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Belfast attack

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Greenwitchart · 09/06/2026 17:51

I can see that the previous thread on the topic is full so I am starting a new one to continue the discussion.

The points I wanted to say as someone who immigrated to the UK over 30 years ago:

  • This is a horrific attack and everyone's thoughts should be with the victim and his loved one.
  • However, I do think that we have an issue with some people getting into the country whether legally or illegally who simply don't have the same values as the majority of the population and are not able to follow its laws and customs.
  • The asylum and immigration system needs a serious overall and to do more to stop men who are a potential danger to society because of their beliefs/culture/failure to integrate getting through the system and ending up committing violent acts. Some people destroy their documents and checks can only go so far when it is hard to verify claims and the chaotic countries they come from does not have reliable records that can be accessed . There are many peaceful and genuine asylum seekers who just want a safe place to live in peace but we seem to be getting in too many angry, violent men who abuse the system and that has to stop.
  • I don't want to share the streets with people who have no respect for women and girls, are religious fanatics to the point of extremism or show hate towards gay people and bring violence in general.
  • Having people from different cultures coming in is fine as long as they integrate well and take on the values of the country they live in. It does not work if they just live parallel lives and fail to follow the law of the land.
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BatchCookBabe · 09/06/2026 20:33

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100% this. ^ People have had enough, and no-one gives a shiny shit any more about the silly (and incorrect) accusations of racism, just because they DARE to question these individuals being in the UK (who - as you say - have no place in our society and whose values do not align with our own.)

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EasternStandard · 09/06/2026 20:33

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:32

The system doesn't lead to horrific crimes. The system exists, and horrific crimes exist alongside it. Asylum seekers are disproportionately less likely to commit crimes than the native population.

It does lead to it because it just happened. And it’s not the first time.

The system doesn’t have to be there, and people can say no to being used as a vetting system. Would you offer to be the one to see who is ok or not? If not don’t expect others to be.

Marmalademorning · 09/06/2026 20:34

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:07

Unfortunately if we don't base our policy decisions on facts and stats, we make bad decisions.

Nobody could possibly disagree with you when you say 'we don't want barbaric monsters harming our citizens'. Of course that isn't racist or anything else bad.

But you are wildly, massively overstating the problem based on a small number of horrific incidents (a number proportionate to the number of immigrants). And when you seek to classify whole sections of the community as rapists and murderers whose culture encourages it, that is racist.

We don't want murderers or rapists. But facts help show that no race, religion or ethnicity is more likely to commit those crimes than others. Ignoring those facts, and preferring the anecdotes given by social media or whatever, is racist.

You still haven’t answered my question.

MightyDandelionEsq · 09/06/2026 20:34

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:29

I wouldn't want to live next to any kind of place where bored young men congregate all day. Asylum status has nothing to do with it.

I genuinely don't see what you see. You aren't imagining what you see, but what you are doing is assuming that it represents something much bigger than it does. You take your experience and assume that it represents the country. Facts say otherwise.

I base my opinion not on my own small scale experience but on statistics and facts. What else sensible is there to do?

This is absolutely priceless mental gymnastics.

If these men come from a misogynistic and highly violent culture toward women, walking past them vs a group of say Australian men would be worlds apart based on the culture these men come from.

You're acting obtuse because the usual R card didn’t work.

Flyingintotheunknown · 09/06/2026 20:35

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:33

I live in a large town and am in a big city daily for work. I just don't see what you see. It's as simple as that.

I also suspect that I don't see the social media that you see. Maybe that's part of the reason.

Go and live somewhere else then where you can see it or stop trying to belittle people, call them racists and making excuses for these disgusting criminals who have taken the piss with our immigration system!

BatchCookBabe · 09/06/2026 20:35

MightyDandelionEsq · 09/06/2026 20:34

This is absolutely priceless mental gymnastics.

If these men come from a misogynistic and highly violent culture toward women, walking past them vs a group of say Australian men would be worlds apart based on the culture these men come from.

You're acting obtuse because the usual R card didn’t work.

100%. The way some people are twisting themselves out of shape to try and deny the FACTS here is truly inexplicable!

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:35

Flyingintotheunknown · 09/06/2026 20:33

Just because you don’t see what the rest of us see, doesn’t mean we are liars and racists and quite frankly, I’m sick and tired of seeing posts like yours popping up on these threads from people who don’t see what we see who then have the cheek to gaslight us and call us racist! If you don’t see what we see then you have no right to comment on it and trying to counter it by claiming we are wrong or racist! Either go out yourself to these areas and open your eyes or just quit with your gaslighting nonsense and overdone, outdated racist card excuse

I'm afraid you're wrong.

