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Henry Nowak second thread, as requested.

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rolloverbeethoven · 02/06/2026 14:21

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Authenticgreekyogurt · 05/06/2026 09:47

SpaceRaccoon · 05/06/2026 00:11

I just can't stop thinking about this. The little details... the family clearing out his room at uni and finding his advent calendar with two doors open.

That's absolutely heartbreaking.

EasternStandard · 05/06/2026 09:54

Fixydodah · 05/06/2026 09:44

I wish Henry’s parents had said no to an audience with Starmer at Downing Street. It felt like a day out at a London landmark. My ire is not directed at Henry’s family, but the politicians. They could have made this a private visit in a less public place. That would have felt more meaningful and meant.

I absolutely detest politicians. It’s all about chancers, being seen to say and do the right thing, to claw their way to power or to cling on. Starmer is clinging on and all his weasel words trying to shift the blame to external forces like Musk are just more covering up on the total mismanagement of this country by his party and the party that was in power before. All of the establishment hate the British public. They like causes, minorities, other cultures - they are openly contemptuous of British lives. It is that attitude that is causing unrest in this country. Most people just want fairness and equality of treatment, but the pendulum has now swung too far in favour of minority interests and now we are destabilised.

The rich elite, of which Starmer and his ilk are (and Farage), can up and leave. The rest of us are going to be stuck here, in what is becoming a trash can for all the world’s detritus. We are the ones who are having to navigate a new way of living where the country you were born, the taxes you have paid, the rules that you followed, the values you were taught, mean nothing.

We are the laughing stock of the world.

Agree with much of this.

Northermcharn · 05/06/2026 10:11

1dayatatime · 05/06/2026 07:21

So my view is:
There is no "division" on this issue- the entire Sikh community (who are one of the most respected and integrated of all ethnic minorities) are clearly not to blame for the actions of one individual.
Even the individual police officers are not to blame, they were simply following anti racism guidance indoctrinated into them since the death of George Floyd.

What is to blame here is institutional racism - official guidance from the police, media, Government attitudes that have created a situation where the police prioritised an accusation of racism over a dying 18 year old boy and to believe a person of brown skin over a person of white skin.

This "reverse racism in a desperate attempt to be anti racist madness " (hey look at me - I can't be racist because I discriminate against white people) now permeates not just across law and order but across employment, media, social media and Government attitudes.

You don't eliminate racism on one section of society by simply being racist against another section of society.

In stark opposition to what the official police guidelines says - policing and the law should be colour blind and everyone treated the same.

Totally agree. It's discrimination it's wrong. It's always been wrong.

**This "reverse racism...' .... now permeates not just across law and order but across employment, media, social media and Government attitudes.

You don't eliminate racism on one section of society by simply being racist against another section of society.

In stark opposition to what the official police guidelines says - policing and the law should be colour blind and everyone treated the same.

Allisnotlost1 · 05/06/2026 10:18

RoboBoogie · 05/06/2026 09:31

Yes to this.

As a previous poster has mentioned on this thread.

The Judge in this case went from a starting point of 15 years under Schedule 21 of the sentencing act.

The judge said:
"the murder did not involve taking a knife to the scene with the purpose to use it to commit an offence or to have it available to do so. It is possible that you had a good legal reason for having the dagger"

Why would Digwa carry this weapon unless he intended to use it?

The judge has started his sentencing at 15 years BECAUSE it was a religious dagger allowed by law in this country.

Because of that law, Digwa is now receiving a shorter sentence.

Worth noting that anyone else with a lawful reason for having a weapon would also see their sentence starting at 15 years. So it’s not just religious exemptions. Say a tradesperson was emptying their vehicle, got into an altercation with a passerby and used a tool grabbed from their bag with fatal results. Similarly if someone is stabbed in their own home with their own kitchen knife (whether the perpetrator also lives there or not) the starting point is 15 years.

It’s not about removing the religious exemption per se, it’s about changing the rather stupid idea that murder is worthy of a greater or lesser sentence depending on where the weapon came from (or indeed the use of a weapon at all) Lawful reason in the streets should prevent arrest, but once used the sentencing should be applied equally.

ETA This is an example of where the law truly and very explicitly has been treating people differently, and has meant men that kill
women at home often get lesser sentences than men who kill other men outside. But never seen a thread on here about it.

For example: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-birmingham-68139396

Northermcharn · 05/06/2026 10:36

The only way to restore order is to ensure the law is applied equally to all.

