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Come and tell us your dull and unexciting news 36: Calmly through the day

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MissConductUS · 01/07/2026 18:01

A quiet and friendly corner of MN to share the very dull day to day happenings of our lives. No criticisms, political discussions, or controversies here. Think of it as neighbors (I'm a Yank) chatting over the garden fence or having a cup of tea while the kids play together. Everyone is welcome.

It will be calming for all.

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/10/2026 01:05

Thanks Penguins. 🩷
Had a late night with the kids last night up at SFU observatory. It was stil quite chilly after the wind storm and three days of fog.
We're all bundled up now at the beach. The clouds look to be moving in. Completely forgot to do a holiday grocery shop. Might try Costco before it closes, otherwise it will be a nightmare tomorrow .

You're getting lots done.
Also, massive 💐💐💐💐 for @sueelleker

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WarriorN · 11/10/2026 10:06

mathanxiety · 10/10/2026 16:32

Wishing havoc a very happy Canadian Thanksgiving weekend.

WarriorN I once ended up with dozens more apples than I needed because of a glitch on a website. I made apple butter with them. It's amazing how many apples you need to fill a mason jar.

ooh thanks for the tip; off to google!

MissConductUS · 11/10/2026 18:35

We are currently getting rain from the remnants of Hurricane Isaias. It's been downgraded to a tropical depression now, but they still expect widespread flooding. Our house is on top of a hill, so the worst we can expect is a little water in the garage. DD and SiL in Georgia have been getting much more. We'll get an update from them on FaceTime later today, assuming they have power and internet access.

I decided to follow Wilkens Farm, the farm I've been posting pictures of recently, on Facebook. They posted a video showing how they make their cider. Given the interest in American cider, I'll share it here

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/199KwR2yjZ/

I had no idea that they have a two-story building devoted to making cider. And their cider is very good! I learned a lot from the video. By the way, cider with alcohol is not completely unknown in the US. It's called hard cider. It's just no widely consumed. You wouldn't expect to find it in a bar or restaurant, for example. You'd have to go to a large beer distributor to buy it.

We did go to the craft fair yesterday. It was a lovely day for it, and DS came with us. They had it in a town park that's on the Hudson River, so it was a lovely setting. They only thing I bought was a little wooden cat figure that looks like Mingus, our orange boy. By the way, @MrsSPenguinz, Daisy is a beautiful cat, so thanks for mentioning that. And how is Mr Floof these days?

Some pictures from the craft fair - there were about 100 sellers and five food trucks. DS had lunch from one of the trucks.

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MissConductUS · 11/10/2026 18:42

Sorry for the second post. I had more pictures to share.

We left for church early because we had to drop off DH's car for the annual state inspection (MOT) and a routine service appointment. I got up early to get in a walk before church, as I didn't fancy walking in the massive rainstorm that was on the way. I was finishing up my walk as the sun came up, and the rising sun illuminated the storm off to the west. That is the reddest sunrise I've seen in a long time.

I know how much everyone likes the wildlife pictures, so I took one of this wee snake that was just outside our garage doors when we left for church.

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HildaTablet · 11/10/2026 18:48

How wee is wee, @MissConductUS? That looks quite big!

When I got up this morning there was a huge heron sitting on the roof of the house opposite us (we’re in semi-country with only a few houses around us). This happens occasionally but used to occur much more when the owners had a pond with fish in it - needless to say, the fish weren’t there for long. It always looks comical because they’re so enormous with their long stalky legs. I would have taken a photo to share but couldn’t get a close-up good enough.

MissConductUS · 11/10/2026 19:07

@HildaTablet, curled up like that, the snake was 4-5 inches across. Fully stretched out, it would have been 12-14 inches, I'd guess.

Herons are tricky to photograph. Before I retired, I had access to a local reservoir that had lots of nesting herons and did manage to get a few pictures of them. They also inhabit the areas by the Hudson River, but I'm not on the riverfront that often. These are some of my old heron pictures.

