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Am I missing key shower steps or is hygiene tok excessive?

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AurielleBaies · Today 18:54

I’ve been watching hygiene tok and now wondering if I’ve not been showering myself properly all my life.

Saw a woman who uses an unscented bar soap for sensitive areas, antibacterial bar soap for smelly areas, then a body scrub, then a shower gel applied with a African net sponge, then lightly dries herself and applies body oil, then a body lotion, then a glycolic acid treatment under arms and under boobs and then FINALLY clinical strength deodorant. The video was called something like ‘how to not stink this summer’. I’ve never even done half those steps in one shower. I shower at least daily using a bar soap/shower gel and I do exfoliate every other day.

am I missing something?!

OP posts:
user1476613140 · Today 19:53

Citygirl17 · Today 19:13

FWIW Gynae ANP advised unscented soap for lady bits.

I don't use anything but the shower head water sprayed up there.

AurielleBaies · Today 19:53

lol

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TY78910 · Today 19:53

AurielleBaies · Today 19:04

It’s bananas. Of course I know that it’s mostly to sell items but some of these videos don’t have affiliate links and it feels like the battle of who can be the most hygienic! The comments are crazy too - people adding even more steps to the creators ‘routine’.

Edited

It’s not for affiliate links, it’s for clicks. The higher engagement the more money you earn.

It’s like putting 17 things on your face because skincare ✨nobody actually does that

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Tiddlywinks63 · Today 19:55

AurielleBaies · Today 19:04

It’s bananas. Of course I know that it’s mostly to sell items but some of these videos don’t have affiliate links and it feels like the battle of who can be the most hygienic! The comments are crazy too - people adding even more steps to the creators ‘routine’.

Edited

And followers like you encourage even more extreme behaviours from these vacuous nonentities.
Thank god I’m old and very cynical; the phrase ‘Get a life’ comes to mind.

Nsky62 · Today 19:57

I use a loofah, with shower gel, water in lady bits.
i have ceased to buy shampoo and conditioner ( use bio D handwash), nor do I use moisturiser, 1000 mg of flaxseed oil capsules works wonders

mathanxiety · Today 19:57

What you're missing is that she's paid to promote all that crapola by giving viewers the idea that without it they'll stink.

And nobody - nobody - needs antimicrobial soap. It wreaks havoc on the environment and on the human biome.

magicfarawaytreestime · Today 20:00

mathanxiety · Today 19:57

What you're missing is that she's paid to promote all that crapola by giving viewers the idea that without it they'll stink.

And nobody - nobody - needs antimicrobial soap. It wreaks havoc on the environment and on the human biome.

I use it sometimes, it’s recommended by a medical professional for my armpits for a medical issue

AurielleBaies · Today 20:00

Tiddlywinks63 · Today 19:55

And followers like you encourage even more extreme behaviours from these vacuous nonentities.
Thank god I’m old and very cynical; the phrase ‘Get a life’ comes to mind.

I don’t follow. It comes up (obviously my algorithm is now showing more of it at the moment).

As I said, I do understand most of this is affiliate links/money making etc but there are plenty of ‘regular’ folk who are agreeing and adding steps in the comments of these videos. And looks like some people on this thread follow a similar wash routine…

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Honeyhonay · Today 20:02

user1476613140 · Today 19:53

I don't use anything but the shower head water sprayed up there.

Who’s going to tell her that’s not washing it’s …

AurielleBaies · Today 20:06

CanineJesus · Today 19:34

“Am I missing something? “
Yes, common sense, by the sounds of it…

Sure

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StrongandNorthern · Today 20:09

Ever heard the expression 'Mad as a box of frogs'?

morgan56 · Today 20:13

I also don’t do this but consider myself super clean. But there are women who do this and yes their skin is amazing, shiny and they truly do smell different to the rest of us.

Hedjwitch · Today 20:14

I just use shampoo and soap in the shower.
Slap on moisturiser afterwards if I can be bothered.

AurielleBaies · Today 20:18

morgan56 · Today 20:13

I also don’t do this but consider myself super clean. But there are women who do this and yes their skin is amazing, shiny and they truly do smell different to the rest of us.

What do they smell like?!

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MakeMineAMilkyTea · Today 20:19

I’m excessive with my routine but I’m not that bad! Cleanse with a shower gel or a soap or a shower oil, then I lotion or oil when I’m dry depending on what I feel like. Antiperspirant and then get dressed.

backformoreofthesame · Today 20:20

They normally smell of chemicals

MimiGC · Today 20:25

What are African nets when they’re at home?

thelongesday · Today 20:25

Who learns how to live their life from TikTok?

But bathing in Dettol antiseptic is just as bad, why would you do that to your microbiome?

I wouldn't let talc anywhere near me or my kids either.

Bunnyofhope · Today 20:26

Any shower gel that was on special. Do hair, body, pits and bits, then shaving with the same shower gel. Rinse. Get out of shower.
Spray up with whichever anti-p was on offer. Done. No one has ever complained.

Honeyhonay · Today 20:27

MakeMineAMilkyTea · Today 20:19

I’m excessive with my routine but I’m not that bad! Cleanse with a shower gel or a soap or a shower oil, then I lotion or oil when I’m dry depending on what I feel like. Antiperspirant and then get dressed.

You think shower gel, lotion and deodorant is excessive?

MaidOfSteel · Today 20:28

morgan56 · Today 20:13

I also don’t do this but consider myself super clean. But there are women who do this and yes their skin is amazing, shiny and they truly do smell different to the rest of us.

Their skin is shiny????!!!

I’m at a loss here!

AurielleBaies · Today 20:29

MaidOfSteel · Today 20:28

Their skin is shiny????!!!

I’m at a loss here!

from the oil most likely?

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MaidOfSteel · Today 20:30

AurielleBaies · Today 20:29

from the oil most likely?

Looking like you’ve been dunked in your nanna’s chip pan wouldn’t be the aesthetic I’d be going for.

InfoSecInTheCity · Today 20:35

Shampoo and conditioner for hair, soap and a flannel for everywhere else, rinse off suds. I’m in the shower less than 10 minutes. What a waste of time, water, products and good skin cells to be doing all that on the daily.

Honeyhonay · Today 20:36

MimiGC · Today 20:25

What are African nets when they’re at home?

An African net is like a piece of loofa for washing and exfoliating, not sure what the when they’re at home is supposed to mean though?