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If you voted Reform, I would love to know why?

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AplineDaisies · 09/05/2026 00:58

I am not here to judge so would just like to hear from Reform voters for their reasoning.

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Wheech · 09/05/2026 06:46

Does anyone really think shouting people down with 'You're so stupid, you can't even write in paragraphs' (paraphrasing) is going to convince anyone they made a mistake?

People have genuine concerns. Ordinary people are feeling completely fucked over and through a Conservative and now a Labour government it is the norm now for many (most?) to be shocked every time they buy groceries, think twice before putting the heating on and wonder how they will cope if things keep going in this direction. I totally get why people have been swayed and think keeping out immigrants is the answer. I don't think most Reform voters have a problem with the Spanish person who works in their office, the Italian deli, the Indian takeaway or the Pakistani doctor. It's the narrative that asylum seekers are arriving and jumping queues to get housing and medical treatment and benefits that as a country we can't afford. And our own benefits bill too. I personally know someone who has chosen to go part-time because they would bring in benefits to the same value as their full time pay.

I'm in Scotland where we have a different set of problems and at the moment Reform are not a threat, thankfully, but I wish people would engage with curiosity on both sides and we might get somewhere.

NeelyOHara · 09/05/2026 06:47

MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:22

I cringe when people have nothing constructive to add. And your own point is? Did you vote to leave the EU? That is one reason why the cost of living has soared but people don’t want to take responsibility for their own stupid voting choices.

It’s much easier to blame disabled people and immigrants. I now hear people complaining that life is terrible in the UK because the people coming to live here don’t align with our culture and values.

In the lead up to the EU referendum we were repeatedly warned that this would happen with the end of free movement!

When we had more people from Poland coming to live here, they were disliked and marginalised and people complained about them milking the NHS. Yet Poland is a country more similar to the UK (catholic for a start).

People made their beds….unfortunately the 48% of us who didn’t want this are also suffering the consequences.

No I didn’t for Brexit. But I don’t go around calling everyone who did ‘turkeys’ who are too thick to understand anything, and treating them with contempt and derision. Because I haven’t lived their lives, I don’t know their reasons, and it doesn’t do my good at all to sneer at others who have different beliefs and ideals to me.

That is what started this division in the first place, but you won’t see that.

Callmeback · 09/05/2026 06:48

BigYellowBus · 09/05/2026 04:46

To take one item at random from your list - you do know that foreign students can't get British student loans? And that most of them pay fees of £40,000 a year, thus subsidising British students...

Most British universities would close their doors without being propped up by international student fees because they can't charge more for UK students because of the fee cap. There's been a crazy number of university redundancies just to stay afloat. They'd be gone without those international students. Those same students can't get a loan from SLC.

Marycontrarygarden · 09/05/2026 06:48

hattie43 · 09/05/2026 06:42

Reform did hugely well so just get over it . No-one any longer wants your shitshow socialist policies destroying this country further . Carrying on running the economy based on idiology is doomed .

Spelling is also doomed.

Shoola · 09/05/2026 06:49

MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:43

You think this Labour government is socialist? 😂😂

The Labour party does define itself as a democratic socialist party and Starmer describes himself as a socialist. I guess it depends on what you think of as socialism.

Milothebunny · 09/05/2026 06:50

Google Iranian women 40 years ago vs today and you'll see why.

Havesomefaith · 09/05/2026 06:50

Ikeatears · 09/05/2026 03:00

So, aside from all that, why did you vote for your local Reform candidate and what do they offer to your local council?

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You could ask that same question to nearly everyone who voted in their local election, whether they voted reform, conservative, green or liberal dem, and most will not have an answer about what their local candidate brings to the table.

RedRiverShore6 · 09/05/2026 06:51

Surely no one would vote Labour for bin collections looking at Birmingham as an example

Piglet89 · 09/05/2026 06:53

First two posts deriding the poster’s lack of paragraphs.

@CrazyGoatLadysomeone writes “[x], is that you?” on almost every thread these days, under the mistaken illusion they’re the wag of the century. It’s totally unoriginal and unfunny.

I am not a reform voter - but at least one of the reasons people are voting reform is because the Islington middle class Champagne socialist cadre among the Labour lot don’t actually engage with their concerns, instead choosing to patronise them - in this instance by seeming more concerned with the much more pressing issue of syntax. So the voter doesn’t identify with them.

Labour’s totally out of touch with what’s happening on the ground and Kier Starmer comes across as a dull bureaucrat, who wouldn’t know rousing, affecting oratory if it leapt up and bit him.

HTH.

Ticktockk · 09/05/2026 06:53

I didn’t vote reform. In fact I voted to keep them out. However when you read their policies, I can see why some people do. Some things are vaguely sensible - I just don’t believe they can implement them

But I do want to fact check that very long post.

