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Three women's bodies found in the sea at Brighton

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BlackTogetherAgain · 13/05/2026 10:16

This is absolutely heartbreaking.

Why didn't anyone report three women were missing?

If it's a Channel crossing, from what I understand, it's rare that women go on the boats from France, and when they do they are pushed to the back / bottom, where the risk of being crushed is high.

If it's not a crossing, what on earth has happened?

Words can't express how evil this is.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cwyg508gg28t

Bodies of three women recovered from sea in Brighton, police say

Sussex Police say emergency services were called over concerns for the welfare of the women at around 05:45 today.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cwyg508gg28t

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brightonrockzz · 14/05/2026 09:39

Pinribbons · 14/05/2026 09:36

Yes but each tutor has what 20/30(?) students. I work in a secondary school and I know with absolute certainty that if such a situation was potentially affecting our students, tutors wouldn't need to be asked to check on all their pupils, they just would. Then, if there were some they couldn't contact they'd let the head or police know.

At this point there is no confirmation they were students. Universities can’t ethically start mass-alerting or checking students without confirmed information from police and next-of-kin procedures.

That would start a mass panic

Pinribbons · 14/05/2026 09:40

brightonrockzz · 14/05/2026 09:39

At this point there is no confirmation they were students. Universities can’t ethically start mass-alerting or checking students without confirmed information from police and next-of-kin procedures.

That would start a mass panic

I tutor can't contact a student and ask how they're doing?

brightonrockzz · 14/05/2026 09:43

Pinribbons · 14/05/2026 09:40

I tutor can't contact a student and ask how they're doing?

Tutors can contact an individual student if they already have a specific welfare concern, that is very different from a university trying to do a mass “roll call” after a news event.

Universities have thousands of adult students who commute, work shifts, miss lectures, travel home, or simply don’t reply to emails for days at a time, so there is no realistic way to instantly account for everyone. Sending messages asking students to confirm they are “safe” would also create mass panic, spread rumours, and completely overwhelm welfare services, especially before police have officially identified anyone or confirmed links to the universities. Can you imagine the panic/rumours if they did this? student families would start jamming up police telephone lines demanding answers and panicking. It would hinder not help.

Universities rely on police led identification processes, formal missing person reports, and targeted welfare checks where there is a genuine reason for concern, rather than attempting a citywide headcount of all students.

FernandoSor · 14/05/2026 09:44

brightonrockzz · 14/05/2026 09:36

If someone is dead they can

Not trivially they can't. Especially iPhones. It is an extremely time-consuming process that requires co-ordinating with both the telco and the phone manufacturer - and it is made much harder if the owner of the phone is unknown. Apple in particular are notorious for refusing police requests to access phone data.

brightonrockzz · 14/05/2026 09:47

FernandoSor · 14/05/2026 09:44

Not trivially they can't. Especially iPhones. It is an extremely time-consuming process that requires co-ordinating with both the telco and the phone manufacturer - and it is made much harder if the owner of the phone is unknown. Apple in particular are notorious for refusing police requests to access phone data.

3 people found dead isnt trivial though so yes, they would have the powers and ability to forensically examine phones if they had enough justification to believe they were owned by the three women who drowned. Especially if it was to identify them and to inform next of kin

PortSalutPlease · 14/05/2026 09:48

Pinribbons · 14/05/2026 09:36

Yes but each tutor has what 20/30(?) students. I work in a secondary school and I know with absolute certainty that if such a situation was potentially affecting our students, tutors wouldn't need to be asked to check on all their pupils, they just would. Then, if there were some they couldn't contact they'd let the head or police know.

One last time because you seem to be really struggling with this concept:

  • not everyone has a tutor, and lecturers can have hundreds of students on their courses
  • term is finished in a lot of places, the students are scattered. Would you expect pupils to want to take calls from school in the holidays….?
  • there are well over 50,000 students studying in Brighton between the various unis, FE and HE schools, and they WON’T ALL HAVE A TUTOR
  • Brighton is a party town - students come here from all over for nights out. Chichester uni, the Surrey ones, the London ones….. we have no idea these girls even went to uni in Brighton.
  • Students also live in Brighton, and have come home from unis all over the country and indeed the world. It is very normal for them to want to be out and about with friends so families may not have noticed their absence.
  • the SE has a huge proportion of international students - do you really think it’s run as a main news item in every country?