Gaslighting would be me claiming that you haven't seen what you say you've seen. I don't say that. I don't disbelieve you. I just have a different experience.

Given that we both live in the same country and have different experiences, surely the sensible thing would be to look at objective facts rather than these different subjective experiences. If we do that, we find that your experience, whilst true for you, is not representative of the country as a whole. Mine is more representative.

You only become a racist when you ignore these facts.

MightyDandelionEsq · 09/06/2026 20:36

Flyingintotheunknown · 09/06/2026 20:35

Go and live somewhere else then where you can see it or stop trying to belittle people, call them racists and making excuses for these disgusting criminals who have taken the piss with our immigration system!

Quite amazing the lengths this (I’m assuming) woman will go to in order to protect the reputation of men who come from countries where women are dirt.

Afghanistan just banned education for women in a long list of other human rights gone for them. But I’m sure the huge swathes that Jenrick let in under the shadow of the night are all pro feminist lovely chaps.

likelysuspect · 09/06/2026 20:36

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 19:18

I don't dismiss genuine concerns. But I do dismiss concerns based on misinformation / prejudice / no facts.

There is absolutely no need to be 'scared for our shared future'. There are not hordes of immigrant men attacking innocent white British girls everywhere every day. There are a very small number of incidents, all of which are awful and none of which should be played down on that individual level. But they do not point to a societal problem with a particular group of people. Sadly, crime happens. Criminal of all races and immigration statuses commit it. No group commits it more than any other group. Our shared future should be one in which we collectively look at facts and address the causes of crime and the behaviour of criminals, whoever they are. It shouldn't be one where we demonise small sections of the community because a very small number of people who look like them do bad things.

As a white British person myself I would hate for skin colour, nationality or immigration status to be used as blanket descriptors of potential criminal behaviour, because the overwhelming majority of crime is committed by people who look like me, were born where I was born, and who hold the same passport as I do.

Are you happy for sex to be an indicator of potential criminal behaviour?

Men commit the most crime. This is a predominantly white country, so if you're white of course most criminals look like you also.

But what is the percentage of people from different demographic populations committing different types of crime?

Ihateboris · 09/06/2026 20:36

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:33

I live in a large town and am in a big city daily for work. I just don't see what you see. It's as simple as that.

I also suspect that I don't see the social media that you see. Maybe that's part of the reason.

That's why I suggested you travel outside of your bubble...to the towns that ARE affected!

Wearingshadesindoors · 09/06/2026 20:36

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:25

All of 'them'? Do you mean all people from Sudan, like this alleged attacker?

What makes me sad about that (apart from the obvious immediate human cost) is that we have come to a place where people can almost proudly say extremely racist things, and be applauded rather than chastised.

And of course were we to follow through with your racist suggestion it would all be done without any material improvement to public safety because, as those pesky facts prove, immigrants are no more criminally inclined than anyone else.

Dark times indeed when we sacrifice so much that has genuinely kept us harmonious and safe for decades on the alter of prejudice, wilfully ignoring facts in the process.

I am not racist, never have been in my life, don’t think you can put that crap on me and millions of other decent, good people who feel exactly the same as I do.

Slowdownyouredoingfine · 09/06/2026 20:36

Having people from different cultures coming in is fine as long as they integrate well and take on the values of the country they live in.

Yeah, this would be nice. Sadly it’s the opposite, we’re bending over backwards to accommodate everyone else’s religion/beliefs/cultures. Why the hell has halal become so prominent in a Christian country? Why are there prayer spaces in public places? Because we want to appear oh so accommodating whilst calling anyone who flys an English flag a thick racist. Great!

Sulgari · 09/06/2026 20:36

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:33

I live in a large town and am in a big city daily for work. I just don't see what you see. It's as simple as that.

I also suspect that I don't see the social media that you see. Maybe that's part of the reason.

I am a liberal leftie type, but what I see in the city near me is exactly what is being talked about on here. Big groups of this demographic hanging around, with the uber eats /drug delivery bikes, not mixing or joining in with the very friendly city vibe. All young men

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:36

Flyingintotheunknown · 09/06/2026 20:35

Go and live somewhere else then where you can see it or stop trying to belittle people, call them racists and making excuses for these disgusting criminals who have taken the piss with our immigration system!

I don't excuse any criminal.

I'm sorry if you feel belittled. But if ignoring facts and basing your opinions on subjective experience isn't racist in this instance, what is?

Flyingintotheunknown · 09/06/2026 20:37

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:35

I'm afraid you're wrong.