You said the UK has open borders. Not true. The UK has visa, asylum, deportation and border-control rules; net migration has also fallen sharply to 204,000 in year ending June 2025, down from 649,000 a year earlier.

Many asylum seekers are restricted from working while claims are processed; recognised refugees can work and pay tax. It’s true what they said about the cost of processing.

It’s true that 25% of people are classed as disabled.

Most international students are not eligible for UK student finance. UK borrowers overseas still have repayment rules and overseas thresholds.

luckylavender · 09/05/2026 06:53

MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:39

Yes, why do Reform voters not hold him accountable for the lies about X amount of money for the NHS?

Actually that wasn’t him. There were two ‘Vote Leave’ campaigns and the bus was Boris. The other snake oil salesman.

MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:54

NeelyOHara · 09/05/2026 06:47

No I didn’t for Brexit. But I don’t go around calling everyone who did ‘turkeys’ who are too thick to understand anything, and treating them with contempt and derision. Because I haven’t lived their lives, I don’t know their reasons, and it doesn’t do my good at all to sneer at others who have different beliefs and ideals to me.

That is what started this division in the first place, but you won’t see that.

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What started the divide is people’s inability to see what is in front of them.

People might have genuine concerns. I have genuine concerns! But a Reform government won’t fix those problems - it will make the average person’s problems worse. And Farage would be a terrible PM. Worse than Starmer, worse than Boris Johnson.

If you were annoyed about the Conservative governments feathering the nests of the richest, you’ve seen nothing yet…

Foxyloxy89 · 09/05/2026 06:54

I will ask another question. When given a comprehensive answer, why did most subsequent posters seem to care more about the lack of paragraphs than the actual content? Typical lefty behaviour - to mock rather than debate.

ThejoyofNC · 09/05/2026 06:54

I support reform because I want to see the current NHS system abolished. It doesn't work. Different governments have tried every which way to "save" it and it doesn't work. It's not fit for purpose.

luckylavender · 09/05/2026 06:55

RedTagAlan · 09/05/2026 06:40

I think the small boats really started when the ferry security was tightened up. Co2 sensors checking nobody was in trucks etc. I think the timing was maybe coincidence.

It’s actually a fact that the Dublin convention allowed us to send them back to the last country.

TheLandlordsAreFrowning · 09/05/2026 06:55

sesquipedalian · 09/05/2026 06:42

I voted Reform for two reasons. The first is that without Reform, I wouldn’t even have been able to vote - it was only as a result of Reform threatening legal action that our votes were restored. We had no vote last year, either: for a government to try to deny certain areas a vote under cover of “reorganisation” is an outrageous subversion of the democratic process that sets a very dangerous precedent. I didn’t see any other parties jumping up and down about it, either.

The second reason is that I live in a solidly Labour ward, and I’m not a Labour voter. In fact, Reform won in our ward, which is remarkable as it has been held by Labour since the boundaries were changed in 2002. Our Reform candidate was a former Conservative, so he has at least previous experience of local government. I agree with those who say that many Reform candidates are singularly ill-equipped for government, but the same is true of Green candidates, who in my opinion are a bunch of downright dangerous anti-Semitic Marxists whose green credentials seem to have been lost in a bid to bring sectarianism into local government.

I would point out to some PPs who have been so particularly rude to caringcarer that they tried to answer the question posed - an ad-hominem attack is not a legitimate response, any more than is attacking a lack of paragraphs. Address the arguments, not the construction of the response. We are all entitled to our opinions, and just because you don’t agree with someone doesn’t give you the right to be insulting.

Edited to try to put in paragraphs - my first effort was posted as a sheet of text, as may well have happened to caringcarer.

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So you will be having another election in your area in around a year once the reorganisation is complete? That'll be a good test of how well Reform councillors have performed.

Katypp · 09/05/2026 06:55

SatsumaDog · 09/05/2026 04:40

People have voted Reform because they feel they have no choice. The country is on a
downward spiral, the cost of living is rocketing and in their eyes all they see are thousands of people entering the country illegally with no sense of control or end on sight.

What drives their decision? Fear. If we genuinely want to stem the tide of Reform before the next GE, Labour needs to acknowledge and address people’s concerns and show they have some control.

Exactly.
One of the few posters who have actually engaged and answered the question is mocked for not using paragraphs.
The rest are just mud flinging, as usual.
I don't know how far down the line we have to get before oh-so-superior Refirm haters realise the party and its voters have to be taken seriously.
They are on track to win the next election, yet still posters are putting their fingers in their ears and calling Reform voters thick.
They are gathering ground because voters feel they are not being listened to and this thread illustrates this perfectly.
Carry on slagging Reform voters off, carry on taking the moral highground, carry on calling people names but don't wonder why Reform win the next GE.