There should be no exemptions for any religion or colour, or anything else. It's not hard.

The Magna Carta was written to represent the rule of law for all. Not the shit show governments have turned the law into today. Where for eg. we apparently need a court case to confirm that yes biological sex is real - or where certain religions are allowed by law to wear clothes that conceal their faces, or weapons, or are allowed to carry weapons legally where others are not.

What a ludicrous situation we've become desensitised too.

upinaballoon · 05/06/2026 10:51

'contemptuous of British lives'

I am not challenging that. I am simply wondering how to define something.
What is 'a British life'?
Years ago I saw a man on TV saying to the camera 'I love England'. He was on the beach in northern France, hoping to come to England. I wondered what the words 'I love England' meant?

I don't want this post to start anyone having a row with someone else, but the words make me wonder.

RoboBoogie · 05/06/2026 10:53

Allisnotlost1 · 05/06/2026 10:18

Worth noting that anyone else with a lawful reason for having a weapon would also see their sentence starting at 15 years. So it’s not just religious exemptions. Say a tradesperson was emptying their vehicle, got into an altercation with a passerby and used a tool grabbed from their bag with fatal results. Similarly if someone is stabbed in their own home with their own kitchen knife (whether the perpetrator also lives there or not) the starting point is 15 years.

It’s not about removing the religious exemption per se, it’s about changing the rather stupid idea that murder is worthy of a greater or lesser sentence depending on where the weapon came from (or indeed the use of a weapon at all) Lawful reason in the streets should prevent arrest, but once used the sentencing should be applied equally.

ETA This is an example of where the law truly and very explicitly has been treating people differently, and has meant men that kill
women at home often get lesser sentences than men who kill other men outside. But never seen a thread on here about it.

For example: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-birmingham-68139396

Edited

Thankyou for your insights.

I can see that a tradesman carrying a tool in his van and then using it in a fatal altercation is different to him, for instance, carrying a knife to his ex-girlfriend's place of work and then stabbing her. (I assume in that second example his starting point would be 25 years?)

What i'm curious about is this grey area in the knives Digwa was actually carrying. Because it is documented that he was carrying his Kirpan (perfectly legal in this country, carried by many law -abiding Sikhs) but the knife he stabbed Henry with was NOT a Kirpan as has been stated by Sikh Federation UK, they have said it is not at all representative of the Sikh faith.

The only person saying it was a religious knife was Digwan himself. If it was not a Kirpan surely the only reason I can see for him carrying it is because he intended to kill someone with it, he was just looking for opportunity and so therefore the starting point should be 25 years.

GoldThumb · 05/06/2026 11:03

SpaceRaccoon · 04/06/2026 07:39

Could Henry Nowak have survived? Dr. Krzysztof Magier
@DrMagier
, a pediatrician and former honorary consul of the Republic of Poland in Cowes, analyzed footage from a police body camera showing Henry Nowak's death. Dr. Magier heads the pediatric intensive care unit, with experience in combat medicine training and a specialized course in treating severe injuries (including gunshot and stab wounds). He disagrees with the pathologist's and judge's opinion that Henry Nowak had no chance of survival and that handcuffing him essentially changed nothing. On the contrary—there is a high likelihood that the police intervention contributed to his death. He analyzed the autopsy report, which points to damage to the subclavian vein as the main source of bleeding, and explains where the problem lies. In a healthy person, venous bleeding occurs under low pressure and often self-limits thanks to the naturally forming clot, while simply approximating the wound edges and compressing the surrounding tissues closes the vein enough to slow or even stop the bleeding. The body camera footage shows that when police arrived on the scene (likely 5-10 minutes after the injury), Henry was conscious enough to speak quite loudly. He was therefore not yet in a terminal state. After his arms were twisted behind his back and handcuffed, the vein was most likely stretched, the clot torn, and bleeding dramatically intensified. Within just about three minutes, he lost consciousness and died. People with suspected internal injuries should never be moved or yanked abruptly—such actions can destroy the natural clot and lead to massive internal hemorrhage. Instead of immediately calling a medical rescue team and handing the patient over to paramedics, the police handcuffed him. If paramedics had arrived first on the scene, Henry’s chances of survival would have been much higher. "50%"—writes Dr. Magier. Paramedics could have quickly started an IV, administered fluids to increase circulating blood volume, and tranexamic acid to stabilize the clot, and if needed, performed needle decompression (inserting a large, long needle into the lung), because the issue wasn’t so much lack of lung function, but compression of the blood-filled lung on the heart and mediastinum, which blocks circulation. Worse still, the incident took place just a few minutes' drive by car (2–3 minutes by ambulance with sirens) from Southampton University Hospital—a regional Major Trauma Centre equipped with a full team of specialists, procedures, and equipment. "I am convinced that if Henry had arrived there alive, the doctors would not have let him die"—writes Dr. Magier. In summary: the aggressive police intervention, instead of saving a life, led to death through improper handling of a severely injured person, even though world-class care was just minutes away. "I fear the Judge and pathologist were too lenient toward the police"—writes Dr. Magier.

