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Henry Nowak second thread, as requested.

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rolloverbeethoven · 02/06/2026 14:21

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Allisnotlost1 · 03/06/2026 21:48

Pacificsunshine · 03/06/2026 18:45

You’ve explained the motivation of the murderer and his family, but it does not explain the poor judgement and training of the police.

I can’t possibly explain the motivation or behaviour of anyone since I am not them. From the footage and the information we know it seems those officers either received very poor basic training, or departed from their training that evening.

5MinuteArgument · 03/06/2026 21:49

hairbearbunches · 03/06/2026 18:45

I cannot see how equality of outcome can be a valid target to reach when it comes to law and order.

I hope more police members go public and say what directives they’ve been given and from where those directives have come. I gather that Hampshire police had a statement on their website about George Floyd. Words fail me, they really do.

Yes I think the murder of career criminal George Floyd and the whole BLM thing supercharged the 'progressive' cause. And the police along with others started implementing policies which have led to the situation we have now with two tier policing.

We need a reset to bring things back to the middle ground.

5MinuteArgument · 03/06/2026 21:51

Allisnotlost1 · 03/06/2026 21:48

I can’t possibly explain the motivation or behaviour of anyone since I am not them. From the footage and the information we know it seems those officers either received very poor basic training, or departed from their training that evening.

I don't think they did depart from their training. They treated the ethnic minority person more favourably. That's fully in line with their race action plans, diversity initiatives etc.

vihotpot · 03/06/2026 21:54

SpaceRaccoon · 03/06/2026 21:16

The police in Hampshire have had specific training:

https://x.com/SuellaBraverman/status/2062266038851375363

Which 3rd party company I wonder

does anyone else remember a thread on mumsnet just after the stabbing around 3 December? I distinctly remember reading a thread, an incident with huge police presence in Southhampton was being discussed and something about sensitive community relations.

MushMonster · 03/06/2026 21:58

selfloveandselfrespect · 03/06/2026 21:13

I always thought there was a difference in policing as black men have a few harrowing stories on treatment by the Police. There have been many cases (I'd have to look them up) of people being kicked, manhandled while cuffed. Police have treated ethnic minorities and working class white people badly for years. There are too many bad officers for sure. I'm not saying they're all the same btw but too many. Look at the Sarah Everard case and the officers who passed around footage of the dead sisters. They get punished and we move on. It's not right.

It is in their policy!
It is just plain crazy!
It is not even a police officer on a bad day, bad guy.. nope, it is their damned policy!

Dorisbonson · 03/06/2026 21:58

Just watched this for the first time. Its so sad. I wish I hadn't seen it. I dont care about race, the police couldn't have seen the stabbing - there was no obvious bloody, stabbing wasnt obvious on the video camera, I dont know what they could have done. So sad for that boy and his family.

summermidnightsun · 03/06/2026 22:00

Dorisbonson · 03/06/2026 21:58

Just watched this for the first time. Its so sad. I wish I hadn't seen it. I dont care about race, the police couldn't have seen the stabbing - there was no obvious bloody, stabbing wasnt obvious on the video camera, I dont know what they could have done. So sad for that boy and his family.

The police could have made a few checks when Henry told them several times he’d been stabbed and couldn’t breathe.

VillageFete · 03/06/2026 22:03

Dorisbonson · 03/06/2026 21:58

Just watched this for the first time. Its so sad. I wish I hadn't seen it. I dont care about race, the police couldn't have seen the stabbing - there was no obvious bloody, stabbing wasnt obvious on the video camera, I dont know what they could have done. So sad for that boy and his family.

I’ll tell you what they could have done… Exercised some common sense and decency and listened to what the injured child was saying and bloody check him.

I’ll also tell you what I believe they shouldn’t have done… Handcuffed him. Been sarcastic towards him. Blindly listened to that lying piece of shit.

The police failed that child. The police and their policies are disgraceful.

EasternStandard · 03/06/2026 22:04

summermidnightsun · 03/06/2026 22:00

The police could have made a few checks when Henry told them several times he’d been stabbed and couldn’t breathe.

Listening to a police person today (radio) he said the main thing to do is constantly reassess the situation. They failed on this terribly.

The interview was good but rushed, it’s annoying they can’t just give people more time to explain things.

