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If you voted Reform, I would love to know why?

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AplineDaisies · 09/05/2026 00:58

I am not here to judge so would just like to hear from Reform voters for their reasoning.

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MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:22

NeelyOHara · 09/05/2026 06:13

I cringe so badly when anyone says ‘turkeys voting for Christmas’ I can’t take anything else they write seriously.

I cringe when people have nothing constructive to add. And your own point is? Did you vote to leave the EU? That is one reason why the cost of living has soared but people don’t want to take responsibility for their own stupid voting choices.

It’s much easier to blame disabled people and immigrants. I now hear people complaining that life is terrible in the UK because the people coming to live here don’t align with our culture and values.

In the lead up to the EU referendum we were repeatedly warned that this would happen with the end of free movement!

When we had more people from Poland coming to live here, they were disliked and marginalised and people complained about them milking the NHS. Yet Poland is a country more similar to the UK (catholic for a start).

People made their beds….unfortunately the 48% of us who didn’t want this are also suffering the consequences.

ClaredeBear · 09/05/2026 06:23

caringcarer · 09/05/2026 02:26

The UK has almost open borders policy. We cannot afford to pay for the people who already live here and yet almost everyday between 100-200 more illegal immigrants come. To process each on cost £12k. They all need accomodation on average costing taxpayer £41k each per year. They need feeding, healthcare, the children need education and elders need care. These people have paid nothing into the UK economy they just want to take. Meanwhile people who have paid into UK econyall their working lives wait over a year for a much needed operation. Our schools are in desperate need of equipment and old buildings upgrading and modernised. We don't have enough houses for people already living here. We need to accommodate those people who have paid into the UK through taxes ffirst. We need to put a freeze on all immigration for a year whilst we sort the country out. Our country can no longer defend itself. Far more budget should go to defence also boosting our economy as our armed forces buy new British made equipment. We don't have the funding for this whilst 25 percent of the country is disabled according to the Disability Alliance using DWP figures for 2024. Disability benefits should be scaled back and those with mild anxiety, depression or ADHD should not get benefits for disability. UC claimants got an above inflationn rise this year in benefits. I think too many people only work 2 or 3 days a week because they think I'll just stay home and claim UC top up rather than working full time. I think if people choose to work part time instead of full time they should not be given UC top ups. The tax payer should not be funding a lifestyle choice. As a nation we need to get more young people in the workplace. UC as an out of work benefit should have an expiry date of 6-12 months. If people don't even apply for jobs they should lose their benefits. We need to build more houses for social housing boosting our economy and the money saved from UC could be used to restock social housing for hardworking families who may be on minimum wage but often working 60 hours a week. At the moment tax is taken away from these hard working people to fund those choosing to only work 2-3 days a week. I think ex service employees who leave the forces should be given more support to find a job and social housing if they need it. I'm hoping we come out of ECHR and instead create a UK bill of rights that gives same protections but does not recognise rights of immigrants to stay. Especially those already convicted of crimes in their own countries. Honestly they pretend to be gay and persecuted in their own country just so they can stay, yet often have wives and children. Once in the UK having asylum there should be no being allowed to bring across wives, children, parents or siblings. Overseas students should not be able to get money from SLC because so many go back home and never repay this money. If they want to study in UK there own countries should lend them money and get it back after graduation. There are too many EDI people employed at huge expense in public services like the NHS. There is already diversity there.NHS money should go to employing more nurses and doctors, more equipment, to get through waiting lists more quickly. Peywho do not attend appointments should be fined £100 for each missed appointment. If they don't pay the fine on installments if necessary they should go to the bottom of the appointment queue. A missed GP appointment should carry a £50 fine for time wasted. These fines money could fund more NHS dental appointments so every child can have a NHS dentist. Tax bands should start at £15k to encourage more people back into workplace. Stupid tax on farmers should be reversed, as should additional tax on LL's as this tax increase is just passed in to tenants anyway. Nigel won't shy away from making tough decisions.

Local elections? Or devolved if you’re in Scotland or Wales. The Senedd has no powers regarding the matters you speak of.

MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:27

Lyra25 · 09/05/2026 06:19

The problem with your attitude is that it’s not stopping the rising support for Reform, so is detrimental to what you purport to want…

i think this is a lazy argument.

There are many people who vote without bothering to even read manifestos.

Do you really not think that it’s a responsibility to research how voting a certain way will result?

Shoola · 09/05/2026 06:29

I did not vote Reform, so can't speak for reform voters. However, council elections are an opportunity to get your voice heard and protest against/support the parties, so I do get why people don't just vote for local issues.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 09/05/2026 06:30

MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:27

i think this is a lazy argument.

There are many people who vote without bothering to even read manifestos.

Do you really not think that it’s a responsibility to research how voting a certain way will result?

If you give everyone 18 and over a vote, of course you will get those who vote without informing themselves. Also who refuse to vote. It’s the downside of democracy.

