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Three women's bodies found in the sea at Brighton

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BlackTogetherAgain · 13/05/2026 10:16

This is absolutely heartbreaking.

Why didn't anyone report three women were missing?

If it's a Channel crossing, from what I understand, it's rare that women go on the boats from France, and when they do they are pushed to the back / bottom, where the risk of being crushed is high.

If it's not a crossing, what on earth has happened?

Words can't express how evil this is.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cwyg508gg28t

Bodies of three women recovered from sea in Brighton, police say

Sussex Police say emergency services were called over concerns for the welfare of the women at around 05:45 today.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cwyg508gg28t

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HoraceCope · 18/05/2026 10:55

i am surprised there arent more deaths, the sea is dangerous

brightonrockzz · 18/05/2026 15:41

Tryingtokeepgoing · 18/05/2026 10:46

Gareth Jones died, IIRC, going in to the water at Hove to rescue his dog. It is of course speculation, but I imagine no matter how many warning signs existed he would still have entered the water to try and save his dog.

If the council tax payers of Brighton are happy to spend millions of pounds a year erecting and maintaining signs that are secure enough not to be affected by the shingle, winds and strong tides, placed frequently enough and at low and high tide points to actually even be noticed while at the same time not causing an additional danger to swimmers, paddle boarders and other craft that use the sea then great - let’s see what plan they come up with. But there are around 15kms of seafront between the marina and Shoreham Fort to cover...

To put the three deaths in context, 36 homeless people died on the streets of Brighton in both 2023 and 2024, and with no national press coverage to speak of. Eliminating those deaths, which I am sure will have far more complex causes than just an ill informed (or reckless, or stupid) decision to go into unknown water in bad weather at the crack of dawn would seem at least as worthy, but for some reason not as media friendly - presumably as it doesn’t drive clicks…

The only sustainable solution is education and publicity I think, and that’s down to parents and schools as well as the council.

Well said.

45 people died in Brighton in 2023 wholly caused by alcohol consumption.

NameChangeMay2026 · 18/05/2026 16:21

brightonrockzz · 17/05/2026 13:24

Exactly. I dont know where people are getting the idea that signs would have prevented this- there are signs. When this incident happened, the sea was absolutely freezing cold, dark, rough, and choppy as hell. The weather was cold and it would have been dark because it was prior to sunrise between 4-5am, so not light.

Brighton beach down near the pier area is not pleasant at this time of year at that time of day. This isnt the gentle lapping waves of a balmy, warm, crystal clear Caribbean sea we are talking about here. Its Brighton.

The beach here is extremely painful to walk on without shoes, it really bloody hurts your feet. The sea at this time would have been rough, choppy, dark and freezing cold. Its not remotely inviting at that time of day/year and so sadly, I suspect alcohol was involved because this isnt a nice place you'd choose to go "for a paddle" at that time in the am and its not something you'd consider when sober and in a logical state of mind. There's a reason why that area was deserted when this happened and there were no witnesses.

Humans are very bad at emotionally feeling danger when nothing bad has happened yet, everyone else seems relaxed, or the activity feels temporary and low-stakes (“just for a second”). This is why people often do risky things on holiday that they would never, ever, do when at home - because their perception of risk is lowered.

Signs work best when someone is already in a cautious, sober mindset. They work less well when someone thinks: “We’re only going near the edge for a second" and they are intoxicated and their inhibitions lowered.

So, whilst coastal safety measures are always worth discussing, there probably isn’t a simple “if only there had been one more sign” explanation here.

If anything, I think the best way to get people to connect to danger on an emotional level where they are most likely to remember it, is more likely to be achieved from those horrifying public information adverts from the 70s/80s. Those things have been burned into my brain because they were scary as hell and worked far better on an emotional level than a sign I paid no attention to.

They were first noticed at 5.45 a.m, so they could easily have gone in when it was light.

A PP and I have been round that area recently and noticed no signs. Not to say they aren't there, but they need to be bigger and better.

Totally agree about the public info ads. They were indeed petrifying. Remember the HIV one???

NameChangeMay2026 · 18/05/2026 16:25

brightonrockzz · 18/05/2026 15:41

Well said.