Marycontrarygarden · 09/05/2026 06:55

WizdomE · 09/05/2026 06:33

Agree, I want much stronger border controls, and I want benefits reform, stop the freeloaders. I also want to see current illegal immigrants thrown out. Anyone who enters illegally are treated as criminals, they have broken immigrations laws and need to be deported. Also anyone who is an immigrant and commits a ‘criminal’ offence loses their status (immigrations status, uk citizenship).

And you think Reform can actually DELIVER all of that?

27TimesAway · 09/05/2026 06:56

Wheech · 09/05/2026 06:46

Does anyone really think shouting people down with 'You're so stupid, you can't even write in paragraphs' (paraphrasing) is going to convince anyone they made a mistake?

People have genuine concerns. Ordinary people are feeling completely fucked over and through a Conservative and now a Labour government it is the norm now for many (most?) to be shocked every time they buy groceries, think twice before putting the heating on and wonder how they will cope if things keep going in this direction. I totally get why people have been swayed and think keeping out immigrants is the answer. I don't think most Reform voters have a problem with the Spanish person who works in their office, the Italian deli, the Indian takeaway or the Pakistani doctor. It's the narrative that asylum seekers are arriving and jumping queues to get housing and medical treatment and benefits that as a country we can't afford. And our own benefits bill too. I personally know someone who has chosen to go part-time because they would bring in benefits to the same value as their full time pay.

I'm in Scotland where we have a different set of problems and at the moment Reform are not a threat, thankfully, but I wish people would engage with curiosity on both sides and we might get somewhere.

Exactly. Instead of screeching 'racism' why not genuinely explore why? That might get you some answers Labour government.

I was a remainer and still think Brexit was a mistake. But i said upthread why I voted Reform this time. It was to send a message that the Government needs to stop with their shit and listen to the people. Throwing words around like 'racism' around is stupid. I'm also a migrant, and if Reform's plans for those of us on Indefinite Leave to Remain visas come about I will be negatively affected. My purpose this time was thoroughly a protest vote.

Starmer standing up yesterday and saying he will continue with his 'promise' to deliver their manifesto made me think he's delusional for starters and that the Labour government are toast.

Marycontrarygarden · 09/05/2026 06:56

Katypp · 09/05/2026 06:55

Exactly.
One of the few posters who have actually engaged and answered the question is mocked for not using paragraphs.
The rest are just mud flinging, as usual.
I don't know how far down the line we have to get before oh-so-superior Refirm haters realise the party and its voters have to be taken seriously.
They are on track to win the next election, yet still posters are putting their fingers in their ears and calling Reform voters thick.
They are gathering ground because voters feel they are not being listened to and this thread illustrates this perfectly.
Carry on slagging Reform voters off, carry on taking the moral highground, carry on calling people names but don't wonder why Reform win the next GE.

Why oh why can't people educate themselves on the thing/party they are voting for? It's not difficult.

Katypp · 09/05/2026 06:57

Foxyloxy89 · 09/05/2026 06:54

I will ask another question. When given a comprehensive answer, why did most subsequent posters seem to care more about the lack of paragraphs than the actual content? Typical lefty behaviour - to mock rather than debate.

Nailed it

MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:59

I think that the rise in disability is partly to do with austerity, underfunded schools and many young people emerging from their education damaged and unable to work as a result.

