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Belfast attack

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Greenwitchart · 09/06/2026 17:51

I can see that the previous thread on the topic is full so I am starting a new one to continue the discussion.

The points I wanted to say as someone who immigrated to the UK over 30 years ago:

  • This is a horrific attack and everyone's thoughts should be with the victim and his loved one.
  • However, I do think that we have an issue with some people getting into the country whether legally or illegally who simply don't have the same values as the majority of the population and are not able to follow its laws and customs.
  • The asylum and immigration system needs a serious overall and to do more to stop men who are a potential danger to society because of their beliefs/culture/failure to integrate getting through the system and ending up committing violent acts. Some people destroy their documents and checks can only go so far when it is hard to verify claims and the chaotic countries they come from does not have reliable records that can be accessed . There are many peaceful and genuine asylum seekers who just want a safe place to live in peace but we seem to be getting in too many angry, violent men who abuse the system and that has to stop.
  • I don't want to share the streets with people who have no respect for women and girls, are religious fanatics to the point of extremism or show hate towards gay people and bring violence in general.
  • Having people from different cultures coming in is fine as long as they integrate well and take on the values of the country they live in. It does not work if they just live parallel lives and fail to follow the law of the land.
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Vivaea · 10/06/2026 07:05

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 10/06/2026 06:51

Would you move to live in Sudan with your daughter?

Not really, I’d visit should things settle down and become peaceful again but I don’t cope well in very hot climates.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 10/06/2026 07:09

Vivaea · 10/06/2026 07:05

Not really, I’d visit should things settle down and become peaceful again but I don’t cope well in very hot climates.

So you’re fine with child brides, gay people facing the death penalty, Qawama.

You don’t these things are backwards?

sickofsixseven · 10/06/2026 07:11

Vivaea · 10/06/2026 07:03

No, he didn’t flee Sudan. He left some time ago and has been studying and working abroad - otherwise I wouldn’t have been able to meet him.

His family had to flee, not because the country is awful but because they’ve been subjected to a huge civil war between two corrupt leaders who organised a coup a few years previous and then turned on each other. As I said, many militants have been recruited from other countries to this war with the promise that they can rape and pillage as they please.

We would happily take our daughter there to visit should conditions improve in the future. His family very much miss their home. It’s so easy to label places as ‘backwards countries’ without knowing any of the facts.

Those things do make the country awful though? At least at this point in time. I've read about some of the things going on, absolutely horrific. I can't imagine how scary it must have been for his family. Like I said, I don't blame them for leaving, but its an undeniable fact that the perpetrators of rape, murder and war crimes are also leaving and bringing similar atrocities elsewhere. There needs to be a better system than a free for all

Lavender14 · 10/06/2026 07:12

Flyingintotheunknown · 10/06/2026 05:53

The man who attempted to behead another man IS Sudanese according to the media. It’s a fact, not a personal attack on your husband and daughter, love! it’s hardly the people’s fault on this thread that the attacker happened to be Sudanese!
Nobody has said they want rid of law abiding legal migrants now have they! Stop imagining stuff that people haven’t said and stop throwing the word “racist” about like it’s a standard word ti describe angry people. It’s people like you who are in complete denial by calling everyone racists who are making people more angry!
Please show me where someone has said they don’t like Sudanese people because of the colour of their skin - that’s what the word “racist” means! Until then stop throwing the word around and twisting the meaning of it to mean anyone who is angry about immigration!

Are you for real? Comments on this thread have had to be deleted because they were absolutely openly racist. People suggesting that anyone coming from certain countries must be more misogynistic and violent just simply because of where they're from. Quite literally anyone who's suggesting that the violence and rioting tonight is in any way justified. That's all racist. The man from Sudan was in NI legally through proper channels. So if people are saying they have no problem with legal migrants then that would have included him anyway. If you can't see the covert racism in that then I'm not sure what else to tell you.

How can you say it's not personal when black families were indiscrimimately burnt out of their homes last night children being rushed out of burning homes barefoot into the back of a riot wagon for their own protection, groups of masked men stopping people in cars outside one of the main hospitals in the country to check the ethnicity of the passengers... of course its bloody personal because all of it affects the ability of any other migrant to go about their day to day. Including the children of those migrants. It's just not personal to YOU.

AyeDeadOn · 10/06/2026 07:12

Blightfitting · 09/06/2026 19:13

I disagree with your second and third points, which I guess are the key debatable ones.

Those keen to overhaul the immigration system point out, rightly, that there has been a big influx of migrants in recent years. Some say 10m in 25 years.

In any group of 10m people, some will be mentally ill, some will be commit crimes, some won't adapt to societal norms. There is no system available to prevent a very very small number of people doing very bad things. It's not immigrants, or a particular culture or whatever. It's that a very tiny proportion of all people are bad/mad/both.

