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Women who consider themselves 100% straight: Would you rather have sex with a very physically unattractive man or a very physically attractive woman?

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Alwaysthelastone · 13/05/2026 22:22

…personality aside (say, they are both equally nice and respectful people). Just interested to hear people’s responses after a colleague asked me this earlier. Her theory is I can’t be 100% straight cos I picked the woman. I think it’s bollocks. I’d enjoy neither but the man would gross me out way more

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EverydayRoutine · 17/05/2026 02:28

The man, certainly. Though I can appreciate beauty in women from an aesthetic perspective, I am not sexually attracted to women at all. And TBH I’m not hung up on physical appearance with male sexual partners. Attraction and chemistry, yes. But objective “attractiveness”? Nope.

StarlightLady · 17/05/2026 06:59

I’m past the curious stage by over 10 years so it’s a no brainer. The difficulty would be a physically attractive man or a physically attractive woman if l met them both at the same time. Then it’s down to chemistry.

Alwaysthelastone · 17/05/2026 08:24

DoggusDomesticus · 16/05/2026 19:34

Well as others have also said, there's something a bit iffy about the whole question and possibly OPs motives.
For me it's the "women who CONSIDER themselves 100% straight" as if it were only an opinion, and no one could say with certainty.

I am certain of my sexuality, thanks.

Lol you’re definitely reading too much into it. “Consider themselves 100% straight/ARE 100% straight” whatever, it means the same to me. It’s just how i happened to word it.

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Wolverine23 · 17/05/2026 18:51

i asked my life long gay friend , had a couple of girlfriends in his early 20’s I knew then he wasn’t straight, now 50. He has often found woman attractive and has said he’s been been turned on by a couple and said the attractive woman. He said he’s definitely gay not bi

KilkennyCats · 17/05/2026 20:11

Wolverine23 · 17/05/2026 18:51

i asked my life long gay friend , had a couple of girlfriends in his early 20’s I knew then he wasn’t straight, now 50. He has often found woman attractive and has said he’s been been turned on by a couple and said the attractive woman. He said he’s definitely gay not bi

Gay men don’t find women physically attractive, by definition.

Morepositivemum · 17/05/2026 20:14

I always disagree with this question when I hear it, it’s personality that makes a person more attractive every time for me and now I’m mid forties it’s a lot more likely to be someone who’s warm and enthusiastic about me. Looks aren’t that important

EvieBB · 18/05/2026 10:43

Tambora · 16/05/2026 10:01

You could appreciate their appearance without finding their attractiveness 'physically' attractive, which is the question in the OP.

In order to be physically attracted to someone you need to fancy them.

Yes I agree with you when it's put like that :)

MsGreying · 18/05/2026 10:46

Alwaysthelastone · 13/05/2026 22:41

For the posters saying neither..have you never played would you rather?! Neither is not an option!

In that case it's rapey, as someone else has said.

And juvenile.
Are the schools shut today?

Alwaysthelastone · 19/05/2026 07:56

MsGreying · 18/05/2026 10:46

In that case it's rapey, as someone else has said.

And juvenile.
Are the schools shut today?

Oh lighten up 🙄 our job is boring as hell..we need to do something to get through the day!

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EvieBB · 19/05/2026 23:26

Alwaysthelastone · 19/05/2026 07:56

Oh lighten up 🙄 our job is boring as hell..we need to do something to get through the day!

Exactly this! What is wrong with people....? 🙄

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