45 people died in Brighton in 2023 wholly caused by alcohol consumption.

If Gareth Jones had been aware of the stats and also aware of that deep shelf, and how difficult it is to get out, he might not have gone in after his dog. (Stats are that rescuers commonly drown.)

The safety advice about dogs is that they often get out on their own and you should stay out of the water but call to them, to orientate them.

Of course, it's a different matter when it's your own dog, I know.

There is 15km of coastline, yes, but it's around the pier that many accidents happen.

I mean, people are losing their lives. The council can't just go "Oh, the current signage is fine" or "More signage won't work." They need to try.

Delatron · 18/05/2026 16:26

My Mum jokes she didn’t have to worry about safe sex talks with us as we all so petrified after the HIV/AIDS campaign. It was terrifying.

There was also that one about playing on the railway?

To be fair I do overemphasis how dangerous rivers/seas and lakes are to
my kids. You can’t be too careful.

NameChangeMay2026 · 18/05/2026 16:27

Delatron · 18/05/2026 16:26

My Mum jokes she didn’t have to worry about safe sex talks with us as we all so petrified after the HIV/AIDS campaign. It was terrifying.

There was also that one about playing on the railway?

To be fair I do overemphasis how dangerous rivers/seas and lakes are to
my kids. You can’t be too careful.

Exactly - that ad was terrifying! And then the campaign was stopped, and non-condom use rose accordingly.

NameChangeMay2026 · 18/05/2026 16:31

There are no signs with a diagram showing the underwater shelf. There should be the red triangle with water showing the shelf and a stick person taking a step and falling into deep water. I am sure I've seen such signs elsewhere.

NameChangeMay2026 · 18/05/2026 16:32

It is not enough to just say Danger. THIS kind of thing is what's needed:

Three women's bodies found in the sea at Brighton
Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/05/2026 16:40

NameChangeMay2026 · 18/05/2026 16:32

It is not enough to just say Danger. THIS kind of thing is what's needed:

This is exactly what is needed. On the beach or the promenade next to the beach (not just the upper pavement area).

Cutchemist · 18/05/2026 17:02

I saw someone on insta saying that it’s three black women and that there are lots of instances of black people being found dead at bodies of water and nobody investigates, it’s always said that it was an accident.

I was thinking about it and wondering.

I saw a black kid from London nearly drown at Brighton, the lifeguards saved him. I wonder if there is just something about people living in London and not having swimming lessons or knowing the dangers of the sea.

I hope it’s not anything sinister

Delatron · 18/05/2026 17:02

Agreed - that signage in the busiest areas of the beaches close to town and clubs would be a good idea.

It would definitely put you off paddling or thinking you could wade out a bit for a dip.

Delatron · 18/05/2026 17:09

Cutchemist · 18/05/2026 17:02

I saw someone on insta saying that it’s three black women and that there are lots of instances of black people being found dead at bodies of water and nobody investigates, it’s always said that it was an accident.

I was thinking about it and wondering.

I saw a black kid from London nearly drown at Brighton, the lifeguards saved him. I wonder if there is just something about people living in London and not having swimming lessons or knowing the dangers of the sea.

I hope it’s not anything sinister

I don’t think it’s anything sinister.

It’s hard to word this correctly but it is a similar situation here by the Thames. Various potential barriers to learning to be a strong swimmer come in to play. Such as socio-economic factors. Systemic inequalities in access to facilities.

There are various organisations working to improve the situation as there shouldn’t be such a disparity.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/05/2026 17:36

Cutchemist · 18/05/2026 17:02

I saw someone on insta saying that it’s three black women and that there are lots of instances of black people being found dead at bodies of water and nobody investigates, it’s always said that it was an accident.

I was thinking about it and wondering.

I saw a black kid from London nearly drown at Brighton, the lifeguards saved him. I wonder if there is just something about people living in London and not having swimming lessons or knowing the dangers of the sea.