I don't think we are getting proportionately too many angry young men. There are a small number who have done very bad things. But not proportionately more than the non immigrant population.

What proportion of Northern Ireland do you think is Sudanese? What proportion of the native community do you think have tried to behead a man who by some accounts has learning difficulties and was doing nothing but trying to help the bastard out?

Winter2020 · 10/06/2026 07:13

Lavender14 · 10/06/2026 01:50

Do you realise that the majority of people seeking asylum and refugees don't go to Europe? 66% of refugees stay as close to their home country as possible and settle in a border country.

So the ones that are leaving to risk their lives in a small boat, to pay a small fortune to be trafficked and abused on the way - they're going to do whatever they can to get to a safe country.

And while some people may consider Europe safe, conditions for people seeking asylum and refugees are incredibly hostile in some other eu countries and funnily enough people aren't content with living in mass refugee centres. I wouldn't be either so I can't blame them.

So the Rwanda plan is never going to work.

"So the policeman should be feeling sympathy for the perp? I think most of us will save our sympathy for the victim"

I think most people can understand that there are individuals who carry out violent crimes as a direct result of their own vulnerabilities or illness. That doesn't exclude you from being able to feel sympathy for a victim of a violent crime. I'm not speculating as to the attack yesterday because we don't have the information to do that yet, but I mean in general. If police can't understand the link between trauma/ mental illness and violent crime then they absolutely are not doing their jobs properly. They get enough training that they should be able to understand it.

I'm not sure why you think we'd need to rescue all of Sudan. We only need to provide asylum for the most vulnerable who met the remit for asylum protection. Most people in Sudan or countries with similar difficulties will never have the means to leave or will go to a neighbouring country. Not to mention that we share responsibility with all the other countries in the world. We take in a very small percentage of the world's refugees. Even if our media likes to present it very differently.

Perhaps the policeman understands the link between trauma/mental illness and violent crime very well and it contributes to why he doesn't want people from violent countries moving to his country.

You really believe it is the "most vulnerable" people in Sudan that manage to get themselves to the UK? What rubbish.

Vivaea · 10/06/2026 07:13

JuliettaCaeser · 10/06/2026 06:57

But if there’s civil war and rape and pillage surely pretty much everyone in Sudan would have a valid claim for asylum? With the best will in the world we physically can’t give sanctuary to them all. Where do we draw the line?

It seems the issues that caused them to flee in the first place are now being imported here. Great!

You’re willfully not hearing what I’m saying. I’m not saying we should accept everyone - clearly that isn’t practical. What I am saying is we shouldn’t be making sweeping generalisations and saying offensive things about entire groups of people based on what a single vile person has done. I can guarantee there is going to be enormous outrage in the Sudanese communities about this also.

If you want to go and learn something about Sudan and its people and still draw that conclusion then fine, it’s your opinion. Otherwise it’s just pure hatred and ignorance.

By the way, there’s no ‘if’. It’s not widely reported on but you can easily find the facts- just look at the sheer numbers of people dead, displaced, starving because of the conflict. It’s considered one of the biggest genocides in modern times.

Nine2five · 10/06/2026 07:15

BIossomtoes · 09/06/2026 23:09

The “fallout” is violence by a bunch of thugs who have been spoiling for an excuse to go on the rampage. It defies belief that a police officer should align himself with them. Let’s hope he’s in a tiny minority in PSNI.

No, the fall out is entire communities who are absolutely p**ed off with being told that uncontrolled immigration is good for us. How much proof does there need to be before the government acts to protect the people of UK?
Belfast has spoke loud, they are not prepared to accept such heinous crimes on their streets, by people who have no rights being there in the first place.

Blightfitting · 10/06/2026 07:17

AyeDeadOn · 10/06/2026 07:12

What proportion of Northern Ireland do you think is Sudanese? What proportion of the native community do you think have tried to behead a man who by some accounts has learning difficulties and was doing nothing but trying to help the bastard out?

I don't think any kind of judgement on any community should be inferred by the actions of one person.

Lavender14 · 10/06/2026 07:17

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Could you cite your evidence to back up where any asylum seeker came here with the SOLE purpose of commiting violence?

Because yes, a few asylum seekers can turn out to be violent but I'm just curious as to why you'd think that's their "sole purpose" of being in this country?

Because if you've no actual evidence to back up that claim then it's a sweeping statement applied without base to a minority group... which is in fact racist.

Blightfitting · 10/06/2026 07:19

Nine2five · 10/06/2026 07:15

No, the fall out is entire communities who are absolutely p**ed off with being told that uncontrolled immigration is good for us. How much proof does there need to be before the government acts to protect the people of UK?
Belfast has spoke loud, they are not prepared to accept such heinous crimes on their streets, by people who have no rights being there in the first place.