This is what needs to be investigated.

He had survived 30 mins, and was able to talk etc.

Police arrived and he died with minutes of being dragged and cuffed.

They need another investigation into this urgently.
As far as I’m aware, the report did not mention how his injury was affected by being yanked cuffed and forced down 😔

summermidnightsun · 05/06/2026 11:08

Northermcharn · 05/06/2026 10:36

The only way to restore order is to ensure the law is applied equally to all.

There should be no exemptions for any religion or colour, or anything else. It's not hard.

The Magna Carta was written to represent the rule of law for all. Not the shit show governments have turned the law into today. Where for eg. we apparently need a court case to confirm that yes biological sex is real - or where certain religions are allowed by law to wear clothes that conceal their faces, or weapons, or are allowed to carry weapons legally where others are not.

What a ludicrous situation we've become desensitised too.

It makes my head hurt, quite honestly. The hard left wingers are now falling over themselves to defend having different laws in the name of religion.

I’ve seen people on socials this week defending people in the UK belonging to certain religions being anti homosexuality - and many of the people defending these views are actually gay themselves. The people who were arrested and imprisoned pre-1967, when homosexuality was illegal largely due to Christian teachings, must be turning in their graves.

GoldThumb · 05/06/2026 11:08

roxyro · 04/06/2026 12:41

If anyone is in any doubt about two tier policing do yourself a favour and watch the video of police officers holding down a man whilst another repeatedly kicks him during the Southampton protests.

Compare that with the video of the Manchester Airport brothers beating up 3 officers and one officer stamping on him once.

It was all over the news, police brutality mobs demanding the release of the brothers and the male officer suspended. It’s obvious to anyone who cares to be open minded and objective.

He is one of the two men arrested, and being held in remand. He has pled not guilty, so we’ll see what happens.

Police claimed he kicked them, but multiple angles of the incident were recorded, and no one has been able to see a kick so far….

SnappyQuoter · 05/06/2026 11:12

RoboBoogie · 05/06/2026 09:31

Yes to this.

As a previous poster has mentioned on this thread.

The Judge in this case went from a starting point of 15 years under Schedule 21 of the sentencing act.

The judge said:
"the murder did not involve taking a knife to the scene with the purpose to use it to commit an offence or to have it available to do so. It is possible that you had a good legal reason for having the dagger"

Why would Digwa carry this weapon unless he intended to use it?

The judge has started his sentencing at 15 years BECAUSE it was a religious dagger allowed by law in this country.

Because of that law, Digwa is now receiving a shorter sentence.

Which is being reviewed by the attorney general to send to the court of appeal, as there was a question mark over the legitimacy of him carrying the larger knife, plus the possibility that he should lose the religious exemption because he unsheathed it. So that sentence could chance.

But let’s also be clear - the sentence is life. He can only apply for parole after 21 years, he won’t be relaxed unless he is granted parole. And I think we all know that he won’t be getting released so it may be a moot point.

Alexandra2001 · 05/06/2026 11:18

Northermcharn · 05/06/2026 10:36

The only way to restore order is to ensure the law is applied equally to all.

There should be no exemptions for any religion or colour, or anything else. It's not hard.

The Magna Carta was written to represent the rule of law for all. Not the shit show governments have turned the law into today. Where for eg. we apparently need a court case to confirm that yes biological sex is real - or where certain religions are allowed by law to wear clothes that conceal their faces, or weapons, or are allowed to carry weapons legally where others are not.

What a ludicrous situation we've become desensitised too.

When was the law applied equally to all?

The rich pay for the best defence, black people far more likely to be jailed and for longer, back in the day, being Irish would lead to being jailed, with evidence falsified.

Now i think no one shd be carrying a knife for religious reasons but carrying any bladed item is illegal to carry without good reason anyway but 100s get stabbed in the UK each year.