partygarden · 09/05/2026 07:00

caringcarer · 09/05/2026 02:26

The UK has almost open borders policy. We cannot afford to pay for the people who already live here and yet almost everyday between 100-200 more illegal immigrants come. To process each on cost £12k. They all need accomodation on average costing taxpayer £41k each per year. They need feeding, healthcare, the children need education and elders need care. These people have paid nothing into the UK economy they just want to take. Meanwhile people who have paid into UK econyall their working lives wait over a year for a much needed operation. Our schools are in desperate need of equipment and old buildings upgrading and modernised. We don't have enough houses for people already living here. We need to accommodate those people who have paid into the UK through taxes ffirst. We need to put a freeze on all immigration for a year whilst we sort the country out. Our country can no longer defend itself. Far more budget should go to defence also boosting our economy as our armed forces buy new British made equipment. We don't have the funding for this whilst 25 percent of the country is disabled according to the Disability Alliance using DWP figures for 2024. Disability benefits should be scaled back and those with mild anxiety, depression or ADHD should not get benefits for disability. UC claimants got an above inflationn rise this year in benefits. I think too many people only work 2 or 3 days a week because they think I'll just stay home and claim UC top up rather than working full time. I think if people choose to work part time instead of full time they should not be given UC top ups. The tax payer should not be funding a lifestyle choice. As a nation we need to get more young people in the workplace. UC as an out of work benefit should have an expiry date of 6-12 months. If people don't even apply for jobs they should lose their benefits. We need to build more houses for social housing boosting our economy and the money saved from UC could be used to restock social housing for hardworking families who may be on minimum wage but often working 60 hours a week. At the moment tax is taken away from these hard working people to fund those choosing to only work 2-3 days a week. I think ex service employees who leave the forces should be given more support to find a job and social housing if they need it. I'm hoping we come out of ECHR and instead create a UK bill of rights that gives same protections but does not recognise rights of immigrants to stay. Especially those already convicted of crimes in their own countries. Honestly they pretend to be gay and persecuted in their own country just so they can stay, yet often have wives and children. Once in the UK having asylum there should be no being allowed to bring across wives, children, parents or siblings. Overseas students should not be able to get money from SLC because so many go back home and never repay this money. If they want to study in UK there own countries should lend them money and get it back after graduation. There are too many EDI people employed at huge expense in public services like the NHS. There is already diversity there.NHS money should go to employing more nurses and doctors, more equipment, to get through waiting lists more quickly. Peywho do not attend appointments should be fined £100 for each missed appointment. If they don't pay the fine on installments if necessary they should go to the bottom of the appointment queue. A missed GP appointment should carry a £50 fine for time wasted. These fines money could fund more NHS dental appointments so every child can have a NHS dentist. Tax bands should start at £15k to encourage more people back into workplace. Stupid tax on farmers should be reversed, as should additional tax on LL's as this tax increase is just passed in to tenants anyway. Nigel won't shy away from making tough decisions.

Ok this is far too much text for my morning eyes! Had to skim that wall of text.

Something that did stick out was the sweeping statement about reducing benefits for ppl with anxiety, depression and ADHD (I assume you have ZERO personal experience of navigating the UK benefits systems anyway based on your lack of understanding with how difficult it actually is to claim for DLA).

How can Reform practically propose to effectively regulate this area? just strip it bare, is that the aim?

It’s already hard enough to get support, why are you so in favour of cutting from an already limp and underfunded area? Why pick on the disabled?! That’s essentially what this suggestion is. Next thing you’ll be saying it’ll be good for woman not to have equal rights and a progressive idea to play around with reproductive rights…OH WAIT!

Why are we so in a rush to the bottom, and SO gleeful to separate with an us/them mentality? This whole ‘othering’ thing is so small minded - it would be laughable if this constant chipping away at our humanity didn’t have such awful repercussions for our next generation.

Iwishicouldflyhigh · 09/05/2026 07:00

ILikeDinosaurs · 09/05/2026 03:31

@caringcarer

What a load of copy pasted crap. But I'll bite.

But first, a question: Nigel says he wants to kill off the NHS - why do YOU agree with that, since you are a Reformer? Why do you personally want a US-style insurance system? I've asked this question elsewhere online and not a single answer.

Our country can no longer defend itself. Far more budget should go to defence also boosting our economy as our armed forces buy new British made equipment. We don't have the funding for this whilst 25 percent of the country is disabled according to the Disability Alliance using DWP figures for 2024.

So you are really saying DISABLED PEOPLE should suffer for the sake of military spending?! Seriously?? "Caringcarer" indeed.

I'm hoping we come out of ECHR and instead create a UK bill of rights that gives same protections but does not recognise rights of immigrants to stay.

What about immigrants who have lived here for the better part of the last century and have paid their taxes, lived in peace and have committed no crimes? Will their right to live here be no longer recognised for not being white??

And who is going to draft this bill of rights for ordinary people - Nigel, with his band of billionaire backers, who refuse to pay their equal and fair share of taxes, are going to protect YOUR human rights???

There are too many EDI people employed at huge expense in public services like the NHS. There is already diversity there.NHS money should go to employing more nurses and doctors, more equipment, to get through waiting lists more quickly.

There won't BE an NHS, because Nigel doesn't believe in it, or support it. So you are talking rubbish. Stop being a copy/paste parrot and use your brain.

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Why do you think that killing off the NHS automatically means having a US style system? There are lots of systems in-between in other countries with very heavily subsidised treatment, but everyone pays something.
Good friends are mine are a GP and senior hospital pharmacist and even they think th NHS is broken beyond reform.

And the poster didn't say that she thinks that people with mild ADHD etc should not get benefits - and i agree with her.

Cartmella · 09/05/2026 07:00

I did not vote Reform as am more of a leftie, but on my ballot paper there were no conservatives to vote for - just Lab, Lib, Green, Reform. So Reform was the only right wing choice. Don't know how common this was?