  1. It's 'spoken', not 'spoke'
  2. 'Belfast' hasn't spoken. A few hundred rioters rioted. 99.99% of the population did not, and neither you nor I can understand anything about what they think about how best to respond to the stabbing.
Lavender14 · 10/06/2026 07:20

Winter2020 · 10/06/2026 07:13

Perhaps the policeman understands the link between trauma/mental illness and violent crime very well and it contributes to why he doesn't want people from violent countries moving to his country.

You really believe it is the "most vulnerable" people in Sudan that manage to get themselves to the UK? What rubbish.

I believe its the most vulnerable who go through the asylum system and are granted asylum. And those are the only ones we need to worry about as they're the ones on our doorstep.

You've missed my point.

RonniePickering · 10/06/2026 07:20

“Racist” has stopped having any impact due to it being overused on things that clearly aren’t racist.
Keep saying it.

Vivaea · 10/06/2026 07:21

sickofsixseven · 10/06/2026 07:11

Those things do make the country awful though? At least at this point in time. I've read about some of the things going on, absolutely horrific. I can't imagine how scary it must have been for his family. Like I said, I don't blame them for leaving, but its an undeniable fact that the perpetrators of rape, murder and war crimes are also leaving and bringing similar atrocities elsewhere. There needs to be a better system than a free for all

Yes, I’d completely agree with this. I think people are misunderstanding me and thinking I’m pro uncontrolled immigration and we should just let everyone in. That’s completely impractical. We also do need a better system to screen people that are here to commit atrocities and need to be tougher on deporting people who are committing crimes here.

However, a country isn’t its people especially when you live in a dictatorship. I wouldn’t want someone to look at Farage, say, and imagine that all British people are like him.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 10/06/2026 07:22

Blightfitting · 10/06/2026 07:19

  1. It's 'spoken', not 'spoke'
  2. 'Belfast' hasn't spoken. A few hundred rioters rioted. 99.99% of the population did not, and neither you nor I can understand anything about what they think about how best to respond to the stabbing.

Did that make you feel really good about yourself?
Really superior?

OpheliaWasntMad · 10/06/2026 07:25

Vivaea · 10/06/2026 07:13

You’re willfully not hearing what I’m saying. I’m not saying we should accept everyone - clearly that isn’t practical. What I am saying is we shouldn’t be making sweeping generalisations and saying offensive things about entire groups of people based on what a single vile person has done. I can guarantee there is going to be enormous outrage in the Sudanese communities about this also.

If you want to go and learn something about Sudan and its people and still draw that conclusion then fine, it’s your opinion. Otherwise it’s just pure hatred and ignorance.

By the way, there’s no ‘if’. It’s not widely reported on but you can easily find the facts- just look at the sheer numbers of people dead, displaced, starving because of the conflict. It’s considered one of the biggest genocides in modern times.

”What I am saying is we shouldn’t be making sweeping generalisations and saying offensive things about entire groups of people based on what a single vile person has done. I can guarantee there is going to be enormous outrage in the Sudanese communities about this also.”

I agree with this and it is outrageous that innocent people are now living in fear because they happen to be the same colour or race as the brutal attacker in Belfast. Violent protest is never the answer - it’s always innocent people who suffer.

However I do think it is also wrong to lump everyone who has concerns about immigration together as though they are all far right and racist yobs.

It is valid to have concerns about the numbers of men who are coming to our country from violent war torn countries. We know nothing about their history- whether they are violent criminals etc . Many of the countries they come from have very different attitudes towards the treatment of women and girls . It’s valid to have these concerns.

Flyingintotheunknown · 10/06/2026 07:26

Lavender14 · 10/06/2026 07:12

Are you for real? Comments on this thread have had to be deleted because they were absolutely openly racist. People suggesting that anyone coming from certain countries must be more misogynistic and violent just simply because of where they're from. Quite literally anyone who's suggesting that the violence and rioting tonight is in any way justified. That's all racist. The man from Sudan was in NI legally through proper channels. So if people are saying they have no problem with legal migrants then that would have included him anyway. If you can't see the covert racism in that then I'm not sure what else to tell you.

How can you say it's not personal when black families were indiscrimimately burnt out of their homes last night children being rushed out of burning homes barefoot into the back of a riot wagon for their own protection, groups of masked men stopping people in cars outside one of the main hospitals in the country to check the ethnicity of the passengers... of course its bloody personal because all of it affects the ability of any other migrant to go about their day to day. Including the children of those migrants. It's just not personal to YOU.

Did it make you feel better bleating all that?

“Quite literally anyone who's suggesting that the violence and rioting tonight is in any way justified. That's all racist.”
Oh right so violence now = racism!
What a stupid argument!

The Sudanese man was here through the proper legal channels? Please inform us of how you know alllll about his migration status then!

