helping couples heal. The wanting to investigate can be a very normal trauma response to betrayal.
Many people won't have experienced this so won't understand where you are at right now. It can absolutely feel crazy making. You won't always feel like this op.

Love after porn group on reddit also has lots of resources and people going through similar that will understand you.

Yes, of course you should ‘keep it from’ your eldest. Have some fucking boundaries.

The rules you have for your partner’s Instagram activity within your marriage are nothing to do with your adult children and your eldest is perfectly entitled to think their father is great. They’re his child, not his partner.

Frankly, if my mother had ‘confronted’ my father about something like clicking a Like button on Instagram, I would a) not thought clicking Like on an Instagram picture of a model was a remotely big deal and b) thought my mother was a being a complete arsehole for trying to drag me into their marital issues which were nothing whatsoever to do with me.

Jeez. You can leave your partner over this if it’s that big an issue for you, but you need to calm down ffs.

Why is hospital behaviour gross for liking a picture on social media? He's human... males are attracted or the opposite sex. This post is way out 🤣

Literally the point you’ve just argued against what other people were making. She doesn’t trust him to the point she’s going nuts with her behaviour - the relationship is over.

Wishful thinking op. By the sounds of it he is this sort of man. He won't stop. Confronting him won't change it. You have a choice to make, do you want to be with a man who's an online sleaze or not?

He commented on something on TT. Thats public. You saw it, others will have too. He doesn’t care that people know.

Still don’t confront him in front of your child because no child deserves to be confronted with their Dads weird behaviour, and they won’t thank you, but given how many times this has happened… it’s an accept it or leave situation, really, isn’t it?

The liking a photo isn’t an issue. Making suggestions comments to other women when yes in a relationship is. Because you can damn we’ll get if they were up for it, he would be too - and if they call him out on his comments, he would fall back on “it was just a joke”.

Of course people will be attracted to other people. But when you’re in a relationship, you should be a bit more respectful to your partner by not putting it out there for the world to see.

There is nothing about this relationship that sounds healthy though, so both would be better off separating.

You and i both know nothing about there relationship... only this small snippet that she has posted!! Yet people are so quick to break up a family

How did you not know already that you should never involve your children in a dispute between you and your partner?? Thats parenting 101 stuff surely.
Oh and screenshot it, send it to him and say 'you might want to stop embarassing yourself where everyone can see you'

Given he has numerous instances of being a lecherous perv, I think you are being very generous thinking he liked the post "by accident" 😯