What you are asking for is completely ridiculous and impractical. It would take hundreds of man hours, and resources, and generate more false information than anything useful at all.

Efacsen · 14/05/2026 09:56

PortSalutPlease · 14/05/2026 09:48

One last time because you seem to be really struggling with this concept:

  • not everyone has a tutor, and lecturers can have hundreds of students on their courses
  • term is finished in a lot of places, the students are scattered. Would you expect pupils to want to take calls from school in the holidays….?
  • there are well over 50,000 students studying in Brighton between the various unis, FE and HE schools, and they WON’T ALL HAVE A TUTOR
  • Brighton is a party town - students come here from all over for nights out. Chichester uni, the Surrey ones, the London ones….. we have no idea these girls even went to uni in Brighton.
  • Students also live in Brighton, and have come home from unis all over the country and indeed the world. It is very normal for them to want to be out and about with friends so families may not have noticed their absence.
  • the SE has a huge proportion of international students - do you really think it’s run as a main news item in every country?

What you are asking for is completely ridiculous and impractical. It would take hundreds of man hours, and resources, and generate more false information than anything useful at all.

Plus around half of young people aren't students at all

So lots of young women in Brighton are locals, visitors and tourists with no links to any university or college

The 'students' information came from the daily mail article not the police

Notonthestairs · 14/05/2026 09:59

I have a family member studying at Brighton and their course finished a week ago. The idea that the university can immediately do a roll call is nonsense.

Nor can the police immediately access phone records. We want them to follow the correct procedure and that takes time.

I have no idea why MNer are in such a rush that they demand the information straight away.

Let the police do their job.

Mysonwontwash · 14/05/2026 10:13

Pinribbons · 14/05/2026 09:36

Yes but each tutor has what 20/30(?) students. I work in a secondary school and I know with absolute certainty that if such a situation was potentially affecting our students, tutors wouldn't need to be asked to check on all their pupils, they just would. Then, if there were some they couldn't contact they'd let the head or police know.

I’m studying at sussex and there are easily over 150 students on my course. Many of the students are from overseas. We are in the assessment period so apart from exams and submission dates we have no contact with the uni at present.

Efacsen · 14/05/2026 10:15

Notonthestairs · 14/05/2026 09:59

I have a family member studying at Brighton and their course finished a week ago. The idea that the university can immediately do a roll call is nonsense.

Nor can the police immediately access phone records. We want them to follow the correct procedure and that takes time.

I have no idea why MNer are in such a rush that they demand the information straight away.

Let the police do their job.

Exactly - and no thought given to the families of these young women who may be travelling to identify their children and/or might not be ready to have their names released yet

HelenaWilson · 14/05/2026 10:17

the information has been weirdly conflicting.
women aged 20-30
Students at a nightclub

Women aged 20-30 might be students and go to nightclubs. Undergraduates might be 21 or 22. And it's only an estimate in any case - one or more of them might be 19 - or 32.

Anyway, I expect the police are following lines of enquiry which they will not be sharing with the public unless or until there are definite identifications. There will be inquests, and that is the proper place to go into all the circumstances.

brightonrockzz · 14/05/2026 10:19

HelenaWilson · 14/05/2026 10:17

the information has been weirdly conflicting.
women aged 20-30
Students at a nightclub

Women aged 20-30 might be students and go to nightclubs. Undergraduates might be 21 or 22. And it's only an estimate in any case - one or more of them might be 19 - or 32.

Anyway, I expect the police are following lines of enquiry which they will not be sharing with the public unless or until there are definite identifications. There will be inquests, and that is the proper place to go into all the circumstances.

I think the problem is certain papers seem to releasing "information" that isnt correct, too (eg they were at a specific nightclub)

They should be legally prevented from doing this, its so irresponsible

wanderlustdiaries · 14/05/2026 10:21

Pinribbons · 14/05/2026 09:36

Yes but each tutor has what 20/30(?) students. I work in a secondary school and I know with absolute certainty that if such a situation was potentially affecting our students, tutors wouldn't need to be asked to check on all their pupils, they just would. Then, if there were some they couldn't contact they'd let the head or police know.

