So, dh has publicly liked a pornstar instagram photo

[Didntthinkthiswouldbeme]

Guessing he's perhaps Done it by accident ot something

He already made florty comments to someone on tiktok a year ago
A women made a comment, that she likes dancing around to a certain song in her pants
To which he replies film it and post it

Hewas was following some random women he doesn't know

After that happened he said sorry amd it won't happen again... and the comment about filming it and posting was a joke

The photo he's liked is the woman standing up with legs part lifting her dress
You don't actually see her knickers she just kinda pulls the dress up, but she's a pork star

So suppose question is how do I confront this

If I ask to see his phone, what do
I even look for.?

Should I confront him in front of our adult child, because he should be embarrassed

Grim

Also another time, I was on his fb as he thought I'd liked a postnof someone I dont like..... so he was looking at this person, well womans fb page, so I say just set it to unfollow, so went to the search bar to unfollow, and all the searches, were womens names, all our ages

This was also about a year ago

He’s a dick but ‘confronting’ him in front of your dc is a dick move too.

Tell him to stop being a sleazy knob or LTB and he can perve all he likes online.

Well considering this isn't the first time, I'm tempted

Maybe that's just a really bad move though

Wonder if he's done this like by accident

Sorry OP but I love your typo - pork star. I'm seeing Miss Piggy.

Lol think it's because my heart is racing

He has previous, i doubt it's an accident. Instant ick for me.

When he gets I shall I ask him to hand over his phone?

What should I look for

It's nasty to put your DC in the middle of this to score points. What does it matter if it was accidental?

Well becuse it is easy to accidentally like something on socials

What should I do then ? Keep it from the eldest, when the eldest thinks he's great

You don't have to confront him. He'll lie to you about why he did it and then you might feel conflicted and confused. Respect yourself. Don't be baffled by this.

Yes involving your children is totally out of line. It's nothing to do with his parenting. I think it's pretty normal for men to be looking at porn on occasion. Making comments on tik tok accounts is more personal in my opinion so actually kind of worse as he's engaging with these women. You need to have a chat with him, away from your child!!

I don't know why you think it's an accident when he's done similar at least twice before.
If it's a deal-breaker for you you should tell him. But you need to leave if it is or he'll just keep doing it. He didn't stop last time did he?

Don't involve your child in this. Your partner sounds like a creep, he would give me the massive ick and I would leave him. He didn't like a porn stars picture by accident!

What you do next depends on what you want to happen.

In your shoes, I would be getting my arse to a lawyer as I would have the ick and I cba to fuck about looking for further evidence. He's never going to change and the though of an old man doing this is😖

OK I'll keep my adult child out of the confrontation but that adult child gonna know something is up, because that atmosphere is about to change

Well I guess he would have to at least be looking at it, to even accidentally like it surely, just I know I've accidentally liked alot of crap before, it's not actually a porn photo, but she's an adult entertainer, in fact it's one of the more milder posts, some she's in underwear this is a dress

Reason I also think it could be an accident is, I think he would actually be embarrassed if he knew people he knew would know he's done this....

He claims the comment on TT was a joke.......

I said bet you wouldn't like it if I did that
And then he apologised and said it won't happen again

And he resposed to what the woman said about he she likes to dance round naked to this song.....
He should have replied film it and post it tho.....

When he gets home hand him his arse.

What should you look for? The front door.

I could look at his credit card bill to see if he's paying any subscriptions
I'm just looking at his feed and it lot of the same kinda posts

Is this a typical man's newfeed..?

Not really. My DH’s newfeed is the news just politics, films & gaming. He doesn’t even have social media.

If I was you I’d be hitting the roof.