I hope it’s not anything sinister

I don’t think this is the case in this context. Apparently black women are less likely to be able to swim than white people (my Bajan friend brought up half in UK and half in Barbados can swim very well), I think there were efforts to try to save them but due to the time of day and the fact that that part of the sea is very rough they just couldn’t be saved. I do think that these poor women going on social media talk are most likely to be British Afro Caribbean. And if anything more needs to be done to encourage them (black people) to learn to swim in the UK. There are swimming pools in places like eg Brixton/Clapham but how many kids get taken to them for lessons I don’t know. There are special sessions for Muslim women (or just women) at a local pool.

Pinribbons · 18/05/2026 17:50

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/05/2026 17:36

I don’t think this is the case in this context. Apparently black women are less likely to be able to swim than white people (my Bajan friend brought up half in UK and half in Barbados can swim very well), I think there were efforts to try to save them but due to the time of day and the fact that that part of the sea is very rough they just couldn’t be saved. I do think that these poor women going on social media talk are most likely to be British Afro Caribbean. And if anything more needs to be done to encourage them (black people) to learn to swim in the UK. There are swimming pools in places like eg Brixton/Clapham but how many kids get taken to them for lessons I don’t know. There are special sessions for Muslim women (or just women) at a local pool.

Yes, it's well known that e.g. black young people joining the Army (male and female) are less likely to be able to swim than their white counter parts. That may reflect relative levels of deprivation, and be a problem that should be tackled, but that's why they're more like to drown, nothing more sinister.

NameChangeMay2026 · 18/05/2026 19:06

Pinribbons · 18/05/2026 17:50

Yes, it's well known that e.g. black young people joining the Army (male and female) are less likely to be able to swim than their white counter parts. That may reflect relative levels of deprivation, and be a problem that should be tackled, but that's why they're more like to drown, nothing more sinister.

Is this the case in the UK? I have heard of this in America, where distances to places are long and where they don't have council pools. But neither of these things are the case in Britain.

Even if you can swim, you're no match for what can happen in the sea. Gareth Jones was a strong swimmer. There's also cold water shock, which renders you pretty much immobile.

southcoastsammy · 18/05/2026 19:21

NameChangeMay2026 · 18/05/2026 09:44

They don't shift, because the council deposits all that shingle there on purpose as a sea defence. They top it up as and when.

Locals have recently described Brighton beach as a death trap. Not sure about that, but the huge shingle dumping from the council has made it less safe. There are also permanent rip tides around the pier, and the water at Black Rock is known as the washing machine due to the currents. It also has shore-dump waves created by those shingle shelves, which are very powerful. From AI summary: "They occur when a steep drop-off at the beach causes incoming waves to slow down rapidly, forcing them to pitch forward into a hollow, barreling shape that smashes directly onto the shore."

I don't know how BB ranks in terms of safety, but I would call it capricious, at the least. Gareth Jones also lost his life due to those shingle shelves. I don't know if you've ever scrambled up one, but I have done so when the tide was well out, after going down for a paddle in the afternoon. It's hard enough to get up them when you're not in the water, let alone when you are.

I swim at Brighton almost daily
-ALL year round Locals’don’t call it a death trap. It’s as safe as any seafront in decent weather. Low tide there is often loads of sand to walk along. But yes - high tide, it’s a shingle beach and the shelving can very much vary according to storms etc.

southcoastsammy · 18/05/2026 19:26

Delatron · 18/05/2026 17:02

Agreed - that signage in the busiest areas of the beaches close to town and clubs would be a good idea.

It would definitely put you off paddling or thinking you could wade out a bit for a dip.

There IS signage. At every point that you approach the beaches all the way along. For miles. But revellers, at dawn, coming from a club or similar aren’t likely to pay much attention.
There are signs about keeping off the groynes - visitors go on the groynes. There are warnings about tides, about safety, about who to call in an emergency, about calling 999 not going in the water to help
someone. Warnings about be careful near the waters edge. There are emergency rings that can be thrown. There are life guard huts. There are flag warnings for bad weather or unsafe areas as well as flags for safer areas.

Delatron · 18/05/2026 19:34

southcoastsammy · 18/05/2026 19:26

There IS signage. At every point that you approach the beaches all the way along. For miles. But revellers, at dawn, coming from a club or similar aren’t likely to pay much attention.
There are signs about keeping off the groynes - visitors go on the groynes. There are warnings about tides, about safety, about who to call in an emergency, about calling 999 not going in the water to help
someone. Warnings about be careful near the waters edge. There are emergency rings that can be thrown. There are life guard huts. There are flag warnings for bad weather or unsafe areas as well as flags for safer areas.