I just don’t think wanging on about Brexit and turkeys voting for Christmas is in any way helpful. It just makes people defensive.

scalt · 09/05/2026 06:30

Callmeback · 09/05/2026 04:10

You do realise this wasn't a general election? It wasn't a vote about national issues. It's a vote for who is best LOCALLY to sort out your pot holes, bin collections etc.

In theory. Only in theory.

In practice, people often do use local elections to “send a message” to the main parties, and I expect many people did this time, as if saying to Labour “this is how we will vote in the general election if you don’t sort out the shit”. I expect some people did the same with the Brexit vote, perhaps not even expecting it to win, but wanting to “send a message”.

SugarC · 09/05/2026 06:31

I didn't vote Reform. I understand why people have, they want radical change, are angry with the standard of living and want someone to blame (media is helping to feed this), cant vote for one of the "traditional" parties and green is too left/woke/antisemetic (according to some family members).
The only people canvassing in my area were actually Reform members. No one else could be bothered. Am I happy with the outcome? No. Could the other candidates do better? Yes.

Shallotsaresmallonions · 09/05/2026 06:32

Hallowedturf · 09/05/2026 04:18

Thread hidden.

Weird that you felt you had to announce that.

WizdomE · 09/05/2026 06:33

Agree, I want much stronger border controls, and I want benefits reform, stop the freeloaders. I also want to see current illegal immigrants thrown out. Anyone who enters illegally are treated as criminals, they have broken immigrations laws and need to be deported. Also anyone who is an immigrant and commits a ‘criminal’ offence loses their status (immigrations status, uk citizenship).

luckylavender · 09/05/2026 06:36

It’s funny isn’t it that no Reform supporter ever questions when the small boat issue started. After Brexit when we had to come out of the Dublin convention. So it’s all thanks to Nigel. I understand everyone’s despair at the current state of the country but there’s only one thing Nigel cares about and that’s himself. He’s an old fashioned snake oil salesman.

MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:38

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 09/05/2026 06:30

If you give everyone 18 and over a vote, of course you will get those who vote without informing themselves. Also who refuse to vote. It’s the downside of democracy.

I just don’t think wanging on about Brexit and turkeys voting for Christmas is in any way helpful. It just makes people defensive.

What do you think would help?

A lot of us are sick of those who are hell bent on causing life in the UK to go from bad to worse.

It’s all very well to say don’t talk about Brexit. But it has certainly had quite an impact on day to day life for the average person. It’s not the only reason for the COL crisis but it’s a significant factor.

Callmeback · 09/05/2026 06:39

scalt · 09/05/2026 06:30

In theory. Only in theory.

In practice, people often do use local elections to “send a message” to the main parties, and I expect many people did this time, as if saying to Labour “this is how we will vote in the general election if you don’t sort out the shit”. I expect some people did the same with the Brexit vote, perhaps not even expecting it to win, but wanting to “send a message”.

Did you not see how many social media posts were talking about Farage becoming PM by the end of the week. People are clueless at the difference between local elections and the GE.

MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:39

luckylavender · 09/05/2026 06:36

It’s funny isn’t it that no Reform supporter ever questions when the small boat issue started. After Brexit when we had to come out of the Dublin convention. So it’s all thanks to Nigel. I understand everyone’s despair at the current state of the country but there’s only one thing Nigel cares about and that’s himself. He’s an old fashioned snake oil salesman.

Yes, why do Reform voters not hold him accountable for the lies about X amount of money for the NHS?

RedTagAlan · 09/05/2026 06:40

luckylavender · 09/05/2026 06:36

It’s funny isn’t it that no Reform supporter ever questions when the small boat issue started. After Brexit when we had to come out of the Dublin convention. So it’s all thanks to Nigel. I understand everyone’s despair at the current state of the country but there’s only one thing Nigel cares about and that’s himself. He’s an old fashioned snake oil salesman.

I think the small boats really started when the ferry security was tightened up. Co2 sensors checking nobody was in trucks etc. I think the timing was maybe coincidence.

NoisyHiker · 09/05/2026 06:40

Honestly, I despair at the playground levels of political discourse in this country.

I'm a third generation immigrant, and I would consider myself slightly left of centre but not tied to a specific party (I have voted for Labour, Libdem and even Green at one point back when they were sane).

Our immigration system is not working well, and it's failures are being compounded by decades of austerity and bad decisions. Legal migration is actually the main cause of the failure. Low paid and student immigrants have been able to bring entire families and elderly dependants over, all of which drain the very systems they are suppossed to be contributing to. They are demonstrably a net economic drain.

It is not 'far right' to acknowledge that, but treating it like it is has pushed people further right.

People are being pushed to the extremes (Green and Reform) and I can see a real danger of us getting something even worse if the general public feels that Reform fails them too. History is the best predictor of the future.