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/10/2026 07:19

Feeling a bit rattled. Neighbours had a fire earlier. Apparently the person fell asleep/was otherwise not conscious with a pot on the stove. Might have been a medical issue. Extremely lucky though that it appears only smoke damage occurred. The person was taken to hospital. Fire is one of my worst fears. So, I have just finished two pieces of tuxedo cake meant for tomorrow.
I've also scratched my eye, I think. I got soap in it while washing my face and was unable to open it, finally did, tried eye drops and lots of rinsing, but that stung badly. My eye is majorly bloodshot. It feels like an eyelash is stuck under the lid.
Anyway, I'm a mess atm. 😭😵‍💫👁️😂

HildaTablet · 12/10/2026 16:20

Hope you’re OK, @Mumtobabyhavoc - that must have been really unsettling. And sorry about your eye. Any chance of getting a quick check with an optician? I had a similar thing, somehow scratched my eye and was worried it was a piece of grit lodged in there. I won’t go into the palaver around getting someone to look at it (sigh) but someone eventually did, and put my mind at rest. It did feel horribly uncomfortable and sore for ages, though. Proper eye-drops applied very frequently helped.

MrsSPenguinz · 12/10/2026 16:48

Hope you are OK @Mumtobabyhavoc and hope your eye is better.

Love the heron pics @MissConductUS Floof is fine but he's not happy that DH now gets up much later since retirement and gives him very eye rolly looks about it.

Did gardening for a couple of hours and also cleaned laundry room and kitchen floor. Had jacket potatoes with beans and cheese.

Umanresources · 14/10/2026 23:22

Gosh @MissConductUS that was some snake. My son and I had our photo taken with a boa constrictor round our necks. I remember it being very heavy and dry, but that was under controlled conditions!

@Mumtobabyhavoc that fire must have been very worrying for you, especially as it wasn’t your fault. My OH always bought a small fire extinguisher and a fire blanket for friends and family when they moved into new properties. I hope you got your eye seen to and it’s well on the way to being healed. I had to get in touch by email, with the doctor’s surgery today, as my leg was looking a bit worrying. I sent off a photo of my leg, as well and the doctor phoned me within 10 minutes and after some questions he’d sent off a prescription for antibiotics to a local pharmacy and my daughter picked up the meds 10 minutes after that. I’ve also got to have the district nurse coming again.
My nephew phoned me as well and was going to call round with the baby, but I was a bit stressed, so he is going to bring the baby on Friday. Can’t wait now.
I’ve started buying Christmas presents, so the wrapping paper is ready and I’m taking my time wrapping them and putting them away.

The other day my 11 yr old grandson was video calling me and said, “Granny, when we do this I feel as though I’m there with you.” Oh my goodness he knows how to pull on my heart strings. ❤️😍

Themidnightcuppa · 14/10/2026 23:31

Been a busy time running my late DH’s business but finally decided that as the boss I was giving myself a day off and so last Friday I did nothing but sew on my sewing machine. I’d joined an online club for six weeks and it was week two and I’d done none of the projects.

caught up on the projects and and felt thoroughly normal in myself. It’s been a long time since I felt that way. I’ve left the machine on the dining room table and I’m trying to do a bit every evening.

@Mumtobabyhavoc good to hear little havocs are improving 💐💐

Mumtobabyhavoc · 15/10/2026 00:21

That sounds quite worrying Uman. 🤔
Glad you are taking a sewing class Midnight.

Just curled up with the dc on the couch eating oatmeal cookies with cranberries, choc chips and sliced almonds. Baby and I baked them this afternoon. I have eaten 3. 😋

mathanxiety · 16/10/2026 18:00

Beautiful heron photos, MissC.
Hope your DD and SIL didn't suffer too much from Isaias.

Uman fingers crossed your leg will be OK.

havoc fire is my biggest fear living in a frame building. I have two rope ladders stashed in window seats at different sides of the apartment that would enable us to escape safely if worse came to worst.
Could you have got a small cinder in your eye? It's worth having it checked out.