Yes I know there are signs but we were discussing the above signs showing the deep shelf and drop off.

southcoastsammy · 18/05/2026 19:42

Delatron · 18/05/2026 19:34

Yes I know there are signs but we were discussing the above signs showing the deep shelf and drop off.

Except -theres not an ‘underwater shelf’
as such. At low/ lower tide you’re walking along flat sand. At highest tides the water come much further up to where people would usually sit which is steep.
And yes the signs do warn that the water at highest tide does/
can get deep quickly.
None of which, unfortunately, have prevented these poor women from drowning. I was on the beach that morning, bright, sunny, but windy and the rolling surf alone should have kept anyone from thinking a paddle or swim was a good idea. Regardless of which bit of the beach they were at. Getting out would have been difficult.
Not perhaps something that would have been the first thing someone with impaired judgment would have considered.

Puppylucky · 18/05/2026 19:49

Cutchemist · 18/05/2026 17:02

I saw someone on insta saying that it’s three black women and that there are lots of instances of black people being found dead at bodies of water and nobody investigates, it’s always said that it was an accident.

I was thinking about it and wondering.

I saw a black kid from London nearly drown at Brighton, the lifeguards saved him. I wonder if there is just something about people living in London and not having swimming lessons or knowing the dangers of the sea.

I hope it’s not anything sinister

Oh for heavens sake I saw that guy on Insta as well and he had absolutely no information to back up his claims. Just click baiting.

HoraceCope · 18/05/2026 20:11

if you swim every day in the sea the shelf would make no difference to you, since you will be swimming rather than walking.

brightonrockzz · 18/05/2026 20:12

Locals have recently described Brighton beach as a death trap

I am local and this is simply not true. Its possible one person might have come out with something melodramatic but that doesnt mean "all locals" think the same thing any more than one person from London is speaking on behalf of ALL Londoners.

If Brightonians really thought this then the sea wouldn't be full of swimmers on nice sunny days and the sea is ALWAYS full of people swimming in summer.

What they have been referring to is the highly unwise choice to go in rough choppy, freezing cold seas in the dark which is what these girls sadly did. That wasnt a wise choice and indicates to me that alcohol was involved.

southcoastsammy · 18/05/2026 20:31

HoraceCope · 18/05/2026 20:11

if you swim every day in the sea the shelf would make no difference to you, since you will be swimming rather than walking.

People clearly are completed befuddled by the term ‘shelf’ - it’s not some permanent marker/part of the beach that one drops off.
its just a way to describe the different water levels .

Lunde · 18/05/2026 20:40

NameChangeMay2026 · 18/05/2026 19:06

Is this the case in the UK? I have heard of this in America, where distances to places are long and where they don't have council pools. But neither of these things are the case in Britain.

Even if you can swim, you're no match for what can happen in the sea. Gareth Jones was a strong swimmer. There's also cold water shock, which renders you pretty much immobile.

Yes - people totally underestimate the effects of cold water shock.

My kids went to school in Sweden and there was a big emphasis of water safety (you had to swim 200 metres and learn basic life saving to pass year 6). In high school they had to learn how to rescue themselves from going through the ice on frozen water by simulating the experience - jumping through a hole in the ice, shouting for help and dragging themselves out.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/05/2026 21:07

brightonrockzz · 18/05/2026 20:12

Locals have recently described Brighton beach as a death trap

I am local and this is simply not true. Its possible one person might have come out with something melodramatic but that doesnt mean "all locals" think the same thing any more than one person from London is speaking on behalf of ALL Londoners.

If Brightonians really thought this then the sea wouldn't be full of swimmers on nice sunny days and the sea is ALWAYS full of people swimming in summer.

What they have been referring to is the highly unwise choice to go in rough choppy, freezing cold seas in the dark which is what these girls sadly did. That wasnt a wise choice and indicates to me that alcohol was involved.

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But locals have said that the area where this happened gets really choppy and is unsafe to go in swimming.