And 'intelligent' idiots who rant at others online, berating their spelling or grammar, help nothing and no one. Only getting their little dopamine rush from arguing online and proving their moral purity, like most trolls. I've never seen a genuinely intelligent person mock those 'below' them or not even attempt to understand, only those not quite smart enough to realise how little they know.

naanbreadforaxel · 09/05/2026 06:40

Callmeback · 09/05/2026 04:10

You do realise this wasn't a general election? It wasn't a vote about national issues. It's a vote for who is best LOCALLY to sort out your pot holes, bin collections etc.

the size of some of the pot holes round here could fit in a small boat. Yey reform 🙄

sesquipedalian · 09/05/2026 06:42

I voted Reform for two reasons. The first is that without Reform, I wouldn’t even have been able to vote - it was only as a result of Reform threatening legal action that our votes were restored. We had no vote last year, either: for a government to try to deny certain areas a vote under cover of “reorganisation” is an outrageous subversion of the democratic process that sets a very dangerous precedent. I didn’t see any other parties jumping up and down about it, either.

The second reason is that I live in a solidly Labour ward, and I’m not a Labour voter. In fact, Reform won in our ward, which is remarkable as it has been held by Labour since the boundaries were changed in 2002. Our Reform candidate was a former Conservative, so he has at least previous experience of local government. I agree with those who say that many Reform candidates are singularly ill-equipped for government, but the same is true of Green candidates, who in my opinion are a bunch of downright dangerous anti-Semitic Marxists whose green credentials seem to have been lost in a bid to bring sectarianism into local government.

I would point out to some PPs who have been so particularly rude to caringcarer that they tried to answer the question posed - an ad-hominem attack is not a legitimate response, any more than is attacking a lack of paragraphs. Address the arguments, not the construction of the response. We are all entitled to our opinions, and just because you don’t agree with someone doesn’t give you the right to be insulting.

Edited to try to put in paragraphs - my first effort was posted as a sheet of text, as may well have happened to caringcarer.

hattie43 · 09/05/2026 06:42

Reform did hugely well so just get over it . No-one any longer wants your shitshow socialist policies destroying this country further . Carrying on running the economy based on idiology is doomed .

Luddite26 · 09/05/2026 06:42

Thanks @Cyclebabble. I have had to use the NHS recently and at every level except the eye surgeon was cared for very well by people of other ethnicities and nationalities other than white British. I am very grateful for the care I received.
Farage's rhetoric around the NHS alone I find sickening. I mean what happened to the £3 million a week?

RedRiverShore6 · 09/05/2026 06:43

Shoola · 09/05/2026 06:29

I did not vote Reform, so can't speak for reform voters. However, council elections are an opportunity to get your voice heard and protest against/support the parties, so I do get why people don't just vote for local issues.

Yes, I would be voting to get Labour out. Though whoever I voted for it wouldn't make a blind bit of difference to the potholes.

SayItLikeItIsLetsKeepItReal · 09/05/2026 06:43

I vote Reform because they are the only political party which explicitly acknowledges that some mums prefer to stay at home with their babies and toddlers. I am absolutely sick of the dominant narrative from the main parties of pushing free childcare and nurseries being where a 9 month old baby should be, get back to work mum! No thanks! Reform have some refreshing ideas on how to financially compensate families with a SAHP, which feels fairer. About time too!

I think people think all Reform voters are single issue voters on immigration, but this is far from the truth. They are very popular with SAHMs and housewives, who are quite frankly sick of the disrespect from the other political parties. I have questioned them all extensively on my door- they do not speak for our family values at all.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 09/05/2026 06:43

@SugarC Your family members are well informed. 30 Green candidates are being investigated by the party for anti-Semitic views. Their leader has not covered themselves in glory on this topic either. They are not the Greens of just 2 years ago!

People want change but only if it doesn’t impinge on them. People voting for Reform will find their policies do impinge on them! Look at voters in the NE. Labour, then voting for Boris and Brexit and now Reform. None of them will deliver what they want because it’s impossible!

MyTrivia · 09/05/2026 06:43

hattie43 · 09/05/2026 06:42

Reform did hugely well so just get over it . No-one any longer wants your shitshow socialist policies destroying this country further . Carrying on running the economy based on idiology is doomed .

You think this Labour government is socialist? 😂😂

loislovesstewie · 09/05/2026 06:44

Callmeback · 09/05/2026 04:10

You do realise this wasn't a general election? It wasn't a vote about national issues. It's a vote for who is best LOCALLY to sort out your pot holes, bin collections etc.

I didn't vote Reform, but if it's on local issues why did some candidates mention Gaza in their manifestos? What does that have to do with Birmingham , for example? I would think immigration has more to do with a local area in respect of numbers etc.

Marycontrarygarden · 09/05/2026 06:46

Callmeback · 09/05/2026 04:10

You do realise this wasn't a general election? It wasn't a vote about national issues. It's a vote for who is best LOCALLY to sort out your pot holes, bin collections etc.

No...they don't realise 🤣