Maybe too exciting for the thread, but DD was relaxing in bed in her room overlooking the deck last evening, when she called me to say she had heard a crash out on the deck. I went out to see if the wind had knocked a plant off the deck rail, and was standing outside the door waving my phone flashlight around when I came face to face with a youngish raccoon peeking at me from the potting table. I beat a very hasty retreat after squeaking 'Aaaaagh, good god, no, no, no'. DD is still laughing at me.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 16/10/2026 19:37

Thanks for the 💛 everyone.

Math, I would have jumped, too!
Reminds me one time out walking with a 1 & 1/2 or 2y/o Havoc, we were in the back alley and Havoc said "Kitty mummy" while walking toward a massive raccoon. I quickly picked up Havoc saying, Not a nice kitty, that's a raccoon and we stay away.
I knew someone who was viciously attacked by a raccoon. 😳😱

Gorgeous day here at 16c and sunny. 😎

MrsSPenguinz · 16/10/2026 20:08

Today car has been in garage getting rear brake fixed and we have her back now, one small thing to do next week.

Also went gardening today and yesterday and now all garden is done.

On Wednesday went to the spa and had a massage and used the pools / steam rooms and afterwards had a meal there. We had to have a hire car for the day to get there and back and it had heated seats.

We cut two pieces of leftover oak worktop to make 4 shelfs but are waiting for the brackets to arrive by Royal Mail 48 - they were supposed to arrive on Wed or Thurs but haven't even been collected yet.

We are about to have fish chips and baked beans for dinner. Hope everyone has a good weekend.

sproutsandparsnips · 16/10/2026 20:45

Catching up again!
Fabulous photos and sunset @MissConductUS- love the snake, isn’t nature wonderful?
Hope eye better @Mumtobabyhavoc, cookies sound delicious.
you are very organised @Umanresources- that service sounds very good!
@MrsSPenguinzall sounds very satisfactory.
Im driving up to London tomorrow to meet friends and go to ABBA Voyage.
DH is cooking for DS team, he has asked to start on bench as has not been training this week with a cold and cough but hopes will be ok to play some of the game tomorrow. There is a cup game next week so will be expecting to start for that.

MrsSPenguinz · 17/10/2026 00:02

Have a great time at Abba Voyage @sproutsandparsnips sounds fun, love Abba.

MissConductUS · 17/10/2026 13:14

@MrsSPenguinz, heated car seats are standard here, but our winters in NY and New England tend to be colder than yours, thanks to the Gulf Stream. Your spa sounds lovely. I don't think we have anything comparable in my area.

@sproutsandparsnips, I do love the wildlife in my area. It keeps things interesting and was very educational for the kids growing up. ABBA sounds like great fun.

Math, we are overrun with raccoons here too. We can't put the bins out the night before pickup because of them. They are absolutely brilliant at breaking into things.

DS is in Boston this weekend volunteering at the Head of the Charles (River) Regatta, so it's just DH and I at home. I'm doing some interior painting to spruce things up before Thanksgiving. I painted the ceiling in the dining area and family room yesterday. It took just under a gallon of paint, which is handy, and it looks like one coat will do it. I have a bit of touch-up to do today, as I'm waiting on some spackle to arrive from Amazon. If I decide to do the walls in there, it will be a bigger job and require two coats of paint, as the walls are a warm sand color and I'd redo them in off-white to match the kitchen and hallway.

DH and I are thinking about trading in my 2020 Subaru Forester for a 2027 hybrid model. The 2020 has about 68k miles on it and is running fine, but the gas mileage is much lower than the hybrid, and it's getting a bit dated. It's also still worth quite a bit as a trade-in. And to be honest, I'd just like a new car with more up-to-date technology and safety features. The one drawback is that the hybrid Forester doesn't come with a spare tire, as they use that space under the cargo area for the battery. You can, however, buy a spare tire with the tire-changing tools in a carry case and take it on road trips, which is probably what we'd do.

The fall colors have started to arrive here, but I don't think they'll peak for another week or two.