As for the Magna Carta, i'd have a look at the application of English over the last 1000 plus years to see that laws apply to some but not others and still carries on to this day.

RoboBoogie · 05/06/2026 11:22

SnappyQuoter · 05/06/2026 11:12

Which is being reviewed by the attorney general to send to the court of appeal, as there was a question mark over the legitimacy of him carrying the larger knife, plus the possibility that he should lose the religious exemption because he unsheathed it. So that sentence could chance.

But let’s also be clear - the sentence is life. He can only apply for parole after 21 years, he won’t be relaxed unless he is granted parole. And I think we all know that he won’t be getting released so it may be a moot point.

But hundreds of murderers get released from prison every year after they have served their sentence; he didn't get a whole life order. He will serve 21 years and then the parole board will probably let him out.

1dayatatime · 05/06/2026 11:26

Alexandra2001 · 05/06/2026 11:18

When was the law applied equally to all?

The rich pay for the best defence, black people far more likely to be jailed and for longer, back in the day, being Irish would lead to being jailed, with evidence falsified.

Now i think no one shd be carrying a knife for religious reasons but carrying any bladed item is illegal to carry without good reason anyway but 100s get stabbed in the UK each year.

As for the Magna Carta, i'd have a look at the application of English over the last 1000 plus years to see that laws apply to some but not others and still carries on to this day.

So your justification for not applying the law equally to all citizens in 2026 regardless of their race, religion or income is that historically it wasn't applied equally and there were legal injustices?

The arrest rate for Black individuals is roughly 19 to 20 per 1,000 people, compared to 10 per 1,000 for White individuals and 9 per 1,000 for Asian individuals. Are you suggesting that white people are more likely to arrested than Asian people because of racism or might it be that Asians simply commit less crimes than white people?

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/06/2026 11:26

Northermcharn · 05/06/2026 10:11

Totally agree. It's discrimination it's wrong. It's always been wrong.

**This "reverse racism...' .... now permeates not just across law and order but across employment, media, social media and Government attitudes.

You don't eliminate racism on one section of society by simply being racist against another section of society.

In stark opposition to what the official police guidelines says - policing and the law should be colour blind and everyone treated the same.

That is not what they are taught in the new guidance for police officers since the George Floyd incident. The police were terrified that the UK would see cities burned to the ground in race riots as in the US, so they have imported intersectionality and Critical Race Theory from the US. They are taught to treat minorities with greater sensitivity and as "allies." So Henry was perceived from the off as the white supremacist aggressor and the lying family as the victims.

TyroneBarkleyManofValueNSOUL · 05/06/2026 11:37

The Trump administration has chipped in their tuppence worth.
We do not need more political interference from point scoring politicians nor from a country where shootings and murders are a daily occurrence.

It's a British problem that has to be solved within the confines of the UK.
Mealy mouth lessons have been learned won't wash but attacking the police by rioting isn't the answer
Condolences to the Nowak family.

Alexandra2001 · 05/06/2026 11:39

1dayatatime · 05/06/2026 11:26

So your justification for not applying the law equally to all citizens in 2026 regardless of their race, religion or income is that historically it wasn't applied equally and there were legal injustices?

The arrest rate for Black individuals is roughly 19 to 20 per 1,000 people, compared to 10 per 1,000 for White individuals and 9 per 1,000 for Asian individuals. Are you suggesting that white people are more likely to arrested than Asian people because of racism or might it be that Asians simply commit less crimes than white people?

Perhaps read the post i was replying to first before jumping to a series of incorrect conclusions?

The pp was suggesting that under the Magna Carta we are all equal under the law and that until recently that was always the case.

We have had report after report stating the Met is racist, black athletes stopped for no reason, the Lawrence case... when i worked in London, our black technicians had to be given longer per fault call than white ones, to allow for them being stopped in their new company cars.

There is nothing "historical" about racism in the police force, hasn't a recent report said even maternity services are racist? with far worse outcomes for black women.

You nor i know why the Police acted the way they did, thats why there is an inquiry, yet you and plenty of others are stating as fact they acted the way they did due to PC gone mad.

I suggest it more due to utter incompetence.

ByGraptharsHammer · 05/06/2026 11:40

Fixydodah · 05/06/2026 09:44

I wish Henry’s parents had said no to an audience with Starmer at Downing Street. It felt like a day out at a London landmark. My ire is not directed at Henry’s family, but the politicians. They could have made this a private visit in a less public place. That would have felt more meaningful and meant.