MushMonster · 03/06/2026 22:05

Dorisbonson · 03/06/2026 21:58

Just watched this for the first time. Its so sad. I wish I hadn't seen it. I dont care about race, the police couldn't have seen the stabbing - there was no obvious bloody, stabbing wasnt obvious on the video camera, I dont know what they could have done. So sad for that boy and his family.

They could not save his life, but they could have held his hand and comfort him on his last moments of life, instead of making even more difficult for him to breath by handcuffing him on his back and laying him on the floor. He could have died having someone checking him up for injuries, calling an ambulance, holding him.
Instead of been arrested.
True, for the amount of stab wounds, you would expect quite a bit of blood. He was wearing a white shirt and all. This blade that was used, it must have been of a peculiar shape.

5MinuteArgument · 03/06/2026 22:07

SpaceRaccoon · 03/06/2026 21:16

The police in Hampshire have had specific training:

https://x.com/SuellaBraverman/status/2062266038851375363

Yes, this is what the politicians and media should be talking about. What to do about this mindset which is corroding society, not about what Nigel Farage said or people getting angry in Southampton.

SpaceRaccoon · 03/06/2026 22:09

PropertyD · 03/06/2026 21:09

God. I am surprised with this. Did he say why he stabbed Henry. A young 18 year old on his own.

It was the way he was right in the faces of the
police, claiming he had been abused and then knowing he had stabbed Henry told the police he hadn’t. Also talking in Punjabi to his brother which was then translated.

i hope he is looking over his shoulder every day in prison.

He's a violent nutter I think. Previously kicked out of his Gurdwara for stealing £1000 of ceremonial knives, brother was involved in acroaf rage incident as well. Just one of those rotten families despite the respectable careers.

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 03/06/2026 22:09

VillageFete · 02/06/2026 23:39

I had no idea that Scotsmen carried these blades for cultural reasons. It shouldn’t be allowed. It takes one lunatic to cause a catastrophe with it.

How many Scotsmen are dressed in full regalia on a day to day basis with these weapons? How many Sikh’s walk around on a day to day basis with these weapons?

Religion should never, ever be an excuse for allowing this. It’s as simple as that. There’s no reason that carrying a blade is acceptable. A change has to be made after this horrendous situation.

The thing is you CAN ban these things and go home all smug that you’ve ’done something about it’.

Sleep tight but it’s literally fiddling while Rome burns. Stopping Sikhs and Scots from carrying traditional knives will make fuck all difference when it comes to knife crime stats overall. You’ve not gained any ‘win’ of safety, not really, all you’ve lost is religious and cultural freedom. And young people will go on dying from knife crime.

SpaceRaccoon · 03/06/2026 22:11

Dorisbonson · 03/06/2026 21:58

Just watched this for the first time. Its so sad. I wish I hadn't seen it. I dont care about race, the police couldn't have seen the stabbing - there was no obvious bloody, stabbing wasnt obvious on the video camera, I dont know what they could have done. So sad for that boy and his family.

They could have believed him - at the very least, believed him enough to check him properly.

VillageFete · 03/06/2026 22:12

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 03/06/2026 22:09

The thing is you CAN ban these things and go home all smug that you’ve ’done something about it’.

Sleep tight but it’s literally fiddling while Rome burns. Stopping Sikhs and Scots from carrying traditional knives will make fuck all difference when it comes to knife crime stats overall. You’ve not gained any ‘win’ of safety, not really, all you’ve lost is religious and cultural freedom. And young people will go on dying from knife crime.

It’s about equality, not just stats.

No group, regardless of culture or religion, should be entitled to carry a deadly weapon as they simply walk around in day to day life.

The biggest take home from this isn’t that issue though, it’s the two tier system and the weak, woke, ridiculous policing we have which comes from Government.

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 03/06/2026 22:15

VillageFete · 03/06/2026 22:12

It’s about equality, not just stats.

No group, regardless of culture or religion, should be entitled to carry a deadly weapon as they simply walk around in day to day life.

The biggest take home from this isn’t that issue though, it’s the two tier system and the weak, woke, ridiculous policing we have which comes from Government.

So you dont REALLY care about young people dying in knife crime incidents…. You’re just fuming that someone somewhere (a minority!!!!) might have a ‘right’ to do something you don’t (but actually do share that right - if you wanted to go through all the bother of becoming a baptised Sikh).