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 18/10/2026 07:22

Hello thread friends. 💛

I like heated seats, too. 🥰
Hope your ds feels better soon Sprouts.
ABBA Voyage? I will Google that. Sounds fun, though. Who doesn't like ABBA??? 😁

Havoc has a temp of 38.1c/38.4c after taking Tylenol and Advil at 8:30pm; says throat feels hot and complained of shivering on the drive home from the playground. However, has just eaten pizza I made that just came out of the oven. We've all just gotten over a bug two weeks ago & Havoc also had a UTI.
We're on Ice Age 2 having watched Ice Age earlier tonight.
Feeling quite pleased that everyone is eating my latest pizza and that both kids asked for a 2nd piece, especially Havoc as pizza is never a favourite. It is pesto, sun-dried tomatoes, chopped baby kale, sliced orange bell pepper, goat feta, sliced almonds (ikr???!!!) and some mixed cheeses from a cheese tray I buy.

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MrsSPenguinz · 18/10/2026 22:58

Glad your pizza has been a success @Mumtobabyhavoc hope Havoc isn't ill again.
Lovely Autumn pictures @MissConductUS
Got a Waitrose order today and DS rushed to eat the blackberries then the macaroons then had steak pie and green beans and chocolate pudding.

Cleaned the upstairs bathroom, kitchen and laundry room. Also got an order with some new towels for DS, 2 grout pens, and a washable rug for DS.

DD has been rowing all weekend.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 19/10/2026 04:59

Penguins, I keep seeing ads for those grout pens! I'm do curious if they give good results. Please report back! 😁

I'm keeping Havoc home tomorrow. We went for a walk after dinner and temp was almost 38c, after 30 mins Havoc was asking to return home. I took temp once home and it was almost 39c and Havoc was feeling rotten, so I gave Tylenol and Advil and Havoc got into bed and was asleep in just a few minutes.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 19/10/2026 17:41

I thought it was cloudy when I woke up a couple hours ago, but it's sunny now, so it might just have been darkness that confused me. It's been getting chilly overnight, 7c, and has warmed up to 9c. I really love these fall temps, though. Morning coffee feels extra special. 🙂

Speaking of coffee...
Just finishing an iced latte (because Canadian here) 💁‍♀️ and a thick slice of the choc chip almond banana bread (cake, really) 🙄 that I made after the kids went to bed last night.

Havoc's temp was 38c and is congested, so staying home today, but drank a full 8oz of water and also ate banana bread and 1/2 a banana, so I'm confident this is a basic cold and nothing more. I'm not giving meds for fever because affect is otherwise okay, so just monitoring. 😅

I've got my mum's IV running, am going to throw sheets into the wash, try and book our covid & flu vaccine appts then get to a medical appt across town. Rush, rush, rush.

Hoping everyone's Monday is humming along.

Tagging a few as a nudge. 🙂🩷

@bizzey
@MyrtleLion
@Umanresources

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MyrtleLion · 19/10/2026 19:15

Hello! How lovely to be tagged!

I got very busy with some voluntary things. As an example, I like to keep my recorded TV show storage at 35% and it's currently 67%.

Anyway, after four interviews, including one a week ago, I was offered a job and I start TOMORROW!!!!!

That is probably not dull or unexciting, but it is really amazing and wonderful after two years without work.

I am now trying to finish my second book on Gosie the Gerbil and you can read the first 69 chapters here: https://myrtlelion.substack.com/p/gosie-and-the-stained-glass-windows

Gosie and the Stained Glass Windows

The Gosie Chronicles – Book II

https://myrtlelion.substack.com/p/gosie-and-the-stained-glass-windows

Mumtobabyhavoc · 19/10/2026 20:25

@MyrtleLion whatever did you post???!!! 😱😱😱😱

MyrtleLion · 19/10/2026 20:52

Mumtobabyhavoc · 19/10/2026 20:25

@MyrtleLion whatever did you post???!!! 😱😱😱😱

Oh, that's annoying. Just that I was busy and some good news and then I linked to my book that I'm writing and it probably thought I was selling something. Let me report the post and get it unhidden.

It contains some good news...