I absolutely detest politicians. It’s all about chancers, being seen to say and do the right thing, to claw their way to power or to cling on. Starmer is clinging on and all his weasel words trying to shift the blame to external forces like Musk are just more covering up on the total mismanagement of this country by his party and the party that was in power before. All of the establishment hate the British public. They like causes, minorities, other cultures - they are openly contemptuous of British lives. It is that attitude that is causing unrest in this country. Most people just want fairness and equality of treatment, but the pendulum has now swung too far in favour of minority interests and now we are destabilised.

The rich elite, of which Starmer and his ilk are (and Farage), can up and leave. The rest of us are going to be stuck here, in what is becoming a trash can for all the world’s detritus. We are the ones who are having to navigate a new way of living where the country you were born, the taxes you have paid, the rules that you followed, the values you were taught, mean nothing.

We are the laughing stock of the world.

Who are you to express what the family may or may not or how they do things because of your political views. Insufferable ego

Imusthavesaiditwrong · 05/06/2026 11:50

We are all dual nationals, as when Brexit happened, we applied for dual nationality of mine and dh parents, EU countries of birth. We were all born here.

This is all making me wish we hadn’t actually, as I now worry if we and our DCs, as dual nationals could be deported to a country we have nationality of, but have never lived or worked or paid taxes in, makes me more than a bit concerned tbh.

Northermcharn · 05/06/2026 12:20

YourAmplePlumPoster · 05/06/2026 11:26

That is not what they are taught in the new guidance for police officers since the George Floyd incident. The police were terrified that the UK would see cities burned to the ground in race riots as in the US, so they have imported intersectionality and Critical Race Theory from the US. They are taught to treat minorities with greater sensitivity and as "allies." So Henry was perceived from the off as the white supremacist aggressor and the lying family as the victims.

Yep

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summermidnightsun · 05/06/2026 12:31

Imusthavesaiditwrong · 05/06/2026 11:50

We are all dual nationals, as when Brexit happened, we applied for dual nationality of mine and dh parents, EU countries of birth. We were all born here.

This is all making me wish we hadn’t actually, as I now worry if we and our DCs, as dual nationals could be deported to a country we have nationality of, but have never lived or worked or paid taxes in, makes me more than a bit concerned tbh.

I’m not sure what this has to do with the thread. But in any case I can’t ever see that happening, no party in the mainstream is advocating for deportations of dual national Brits unless they commit a very serious crime. It would have to take a radical political earthquake the scale of which we have never seen before for that to ever happen.

SpaceRaccoon · 05/06/2026 12:33

GoldThumb · 05/06/2026 11:03

This is what needs to be investigated.

He had survived 30 mins, and was able to talk etc.

Police arrived and he died with minutes of being dragged and cuffed.

They need another investigation into this urgently.
As far as I’m aware, the report did not mention how his injury was affected by being yanked cuffed and forced down 😔

There's going to be an enhanced inquest now. Currently scheduled for September 2027 but people are trying to get it brought forward as the delay is so cruel to the family

1dayatatime · 05/06/2026 12:39

Alexandra2001 · 05/06/2026 11:39

Perhaps read the post i was replying to first before jumping to a series of incorrect conclusions?

The pp was suggesting that under the Magna Carta we are all equal under the law and that until recently that was always the case.

We have had report after report stating the Met is racist, black athletes stopped for no reason, the Lawrence case... when i worked in London, our black technicians had to be given longer per fault call than white ones, to allow for them being stopped in their new company cars.

There is nothing "historical" about racism in the police force, hasn't a recent report said even maternity services are racist? with far worse outcomes for black women.

You nor i know why the Police acted the way they did, thats why there is an inquiry, yet you and plenty of others are stating as fact they acted the way they did due to PC gone mad.

I suggest it more due to utter incompetence.

I suggest that the police acted in the way they did because they were simply following their own internal policies.

I don't actually blame the police officers involved but I do blame years of policies and indoctrination which has made police officers prioritise against an accusation of racism rather than doing their job including trying to save the life of a 18 year old stab victim rather than hand cuffing him and kneeling on his back.

Henry Nowak second thread, as requested.
Fixydodah · 05/06/2026 13:03

ByGraptharsHammer · 05/06/2026 11:40

Who are you to express what the family may or may not or how they do things because of your political views. Insufferable ego

Edited

The family are being used by all politicians and agitators. There is a back entrance to Downing Street, this was a photo op for Starmer.