What's the most attractive thing a man has done unintentionally?

[worldshottestmom]

Can be your DH/DP/random man. I'm single, so my instances will be of a random man.

When I was at work recently, a man who works there, who is really chatty with me, asked me how my birthday was and idk why but it was such a turn on. Literally no-one else remembered, and I don't expect them to as I don't make a fuss of it, so the fact he remembered it was just really attractive. The bar is in hell guys, pray for me.

Another time was a few months ago; we had a contractor come in to work to fix the lift. We let on and asked how each other is etc, I mentioned being annoyed as I hadn't been able to take a break yet after 6 hours work, so he said go for your break and if anyone says anything he will sort them out. Already a turn on. I go for my break, come back and he is arguing with my manager that I should have had a break by now because of working so long etc. I think I may keep breaking the lift in hopes that he comes back.

Making this thread as I've been on a lot of threads today that ended up being really negative and want a shred of positivity on my Friday night - so, what is the most unintentionally attractive thing that a man has done that you found attractive?

Offered to walk DD down the aisle if her dad's anxiety meant he couldn't face doing it. DP wasn't asked or expected to step in, he just calmly said " if it get's too much for (ExH's name), then I'm here if you need me and always will be".

This probably reflects badly on me but friend was married to a quiet, nice but slightly boring guy. She's very sociable and outgoing and I suppose I always thought they were an odd match.

I bumped into him the morning after their first child was born. He was literally beaming, high on life! Spoke about how great his wife was, how strong, brave and amazing she was during labour, how perfect their little baby was, how meeting my friend was the best thing ever and now the baby etc. He was so happy and is do clear he adored them both. His happiness was infectious.

Just in that moment,and how he was speaking about her, it was so attractive and he was sexy as hell.

Next time I met him, he was back to his normal quiet self, it was gone and thankfully no lasting attraction.

I get it now. He adores her, is a really genuine person and is as solid as a rock.

Just thought about a couple I love about DH.

He can dance and gets real joy from it anytime there's a disco he's on the dancefloor 🕺

We have a ridiculously small dog we knew he'd be small but he is 4kg and tiny DH adores him a few workmates have said they or their husband would refuse to walk him as he's not a masculine enough dog 🐕 DH is just baffled by this.

That was a huge green flag for me he loves animals and is kind to them always.

I once completely lost myself in watching a much older man drive very, very competently..... so intentional in a way but it wasn't in an attempt to seduce me 😂

Awww that is so sweet. He sounds like such an honest and true gentleman, I woulf definitely find all of that very attractive!

Im so sorry about your dog, she sounds like she lived her life as a complete diva and deserved the celebrity status that she earnt. My dog is more infamous in my area than famous, but its better than nothing. He must be doing something right as the ladies love him

Aww I hate it when im all flustered and panicked doing something, or failing to. Someone stepping in to help is like seeing Jesus honestly lmao but honestly he sounded so sweet! I so hope he is reading this too, and DMs you to propose.

Thank you! I've enjoyed this thread so much tbh probably my favourite yet haha still reading through all the comments when I get the chance but they're all so great! I love hearing other people's stories

I never knew I needed a man who can fight off monkeys until now, thank you

Aw this honestly does give me hope in mankind tbh, so many people just leave others helpless with a "its not my problem attitude', its the ones who go out of their way when they dont need to that really shine for me. The level of humility and consideration is just so insanely attractive

Its the little things like this that do it for me, too! If they're genuine and decent in such little moments without giving it a second thought, you know theyre a keeper.

Also feel free to share the video x

I feel like that when I'm out with my dog.

This comment is so chaotic I love it hahahahaha

So, so far my ideal man needs to:

Look hot in a swimming pool
Drive
Clean up cat sick
Help old ladies in any way possible
Fight off monkeys
Stop to say hi to cats
Help hedgehogs cross roads (and geese)
Sing / be musical
Do DIY
be able to fix any fault on cars
chop onions like a masterchef contestant
And of course remember my birthday

Im heading to tinder wish me luck

I'm so glad someone can relate tbh I feel like im walking Ted Bundy on a lead sometimes the looks we get smh

It wasn't a euphanism...i hope!🤣🤣

Hahaha this made me laugh so much, next time just start bowing just in case anyone is looking and applauding

Don't forget remembering my birthday, the bar is in hell for me

God damn what a gentleman. I would have married him instead

I shout at the squirrels in my garden and spray them with water guns for going in my bin and knocking it over and everyone in my area now thinks im a lunatic (because I am)

I love these kinds of men! There was one who was 50+ at my old work place (i was like 23 at the time lol), was not conventionally attractive but had the charisma of a God. I was so attracted to him. He used to call me 'little (my name)' and it used to give me butterflies everytime hahaha. Personality often trumps looks when it comes to attractiveness, for me!

Oh they would be a disgrace. "This one time she bent over and I could see her arse, it was so attractive' is what I imagine it would be. Shallow as a puddle they are

That is honestly so sweet! And would be very attractive for me, too. Kindness to the elderly/animals is the number 1 theme, it seems!

I hope he proposed right after

Omg this is the stuff my dreams are made of. Do you have the what 3 words for this location?? I will wait for him

You can break up with him if you like 😍

Hahaha I love that last line. I do find things like this attractive, just not boy racers at 12am waking my kids up but other than that, engines revving get my engines revving

Stop it you have to be living inside of a romance novel this is too good to be true!! I would have jumped him there and then tbh. Why did you not work out?? He sounds like a god im ngl