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Belfast attack

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Greenwitchart · 09/06/2026 17:51

I can see that the previous thread on the topic is full so I am starting a new one to continue the discussion.

The points I wanted to say as someone who immigrated to the UK over 30 years ago:

  • This is a horrific attack and everyone's thoughts should be with the victim and his loved one.
  • However, I do think that we have an issue with some people getting into the country whether legally or illegally who simply don't have the same values as the majority of the population and are not able to follow its laws and customs.
  • The asylum and immigration system needs a serious overall and to do more to stop men who are a potential danger to society because of their beliefs/culture/failure to integrate getting through the system and ending up committing violent acts. Some people destroy their documents and checks can only go so far when it is hard to verify claims and the chaotic countries they come from does not have reliable records that can be accessed . There are many peaceful and genuine asylum seekers who just want a safe place to live in peace but we seem to be getting in too many angry, violent men who abuse the system and that has to stop.
  • I don't want to share the streets with people who have no respect for women and girls, are religious fanatics to the point of extremism or show hate towards gay people and bring violence in general.
  • Having people from different cultures coming in is fine as long as they integrate well and take on the values of the country they live in. It does not work if they just live parallel lives and fail to follow the law of the land.
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DBSFstupid · 09/06/2026 23:31

Decacaffeinatednow · 09/06/2026 23:20

@DBSFstupid
The pp I was quoting said the victim had been beheaded.

I think the Individual 'tried' to behead the victim.
The victim is seriously ill in Hospital I think.

RockLobsterRockLobster · 09/06/2026 23:31

Sunglade · 09/06/2026 23:27

I was thinking the same when I saw the sweeping comment condemning all modern day Brits to be punished for the sins of their distant ancestors. You don't half get some daft sods on this site.

I’m sorry, but completely ignoring all the terrible things which happened under the name of The Empire is unbelievably ignorant!

The two are absolutely not mutually exclusive.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 09/06/2026 23:31

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 09/06/2026 23:30

This case really wasn't about the integration of migrant families into British society.

You can argue that Digwa wasn't "integrated" into British society, despite having been born here, but he clearly wasn't "integrated" into the British Sikh community either. He did not accept or abide by their values or morals in the slightest. Indeed, he was banned from attending his local gurdwara long before the attack on Henry Nowak. Essentially, he wasn't able to integrate into any community.

This story is not one of a community that has failed to integrate. It is the story of a family that failed to teach the basic moral values that are common to British society and the Sikh community.

Agree
I think the majority of the ire was directed at the vastly different reactions the victim and perpetrator were given by the police.

FrankieMcGrath · 09/06/2026 23:32

OneFunBrickNewt · 09/06/2026 22:55

I disagree with this racist message.
One lunatic doesn't define immigration policy.
White Brits have been blowing each other up, maiming, stabbing, beating, kneecapping etc each other because they are the wrong sort of Christians near where this horrible attack took place, and none of the people shouting about this attack said anything.

I think you’ll find we said plenty.

Cakeymauve · 09/06/2026 23:33

Allisnotlost1 · 09/06/2026 23:31

A police who agrees with masked men setting fire to people’s homes? Good luck rebuilding your country with people like that.

Yeah let’s rebuild with people like the beheader instead! Woo diversity!

BIossomtoes · 09/06/2026 23:33

FrankieMcGrath · 09/06/2026 23:32

I think you’ll find we said plenty.

When did you say it?

MJxJones · 09/06/2026 23:33

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 09/06/2026 23:24

So… something entirely different to what the PP was complaining about.

No she said if people are speaking a foreign language in public they are not assimilated

Anyahyacinth · 09/06/2026 23:33

Livelovebehappy · 09/06/2026 23:19

And it is. If you’re having a private conversation with family, then obviously fine. If you’re in a restaurant ordering a meal, or in a bank getting assistance, but need interpreters to get you through a conversation, then that’s not okay….

...and as I said for expats too? For you when you go on holiday?
The hostile environment evident in this thread makes immigrant communities cling together ...you said it was ok for expats to speak English...but there is some special reason ...that others shouldn't speak their own language...does it relate to skin colour? Your feeling excluded in some way? Marginalised? Almost like giving you a kind of minority feeling?
Does that discomfort bring with it an awareness of being 'othered' at all???