Gaslighting would be me claiming that you haven't seen what you say you've seen. I don't say that. I don't disbelieve you. I just have a different experience.

Given that we both live in the same country and have different experiences, surely the sensible thing would be to look at objective facts rather than these different subjective experiences. If we do that, we find that your experience, whilst true for you, is not representative of the country as a whole. Mine is more representative.

You only become a racist when you ignore these facts.

Look I don’t give a flying sod about your word salad. Do not tell me I’m wrong! And yes it is gaslighting to deny something is happening or claim someone else is racist just because it doesn’t suit your narrative

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 09/06/2026 20:37

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:35

I'm afraid you're wrong.

Gaslighting would be me claiming that you haven't seen what you say you've seen. I don't say that. I don't disbelieve you. I just have a different experience.

Given that we both live in the same country and have different experiences, surely the sensible thing would be to look at objective facts rather than these different subjective experiences. If we do that, we find that your experience, whilst true for you, is not representative of the country as a whole. Mine is more representative.

You only become a racist when you ignore these facts.

Keep fighting the good fight, but I'm not sure this thread is the place for fact and reason. It's the Two Minute Hate.

BatchCookBabe · 09/06/2026 20:37

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:35

I'm afraid you're wrong.

Gaslighting would be me claiming that you haven't seen what you say you've seen. I don't say that. I don't disbelieve you. I just have a different experience.

Given that we both live in the same country and have different experiences, surely the sensible thing would be to look at objective facts rather than these different subjective experiences. If we do that, we find that your experience, whilst true for you, is not representative of the country as a whole. Mine is more representative.

You only become a racist when you ignore these facts.

I'm afraid that poster is NOT wrong dear.

EasternStandard · 09/06/2026 20:37

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:35

I'm afraid you're wrong.

Gaslighting would be me claiming that you haven't seen what you say you've seen. I don't say that. I don't disbelieve you. I just have a different experience.

Given that we both live in the same country and have different experiences, surely the sensible thing would be to look at objective facts rather than these different subjective experiences. If we do that, we find that your experience, whilst true for you, is not representative of the country as a whole. Mine is more representative.

You only become a racist when you ignore these facts.

@Blightfittingwould you offer to be the person who lets us work out who is a wrong un or who is ok? Why are you ok for others to provide this service for you with their life.

5MinuteArgument · 09/06/2026 20:38

AlecTrevelyan006 · 09/06/2026 19:32

sadly it's so common that this one barely got any new coverage
https://www.itv.com/news/calendar/2026-06-03/gang-who-abused-teenage-girl-over-four-year-period-jailed-for-188-years

i can't even find it on BBC website

Can't find it on the BBC website!!? That tells us everything we need to know about our public broadcaster.

Sulgari · 09/06/2026 20:38

And I think it’s really easy to preach from ivory towers where you don’t have to live in the world where this is happening

Marmalademorning · 09/06/2026 20:38

likelysuspect · 09/06/2026 20:36

Are you happy for sex to be an indicator of potential criminal behaviour?

Men commit the most crime. This is a predominantly white country, so if you're white of course most criminals look like you also.

But what is the percentage of people from different demographic populations committing different types of crime?

They’ve been banging on about ‘facts’ but not once have they mentioned the source of their ‘facts’. I’ve asked them twice now and they’ve ignored me both times.

Flyingintotheunknown · 09/06/2026 20:38

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:36

I don't excuse any criminal.

I'm sorry if you feel belittled. But if ignoring facts and basing your opinions on subjective experience isn't racist in this instance, what is?

You are basically on this thread excusing a criminal. Otherwise why are you on it? What are you trying to achieve by arguing with people who have concerns, are angry and have had enough!

EasternStandard · 09/06/2026 20:38

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 09/06/2026 20:37

Keep fighting the good fight, but I'm not sure this thread is the place for fact and reason. It's the Two Minute Hate.

Sure. Is it ok if the crime happens to someone else?

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 20:38

Sulgari · 09/06/2026 20:36

I am a liberal leftie type, but what I see in the city near me is exactly what is being talked about on here. Big groups of this demographic hanging around, with the uber eats /drug delivery bikes, not mixing or joining in with the very friendly city vibe. All young men

Then, again, you see something different to what I see.

I think it's hard to judge 'mixing with the vibe' and I don't think it's wise to base policy on it! But if you are concerned about criminality, I would again recommend looking at actual statistics. That might make you worry less.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 09/06/2026 20:38

Its all kicking off in Belfast tbh, a bus has been set alight

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