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Three women's bodies found in the sea at Brighton

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BlackTogetherAgain · 13/05/2026 10:16

This is absolutely heartbreaking.

Why didn't anyone report three women were missing?

If it's a Channel crossing, from what I understand, it's rare that women go on the boats from France, and when they do they are pushed to the back / bottom, where the risk of being crushed is high.

If it's not a crossing, what on earth has happened?

Words can't express how evil this is.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cwyg508gg28t

Bodies of three women recovered from sea in Brighton, police say

Sussex Police say emergency services were called over concerns for the welfare of the women at around 05:45 today.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cwyg508gg28t

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ShannonMacFarland · 18/05/2026 21:16

These are now the sixth, seventh and eighth black women to have been found dead in bodies of water in Southeast England since February 2024.

brightonrockzz · 18/05/2026 21:23

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/05/2026 21:07

But locals have said that the area where this happened gets really choppy and is unsafe to go in swimming.

Calling Brighton beach a “known death trap” is misleading. Brighton seafront is used safely by thousands of people every year. What locals mean is that the sea can become dangerous in certain conditions -especially at night, in rough or choppy water, with strong currents, after drinking, or when people underestimate how quickly conditions can change.

There’s also an element of common sense involved, (though that’s not meant harshly or judgmentally towards the girls, but it's true nevertheless). Most people would recognise that going into the sea at 4-5am in rough, cold conditions carries a very different level of risk than swimming on a calm summer afternoon when lifeguards are present and there are lots of other people around.

That doesn’t make Brighton beach inherently deadly, it means the sea deserves respect, because conditions can become dangerous very quickly anywhere.

If this wasnt the case, there would be hundreds of deaths on Brighton beach every single year and very few people would survive a swim.

southcoastsammy · 18/05/2026 21:35

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/05/2026 21:07

But locals have said that the area where this happened gets really choppy and is unsafe to go in swimming.

Near the a Pier is always going to be trickier than not - but no, not particularly unsafe
compared to the rest of the beach. Unless it’s bad weather, windy, choppy… which it was - all along the 4/5 miles of brighton & hove seafront that morning.

Delatron · 18/05/2026 21:37

southcoastsammy · 18/05/2026 20:31

People clearly are completed befuddled by the term ‘shelf’ - it’s not some permanent marker/part of the beach that one drops off.
its just a way to describe the different water levels .

Yes but what a silly thing to
argue about when something like this happens. Honestly.

southcoastsammy · 18/05/2026 21:41

Delatron · 18/05/2026 21:37

Yes but what a silly thing to
argue about when something like this happens. Honestly.

Totally agree. I can tell you what ‘locals’
are saying. We’re saying that it is awful, absolutely tragic that those young women lost their lives. And we’re talking to our kids and young people and reminding them to be careful, to respect the sea, to not go near it after a night out. And if a friend gets in trouble to stay OUT of the water and ring the coastguard, call for help, throw a ring if they can but to stay OUT of the water in choppy water.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/05/2026 21:41

ShannonMacFarland · 18/05/2026 21:16

These are now the sixth, seventh and eighth black women to have been found dead in bodies of water in Southeast England since February 2024.

But how many of them went into the water in the early hours possibly having been a bit drunk?

brightonrockzz · 18/05/2026 21:47

southcoastsammy · 18/05/2026 21:41

Totally agree. I can tell you what ‘locals’
are saying. We’re saying that it is awful, absolutely tragic that those young women lost their lives. And we’re talking to our kids and young people and reminding them to be careful, to respect the sea, to not go near it after a night out. And if a friend gets in trouble to stay OUT of the water and ring the coastguard, call for help, throw a ring if they can but to stay OUT of the water in choppy water.

Yep. I had this conversation today actually. All of this.

NameChangeMay2026 · 19/05/2026 14:20

southcoastsammy · 18/05/2026 19:26

There IS signage. At every point that you approach the beaches all the way along. For miles. But revellers, at dawn, coming from a club or similar aren’t likely to pay much attention.
There are signs about keeping off the groynes - visitors go on the groynes. There are warnings about tides, about safety, about who to call in an emergency, about calling 999 not going in the water to help
someone. Warnings about be careful near the waters edge. There are emergency rings that can be thrown. There are life guard huts. There are flag warnings for bad weather or unsafe areas as well as flags for safer areas.

I think there needs to be signs like the diagram I posted.

Also, as I said, a PP and I were there recently and saw no signs. (Brighton is my home town.) Whatever is there clearly isn't working. They need more effective, brighter signs.