Winter2020 · 09/06/2026 23:33

Lavender14 · 09/06/2026 22:11

Thanks, it would probably be much easier to make it happen if we stopped fighting each other and together looked to government instead of the minority groups themselves wouldn't it? But I guess they give people somewhere easy to vent their rage when they feel like it...

We have looked to Government for a decade and they have done fuck all. In fact, they have made it worse.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 09/06/2026 23:33

Allisnotlost1 · 09/06/2026 23:31

A police who agrees with masked men setting fire to people’s homes? Good luck rebuilding your country with people like that.

No. He doesn’t. Are you back to these tactics again?
He empathises with the source of their anger not their actions.

Livelovebehappy · 09/06/2026 23:34

BIossomtoes · 09/06/2026 23:20

I don’t think he’s sane. My first reaction was that this is Nottingham all over again.

What do you base that on? Nothing anywhere with details on his background yet, other than his nationality. The police haven’t released any information yet on his mental health.

Cakeymauve · 09/06/2026 23:35

Livelovebehappy · 09/06/2026 23:34

What do you base that on? Nothing anywhere with details on his background yet, other than his nationality. The police haven’t released any information yet on his mental health.

Not the mental health card again. So what if he has poor mental health

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 09/06/2026 23:35

Anyahyacinth · 09/06/2026 23:33

...and as I said for expats too? For you when you go on holiday?
The hostile environment evident in this thread makes immigrant communities cling together ...you said it was ok for expats to speak English...but there is some special reason ...that others shouldn't speak their own language...does it relate to skin colour? Your feeling excluded in some way? Marginalised? Almost like giving you a kind of minority feeling?
Does that discomfort bring with it an awareness of being 'othered' at all???

No one is complaining about people on holiday here not being fluent in English.

You’re making false equivalences here and it undermines your point more than any disagreement ever could.

Allisnotlost1 · 09/06/2026 23:35

Livelovebehappy · 09/06/2026 23:27

Because he presumably was born here and lived here? Can’t you see the difference? Of course there are evil people who do evil things every day - but what we’re saying is that the Stephen McCullough’s we can’t do antything about other than let the justice system take care of things. Asylum seekers and criminals from other countries we can do something about; by not letting them come here, or at least vetting them. I refuse to believe that those from other countries who are raping and killing people in the UK have been adequately vetted, because I’m pretty sure they have done similar in the place they’ve ‘escaped’ from.

I think we can do something about the native shitbags though. We can expect parents to raise their children better. We can expect boys and men to act better, and to keep each other accountable. We can expect schools and sports clubs and employers and pubs and gyms to be alert to the kind of toxic attitudes that lead so many men to be abusive.

I wonder how many of those men out setting fires and smashing things tonight are good to their wives and girlfriends.

Sunglade · 09/06/2026 23:35

RockLobsterRockLobster · 09/06/2026 23:31

I’m sorry, but completely ignoring all the terrible things which happened under the name of The Empire is unbelievably ignorant!

The two are absolutely not mutually exclusive.

Yes you're right, because Britain is the only country to ever do anything bad. I forgot that, silly me. There have never been any others to do the same or worse. Awkwardly glances towards whatever the fuck is going on in the middle east, large swathes of Africa, a good chunk of Asia and eastern Europe.

Yes we are truly a unique sort of evil here with our science and worker's/women's rights, I'll give you that.

BIossomtoes · 09/06/2026 23:36

Livelovebehappy · 09/06/2026 23:34

What do you base that on? Nothing anywhere with details on his background yet, other than his nationality. The police haven’t released any information yet on his mental health.

Gut feel. Nobody sane would do something like this.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 09/06/2026 23:36

MJxJones · 09/06/2026 23:33

No she said if people are speaking a foreign language in public they are not assimilated

We don’t expect holiday makers to assimilate.

I didn’t realise there was confusion about that.

Firetreev · 09/06/2026 23:36

Marmalademorning · 09/06/2026 19:21

You’ve made a lot of claims in your last couple of posts @blightfitting. I’d be very interested in knowing the source of some of the ‘facts’ you’ve quoted.