I don’t think uni is anywhere near the same as a secondary school

Bromptotoo · 14/05/2026 10:22

RedRiverShore6 · 14/05/2026 09:33

Yes, they could have been foreign students, then it would probably take more time

Irrespective of where people are from there's a defined process to go through when bodies are found.

It's not just a question of going through pockets/bags and relying on (say) student ID plus bank cards.

The police probably have a good idea of names etc but then they'll need to contact presumed relatives and break news etc - specially trained officers with family as the news says.

Then family or others need to formally identify which is likely to be done in person.

Only after that can names be given to the media.

CelticSilver · 14/05/2026 10:45

Puppylucky · 14/05/2026 09:30

I think part of the issue - and it may be a factor here especially given the length of time it's taking to officially identify the women - is the very high proportion of foreign students that are in Brighton. We are all assuming the women were Brits but it's quite possible they were European or South East Asian in which case any warnings may have been lost on them .

Surely a foreign student would need a very good standard of English to be studying in the first place?

rivalsbinge · 14/05/2026 11:00

I just assumed they were cold water swimmers who got into trouble.

FernandoSor · 14/05/2026 11:05

brightonrockzz · 14/05/2026 09:47

3 people found dead isnt trivial though so yes, they would have the powers and ability to forensically examine phones if they had enough justification to believe they were owned by the three women who drowned. Especially if it was to identify them and to inform next of kin

Edited

By trivially I meant 'take them back to the station and plug them into a magic device' as seen on TV. Unfortunately it is a much more laborious and time-consuming task than that.

Puppylucky · 14/05/2026 11:07

CelticSilver · 14/05/2026 10:45

Surely a foreign student would need a very good standard of English to be studying in the first place?

A lot of overseas students are in Brighton to learn English. They aren't all uni students

brightonrockzz · 14/05/2026 11:16

FernandoSor · 14/05/2026 11:05

By trivially I meant 'take them back to the station and plug them into a magic device' as seen on TV. Unfortunately it is a much more laborious and time-consuming task than that.

Er, yes I am fully aware of that. I don’t think there are “magic devices” you can plug phones into. There are however, legal protocols police can follow to forensically examine the contents of a phone if they have legal justification to do so. Three dead bodies would be such justification. Thats IF phones were even there and we don’t know they were.

PrincessOfPreschool · 14/05/2026 11:26

rivalsbinge · 14/05/2026 11:00

I just assumed they were cold water swimmers who got into trouble.

I thought the same very initially but a. 5.30am would be very early in the morning even for cold water swimmers and b. They would surely be quite easy to identify as at least one, if not all, would have local friends/ family/ work/ community.

SapatSea · 14/05/2026 11:30

There are also a lot of Language schools in Brighton and like most cities there are trafficked women, many in brothels operating out of residential flats.

TenTenTenAgain · 14/05/2026 11:38

The express website has an update , a police spokesperson has said that they believe they've identified the women.

absolutebollocks · 14/05/2026 14:54

Oh my word, latest news is the three were all related, cousins apparently. What an awful tragedy for some poor family 😥

NameChangeMay2026 · 14/05/2026 16:44

Dollymylove · 14/05/2026 08:23

Sadly no amount of warning signs will stop reckless behaviour, especially when alcohol is involved.
Every summer without fail there are tragedies of teenagers, usually male, who have taken a swim in a lake and drowned. It happened to the teenage son of a work colleague of mine. There were big warning signs, life belts, but it doesnt seeem to be any deterrent. Parents of those teenagers lost in lakes/reservoirs, have mounted big campaigns on the dangers, gone into schools to educate the youngsters, distribute leaflets, and yet still every summer without fail, there are youngsters who think it wont happen to them. Tragically it can and it does xx

Yes, you can't reach everyone, but those education programmes have probably saved lives. You can't tell, of course, but that doesn't mean they haven't.

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