OpheliaWasntMad · 10/06/2026 07:27

Lavender14 · 10/06/2026 07:20

I believe its the most vulnerable who go through the asylum system and are granted asylum. And those are the only ones we need to worry about as they're the ones on our doorstep.

You've missed my point.

The “most vulnerable” are unlikely to be healthy young men …

MurunBuchstansangursCousinRossiter · 10/06/2026 07:27

Ihateboris · 09/06/2026 19:22

The look of pure hatred in the bastard's eyes.. almost demonic.

Because people like him are barely human.

Winter2020 · 10/06/2026 07:27

Vivaea · 10/06/2026 06:29

Let me spell this out for you.

We should not let people in who come on boats and destroy their documentation - not racist.

Come from cultures where this is considered the norm - absolutely fucking racist.

Ignorant too - why don’t you tell me what you actually know about Sudanese culture and where you’ve learned it from?

So how do you suggest we could identify that this Sudanese national would carry out this attack? How should we have identified the Sudanese national that stabbed Rhiannon Whyte to death? If it's not possible to identify which people are at risk of stabbing someone to death in a frenzied attack (or attempting to) then no - they should not be allowed to come.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 10/06/2026 07:28

Sailingintothesunset · 10/06/2026 06:30

But that is exactly what I said.
If you read my post properly you will see that I didn't say that it's about a community that didn't integrate. I am specifically talking about individuals and, in this case, a family.
If the Digwa family had integrated into the British Sikh community, they would have integrated to British society. They aren't 2 separate things or shouldn't be.

Edited

No, you're not getting my point. This is not about a failure of integration at all. It is simply about a failure of morals.

Digwa's behaviour would have been as unacceptable in the Punjab as it was in Britain. It has nothing to do with integration.

Some white British families fail to impart basic moral values to their children. If those children go on to commit horrific crimes as adults, we do not assume that the crimes are somehow connected to their ethnicity, or say that they must have failed to integrate into British society, so why do we have to frame it as such just because the perpetrator happens to come from an ethnic minority background?

A failure to integrate might have been relevant if this case had been about a clash of cultural values, but it was not. It was about the individual perpetrator and his family behaving in ways that would be perceived as morally repugnant in both Britain and in the society from which the family had originated before they migrated to Britain.

EasternStandard · 10/06/2026 07:29

Lavender14 · 10/06/2026 07:20

I believe its the most vulnerable who go through the asylum system and are granted asylum. And those are the only ones we need to worry about as they're the ones on our doorstep.

You've missed my point.

The perpetrator wasn’t vulnerable. The person he was straddling while he attacked with a knife was.

How can you only let people in who won’t do that? Why should anyone be subject to that crime as a kind of proxy vetting system.

Lavender14 · 10/06/2026 07:29

Nine2five · 10/06/2026 07:15

No, the fall out is entire communities who are absolutely p**ed off with being told that uncontrolled immigration is good for us. How much proof does there need to be before the government acts to protect the people of UK?
Belfast has spoke loud, they are not prepared to accept such heinous crimes on their streets, by people who have no rights being there in the first place.

I would say a lot of people in Belfast and beyond are pretty fucking embarrassed and depressed by what happened last night and wish that Belfast would speak a bit quieter. Me included.

Anyone who turned up to a "protest" where people were openly encouraged to "wear black and masks and come prepared to be arrested", where "all business's were told to close at 5.30 with no excuses or else " wasn't there in peace. Let's be really honest about that they all went along fully informed that there was likely to be violence on the streets if people felt emboldened and they went supporting that otherwise they'd have steered clear. Every person who turned out last night contributed to the violence that happened, don't think for a second that they didn't.

OpheliaWasntMad · 10/06/2026 07:31

Lavender14 · 10/06/2026 07:29

I would say a lot of people in Belfast and beyond are pretty fucking embarrassed and depressed by what happened last night and wish that Belfast would speak a bit quieter. Me included.

Anyone who turned up to a "protest" where people were openly encouraged to "wear black and masks and come prepared to be arrested", where "all business's were told to close at 5.30 with no excuses or else " wasn't there in peace. Let's be really honest about that they all went along fully informed that there was likely to be violence on the streets if people felt emboldened and they went supporting that otherwise they'd have steered clear. Every person who turned out last night contributed to the violence that happened, don't think for a second that they didn't.

Agreed

Winter2020 · 10/06/2026 07:32

OneFunBrickNewt · 10/06/2026 06:54

In NI, there were around 50,000 victims (deaths plus injuries) in the Troubles. That's white British and Irish men and women attacking each other for being the wrong type of Christian. And you've now just found anger when it's a black person?

People on both sides of that divide have found anger about someone from Sudan being allowed into your country and attempting to behead a man and gouge his eyes out haven't they?

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