Where are your facts to the contrary? What are your sources?

OpheliaWasntMad · 09/06/2026 23:37

RockLobsterRockLobster · 09/06/2026 23:31

I’m sorry, but completely ignoring all the terrible things which happened under the name of The Empire is unbelievably ignorant!

The two are absolutely not mutually exclusive.

It’s ridiculous of some posters to come on a thread about a brutal attempted beheading that happened yesterday on the streets of Belfast and want to talk about “all the terrible things which happened under the name of The Empire “

VillageFete · 09/06/2026 23:37

FunkyDiamondTime · 09/06/2026 23:24

I’m glad you mentioned that. If a load of Brits move to a Spanish town, continue to speak English, don’t integrate, generally take over and affect the local culture, nobody has an issue with saying that’s wrong. When the local community complain about it, how many fellow Spanish people from other areas do you think leap to the defence of the Brits? Tell them it’s not as bad as they’re making out? Defend their right to change the culture and community, and continue to speak English? None, probably.

Now let’s look to England to the (working class) towns and cities who’ve had their local culture and communities absolutely destroyed. Changed beyond comprehension. To the people who feel like strangers in their own hometowns. Why is it that they’re accused of racism, bigotry and ignorance when all they ever wanted was to preserve their culture and their communities? The answer is usually classism btw.
Because so many middle and upper class people don’t see the issues in their own communities and it doesn’t affect them ,they just don’t care…It’s simply an opportunity to show off how “tolerant” and “progressive” they are. I mean, it’s only poor people after all. Do the commoners even know what culture is? Amirite? It’s just so easy for you to call Brits thick and ignorant, much more difficult to actually have empathy and consider how things might impact people who aren’t you.

Excellent post 👏🏼

RockLobsterRockLobster · 09/06/2026 23:37

Sunglade · 09/06/2026 23:35

Yes you're right, because Britain is the only country to ever do anything bad. I forgot that, silly me. There have never been any others to do the same or worse. Awkwardly glances towards whatever the fuck is going on in the middle east, large swathes of Africa, a good chunk of Asia and eastern Europe.

Yes we are truly a unique sort of evil here with our science and worker's/women's rights, I'll give you that.

Who has said Britain is the only county to have ever done anything bad?

Allisnotlost1 · 09/06/2026 23:37

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 09/06/2026 23:33

No. He doesn’t. Are you back to these tactics again?
He empathises with the source of their anger not their actions.

Where did the pp specify that her husband sympathises with ‘the source of their anger’?

He agrees with the people on the street.

Unless you think she is unable to articulate what she means, it seems pretty clear. He agrees with the people on the street.

FunkyDiamondTime · 09/06/2026 23:38

placemats · 09/06/2026 23:31

Now let’s look to England to the (working class) towns and cities who’ve had their local culture and communities absolutely destroyed.

London, Bristol, Manchester, Liverpool, Cardiff, Belfast, Glasgow, Newcastle, Leeds, Sheffield and Birmingham aren't working class?

@FunkyDiamondTime

Yeah, now instead of nitpicking the wording I used, perhaps you could consider which areas and whose communities are the ones being obliterated. Yes, those cities all have lovely, affluent areas…but yet again, it’s the deprived communities who are the ones getting the shitty end of the stick. And being insulted and gaslit by the affluent bubble classes to boot.

TicklishReader · 09/06/2026 23:39

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 09/06/2026 23:33

No. He doesn’t. Are you back to these tactics again?
He empathises with the source of their anger not their actions.

Christ.

As someone who lives in Belfast, if you think these scumbags actually care about the victim, I have a bridge to sell you.

This is what they do. It's a night out for them; any excuse will do.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 09/06/2026 23:39

Allisnotlost1 · 09/06/2026 23:37

Where did the pp specify that her husband sympathises with ‘the source of their anger’?

He agrees with the people on the street.

Unless you think she is unable to articulate what she means, it seems pretty clear. He agrees with the people on the street.

He agrees that undocumented men from violent and misogynistic countries are a threat to our safety.

Surely you don’t need everything spelling out to you. Surely you can work some of this stuff out yourself?

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