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What age did you decide to embrace your grey ?

132 replies

SummerSpringWater · 19/07/2026 19:47

Keep seeping so many grey blending videos and can’t tell if that’s just my algorithm or it’s actaully getting more popular

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Fiddlesticks1 · 19/07/2026 19:51

In my fifties as it was so expensive to colour and the condition was awful. I now have what lots of people describe as silver hair and it is very soft. We have grown together.

Olive567 · 19/07/2026 19:58

I was 49, kickstarted by lengthening grey roots over Covid.

Watto1 · 19/07/2026 20:00

Another one who was forced into it by Covid! I was 48 . I’m past caring now.

horseycomingforty · 19/07/2026 20:01

35 - never looked back

EmpressaurusKitty · 19/07/2026 20:02

Right from the start - I think the first grey hairs started appearing in my 30s. I never wanted to get trapped into the cycle of dyeing it every month.

Darklane · 19/07/2026 20:02

27
I went from red to completely white

cariadlet · 19/07/2026 20:03

I'm 59. I've never dyed my hair to hide the grey.

Hatty65 · 19/07/2026 20:04

Just over 50 I think. I had it cropped very short into a pixie cut and just stopped dying it. I used to be dark haired and I was starting to feel a bit 'Dot Cotton'.

I'm now 61 and have pure white hair, which I get a lot of compliments on.

Justaquestionplease · 19/07/2026 20:05
  1. I will never. I think it looks dreadful
KronkeyCroc · 19/07/2026 20:06

40! It wasn’t as bad as I thought and now at 42 often get compliments. The first few months are the worst but so glad I persevered through it. I love the fact I don’t have to think about colouring and topping up my roots every three weeks.

marriednotdead · 19/07/2026 20:06

I tried a box dye at DD’s insistence a couple of times when I was in my early 40s. It was more depressing seeing the greys coming back through after a couple of weeks! Then she left to go to uni and I never bothered again.
Get compliments as my regular colour is almost black- it looks like I have intentional highlights framing my face. No regrets.

SleepyTeaZzz · 19/07/2026 20:06

EmpressaurusKitty · 19/07/2026 20:02

Right from the start - I think the first grey hairs started appearing in my 30s. I never wanted to get trapped into the cycle of dyeing it every month.

Same here except I started to go grey in my first pregnancy in my mid-twenties. I'm early 30s now and have shiny grey/white highlights.

Overjiggly · 19/07/2026 20:10

40 the growing out was rough but as soon as they grey had grown past my ears I had it cut short and it just looked really good. I get a lot of compliments now.

I was have reactions to the dye and the roots were appearing within a couple of days so no regrets.

Kepler22B · 19/07/2026 20:15

Never dyed it so didn’t have to grow a dye out. But I have been going steadily grey since late 30s and love it.

Though my grey is actually white and very soft.

Fontet · 19/07/2026 20:35

Tried it once in my 40’s….not for me ! 50’s now and have my hair coloured and foils every 4-5 weeks.

jimbobauntie · 19/07/2026 20:38

Braved the Shave for my 50th Birthday - raised £1500 for Macmillan - and fully embraced my grey from then on.

tinyspiny · 19/07/2026 20:38

I’ve never coloured my hair , I was a light blonde and started to get grey hairs in my 40s . I’m almost 60 and it’s now a silvery grey blonde and ironically it is now that people ask me what colour it is / where I have it done .

BotterMon · 19/07/2026 20:41

I'm approaching mid-60's and no idea if I have any grey hair. I've always been blond but now am helped to stay so by my wonderful hairdresser. He is a brilliant colourist.

JadeSeahorse · 19/07/2026 20:44

I'm 70 and still haven't embraced the grey. 😁

Over 20 years ago my hairdresser made a mistake with my colour and I ended up looking like a witch for an important business conference. After this I decided to teach myself to colour and started off slowly with semi permanent so I could wash out easily if it went wrong.

I now consider myself a bit of an expert - even my now hairdresser comments positively about my colour - and will hopefully live to a 100 and still be a brunette. 😂

EmpressaurusKitty · 19/07/2026 20:48

I’m growing mine now because I think long grey hair looks fabulous.

BauhausOfEliott · 19/07/2026 20:49

I’m 50. I only started getting grey hairs a couple of years ago and I don’t have many, but I do cover them now.

My mum has no plans ever to ‘embrace the grey’. She’s 82.

MeNotYouJustMe · 19/07/2026 20:50

49 but I really regret it and wish I’d never stopped dying it 😢

Wonderknicks · 19/07/2026 20:50

Stopped during covid. I get so many compliments about the colour of my hair, whitey blond, but lots of different colours really. It was boring mouse before unless I had highlights.

Shloopie · 19/07/2026 20:52

MeNotYouJustMe · 19/07/2026 20:50

49 but I really regret it and wish I’d never stopped dying it 😢

Go back to the dye. It's your hair, do what pleases you

Ted27 · 19/07/2026 20:55

I'm 61 and have dyed my hair since I was 14, always a dark brown, sometimes with red or purple tones. Nothing too outlandish but I've alwayd seen myself as a brunette.
I knew there was a lot of grey. However its a bit of a shocker to see that having lost my hair to chemotherapy, its growing back pure white ! There isn't enough yet to see how its going to really look but it doesn't feel like 'me'.