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Three women's bodies found in the sea at Brighton

582 replies

BlackTogetherAgain · 13/05/2026 10:16

This is absolutely heartbreaking.

Why didn't anyone report three women were missing?

If it's a Channel crossing, from what I understand, it's rare that women go on the boats from France, and when they do they are pushed to the back / bottom, where the risk of being crushed is high.

If it's not a crossing, what on earth has happened?

Words can't express how evil this is.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cwyg508gg28t

Bodies of three women recovered from sea in Brighton, police say

Sussex Police say emergency services were called over concerns for the welfare of the women at around 05:45 today.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cwyg508gg28t

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NameChangeMay2026 · 20/05/2026 16:29

Yeah, no sooner did I post that it would be upsetting to see their faces, there they were. 😭

Three absolutely beautiful young women. And sisters, too, not just cousins! How must their parents feel. Utterly tragic.

No further words. Just 😮

Helliephant · 20/05/2026 16:32

Damn that has really made me well up

Witchonenowbob · 20/05/2026 16:35

Helliephant · 20/05/2026 16:32

Damn that has really made me well up

It’s beyond belief isn’t it! The utter pain for the family.

TenTenTenAgain · 20/05/2026 16:36

What a Tragedy , I just read their father's statement , I hope their family are receiving the support they need. May they rest in peace.

PrincessOfPreschool · 20/05/2026 16:37

They were clearly close to go away all together in their 30s. So so utterly tragic.

StrictlyCoffee · 20/05/2026 16:46

Helliephant · 20/05/2026 16:32

Damn that has really made me well up

Me too, the dad’s statement made me cry. Such a devastating loss of 3 stunning women. Unbelievable

busyd4y · 20/05/2026 16:50

So sad, they all look very happy people in the photo

Jellybelly80 · 20/05/2026 17:04

Beautiful young woman obviously well loved by family and each other. RIP.

LizzieSiddal · 20/05/2026 17:18

Their father’s statement is absolutely heartbreaking. You can tell how proud he was of his lovely DDs.
My heart goes out to them all.

SpaceRaccoon · 20/05/2026 17:18

I've just seen the update as well, that it was those three beautiful sisters. How absolutely devastating for their family.

HoraceCope · 20/05/2026 17:19

so very sad

Lovemycat2023 · 20/05/2026 17:32

NameChangeMay2026 · 20/05/2026 15:27

I haven't heard of throw bags. Assume they're some kind of inflatable?

As far as I know, the life rings at Brighton are just the ordinary kind, but I don't know for sure.

They are just rope coiled into a red cylinder shaped bag - you keep hold of one end of the rope and throw the bag to the person in the water, and then reel them in with the rope. I’ve practiced both sides of the rescue and they are very effective (in rivers at least)

OfTheirOwn · 20/05/2026 17:33

OfTheirOwn · 20/05/2026 13:31

Have the details been released?

How do you know these are black women?

Sadly, I can see that the details of these three women have just been released.

Heartbreaking.

Lovemycat2023 · 20/05/2026 17:33

Only just heard the tragic news - poor poor family. I really hope they are given some space. That’s a beautiful photo they’ve shared.

bookworm14 · 20/05/2026 17:39

How awful - the poor family, losing three children in this way.

fluffiphlox · 20/05/2026 19:02

It’s a terrible, terrible tragedy (and I don’t use that term lightly).

I was brought up in a seaside place and also brought up to be very conscious of water safety. You have to be so careful with any body of water that you don’t know.

BrettAndersonismysexuality · 20/05/2026 20:35

Cutchemist · 18/05/2026 17:02

I saw someone on insta saying that it’s three black women and that there are lots of instances of black people being found dead at bodies of water and nobody investigates, it’s always said that it was an accident.

I was thinking about it and wondering.

I saw a black kid from London nearly drown at Brighton, the lifeguards saved him. I wonder if there is just something about people living in London and not having swimming lessons or knowing the dangers of the sea.

I hope it’s not anything sinister

Black people drown at hugely disproportionate rates. It's due to access to swimming facilities. There was a case a few years back where a whole family drowned in a pool on holiday trying to save each other. www.nbwn.org/post/drowning-in-disparity

Dollymylove · 20/05/2026 20:42

BrettAndersonismysexuality · 20/05/2026 20:35

Black people drown at hugely disproportionate rates. It's due to access to swimming facilities. There was a case a few years back where a whole family drowned in a pool on holiday trying to save each other. www.nbwn.org/post/drowning-in-disparity

What is the problem with access to swimming facilities for black people?

BrettAndersonismysexuality · 20/05/2026 20:47

I literally posted a link about it

brightonrockzz · 20/05/2026 21:21

Their poor father, Joseph, losing his three daughters in one dreadful night.

I cannot imagine how utterly heartbreaking that would be. Its beyond my comprehension.

I hope their family have a lot of support around them 😥

FernFaery · 20/05/2026 21:26

Lovemycat2023 · 20/05/2026 17:33

Only just heard the tragic news - poor poor family. I really hope they are given some space. That’s a beautiful photo they’ve shared.

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Absolutely devastating. I hope it doesn’t sound shallow in the context but I also noticed how beautiful all 3 sisters are. I can’t imagine losing 3 children at once, it’s just beyond awful. RIP to them.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 20/05/2026 21:54

Oh gosh, that statement by their father 💔.

How that poor man was able to put together such a beautifully worded, eloquent and dignified tribute in the face of such an unthinkable loss is beyond me.

NameChangeMay2026 · 20/05/2026 22:19

IMO Brighton Council has gone mad with the shingle dumping, causing 10-foot drop-offs that are underwater when the tide is high. It's too much. Never used to be that bad. I know we need sea defences, but this high? The defences are killing people. 😡 There are other methods as well as creating mountains on the beaches.

How is this OK?? Photo from Nov 2025.

Three women's bodies found in the sea at Brighton
NameChangeMay2026 · 20/05/2026 22:20

Link for post above.

https://www.instagram.com/p/DRCcvDgCsWV/?img_index=1

NameChangeMay2026 · 20/05/2026 22:25

At Elmer in West Sussex they have offshore breakwaters. Maybe Brighton could have those plus shingle-dumping that's not in such huge quantity. I'm not a coastal engineering expert but it seems to me that Brighton really needs to have a rethink.

I hope the family sues Brighton Council, to send a strong message if nothing else.

www.chelifer.com/?page_id=4645