Got it. Glad we established you don’t give a fuck and are using this dreadful murder in a callous and awful way.

MushMonster · 03/06/2026 22:18

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 03/06/2026 22:09

The thing is you CAN ban these things and go home all smug that you’ve ’done something about it’.

Sleep tight but it’s literally fiddling while Rome burns. Stopping Sikhs and Scots from carrying traditional knives will make fuck all difference when it comes to knife crime stats overall. You’ve not gained any ‘win’ of safety, not really, all you’ve lost is religious and cultural freedom. And young people will go on dying from knife crime.

I do not see it in this way, at all.
It could be a Sikh young man or Scot who is stabbed next. This affects them as much as any other ethnicity. The rise in knife crime, young children carrying knives, stabbings, it affects us all. All of us.
Most of us no longer need to carry blades. They still can keep the decorative case. Empty.
The less knives are seen, the less young kids will think of carrying one.

thetinsoldier · 03/06/2026 22:18

5MinuteArgument · 02/06/2026 18:44

Yes, and then when Henry says he's been stabbed, the police officer says 'No, you haven't mate', without having checked him over.

Police training must be really warped for them to react like that, treating the accusation of racism with top priority and the stabbing as less important. The bodycam showed the killer was perfectly fine and on his feet while Henry was slumped on the floor obviously very unwell. Yet they treated Henry as the assailant who needed to be subdued.

At the very least, police training needs a thorough review.

All this. Terrible. What were they thinking?

PropertyD · 03/06/2026 22:19

How quickly did the police realise what had actually happened and when did the charge this scum with murder?

VillageFete · 03/06/2026 22:21

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 03/06/2026 22:15

So you dont REALLY care about young people dying in knife crime incidents…. You’re just fuming that someone somewhere (a minority!!!!) might have a ‘right’ to do something you don’t (but actually do share that right - if you wanted to go through all the bother of becoming a baptised Sikh).

Got it. Glad we established you don’t give a fuck and are using this dreadful murder in a callous and awful way.

OF COURSE I care about young people dying due to knife crime. It’s a huge, terrible problem; we are all aware of that.

It takes one lunatic Sihk with the privilege of legally being allowed to carry a weapon for something like this to occur again. We scream for equality- then treat all citizens the same and don’t have dangerous fucking laws in place enabling a minority to carry a deadly weapon. It’s COMMON SENSE, and I imagine the countless amount of kind and decent Sikh members of our communities would have no issue whatsoever should that law come to pass - and if they don’t? Fuck off somewhere else that allows it then.

SpaceRaccoon · 03/06/2026 22:22

PropertyD · 03/06/2026 22:19

How quickly did the police realise what had actually happened and when did the charge this scum with murder?

I guess when the policewoman shone a torch in Henry's eyes and saw that his pupils were fixed? Although still a horrifying lack of concern in her voice.

VillageFete · 03/06/2026 22:23

Someone said this further up in the thread and it was spot on - We don’t let women carry pepper spray, but we let a religious group carry a deadly weapon if they so wish.

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 03/06/2026 22:23

MushMonster · 03/06/2026 22:18

I do not see it in this way, at all.
It could be a Sikh young man or Scot who is stabbed next. This affects them as much as any other ethnicity. The rise in knife crime, young children carrying knives, stabbings, it affects us all. All of us.
Most of us no longer need to carry blades. They still can keep the decorative case. Empty.
The less knives are seen, the less young kids will think of carrying one.

When your house is burning down, you don’t expect the fire brigade to start up the hose pipe at the house across the street because ‘that might catch on fire next’. You put out the house that’s already on fire. There’s lots of knife crime in the UK already. Let’s not panic that all the Sikhs and young fellas in traditional Scottish dress who have been going round NOT stabbing each other since the dawn of time might start now because YOU just learned about their culture.

EasternStandard · 03/06/2026 22:23

SpaceRaccoon · 03/06/2026 22:22

I guess when the policewoman shone a torch in Henry's eyes and saw that his pupils were fixed? Although still a horrifying lack of concern in her voice.

Also the ‘I know but we have to check’

When someone said he hasn’t been stabbed. The ‘I know..’ how wrong she was. How blasé and callous.

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