NameChangeMay2026 · 19/05/2026 14:28

southcoastsammy · 18/05/2026 21:41

Totally agree. I can tell you what ‘locals’
are saying. We’re saying that it is awful, absolutely tragic that those young women lost their lives. And we’re talking to our kids and young people and reminding them to be careful, to respect the sea, to not go near it after a night out. And if a friend gets in trouble to stay OUT of the water and ring the coastguard, call for help, throw a ring if they can but to stay OUT of the water in choppy water.

Yes, that's where education is useful. Stats show that rescuers very often end up drowning, themselves. Much better to stay out of the water and call for help, and try to find something to hold out to the person that they can grab on to. Or get a life ring.

Lovemycat2023 · 20/05/2026 13:11

NameChangeMay2026 · 19/05/2026 14:28

Yes, that's where education is useful. Stats show that rescuers very often end up drowning, themselves. Much better to stay out of the water and call for help, and try to find something to hold out to the person that they can grab on to. Or get a life ring.

Some of the life rings at our river have throw bags in. These are excellent and I would suggest teenagers etc should have a chance to practise using them. I’m not sure if they are so effective or used in the sea?

OfTheirOwn · 20/05/2026 13:31

ShannonMacFarland · 18/05/2026 21:16

These are now the sixth, seventh and eighth black women to have been found dead in bodies of water in Southeast England since February 2024.

Have the details been released?

How do you know these are black women?

Pinribbons · 20/05/2026 14:01

ShannonMacFarland · 18/05/2026 21:16

These are now the sixth, seventh and eighth black women to have been found dead in bodies of water in Southeast England since February 2024.

Out of how many in total?

NameChangeMay2026 · 20/05/2026 15:26

OfTheirOwn · 20/05/2026 13:31

Have the details been released?

How do you know these are black women?

No details have been released. We only know they are cousins and probably black because a woman in Jamaica wrote on her socials that they are her cousins.

It seems that no further details will be released now.

NameChangeMay2026 · 20/05/2026 15:27

Lovemycat2023 · 20/05/2026 13:11

Some of the life rings at our river have throw bags in. These are excellent and I would suggest teenagers etc should have a chance to practise using them. I’m not sure if they are so effective or used in the sea?

I haven't heard of throw bags. Assume they're some kind of inflatable?

As far as I know, the life rings at Brighton are just the ordinary kind, but I don't know for sure.

Specialneedsnightmare · 20/05/2026 15:31

NameChangeMay2026 · 20/05/2026 15:26

No details have been released. We only know they are cousins and probably black because a woman in Jamaica wrote on her socials that they are her cousins.

It seems that no further details will be released now.

Possibly the family has requested that no more information be released to the public. Which i can understand.

NameChangeMay2026 · 20/05/2026 15:34

Specialneedsnightmare · 20/05/2026 15:31

Possibly the family has requested that no more information be released to the public. Which i can understand.

Agree.

And I'm glad, in a way. If I saw their faces, I think I'd be even more upset. (Am upset because I'm from Brighton, and I hate that this happened to guests of ours, who went there for a nice time.)

pteromum · 20/05/2026 15:52

BBC news has a photo of them on main page just now

Witchonenowbob · 20/05/2026 15:55

They were sisters - tragic

loislovesstewie · 20/05/2026 15:55

Sisters. I can't imagine the pain their family must be feeling.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 20/05/2026 15:57

Sisters. How sad. 😢 And they’re older than I thought too. I assumed they were younger. Poor family. Devastating news.

GameOfJones · 20/05/2026 15:59

I cannot imagine the pain of losing your three children. Their poor family.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 20/05/2026 16:00

Other sources said they went there for a break but that one or more of them had cleared debts so it was a celebration.

Helliephant · 20/05/2026 16:01

Ethnic minorities tend to be less exposed to sea swimming.
Its sad, I just noticed the amazing Salty Seabirds group has closed down. They did a lot of good work in Brighton and touch on some of the social discrepancies that exist in the context of sea swimming specifically in Brighton here
https://seabirds.substack.com/p/swim-wild-and-free

Swim Wild and Free

The outdoors is free but is it accessible?

https://seabirds.substack.com/p/swim-wild-and-free

rainbowstardrops · 20/05/2026 16:05

I’ve just heard that they were sisters too. How bloody heartbreakingly awful for their family 😔
I live near the coast and quite near to Brighton. Just three ladies having a good time. So incredibly sad and tragic.