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todayImstruggling · 07/04/2026 13:37

Tumps exact words today!

WTAF? That sounds like he is about to drop a Nuke!

How the hell has the world got here?

Trumps truth social posts sounds more like something that a dramatic gleeful tv presenter would say in a game show. Not something a world leader threatening to blow up an entire civilisation.

https://news.sky.com/story/iran-war-latest-trump-tehran-us-israel-kharg-island-netanyahu-lebanon-strikes-drone-live-sky-news-13509565

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EasterParadeHats · 09/04/2026 08:20

So they both have their own ten point plans which neither side likes

And pakistan, where is Pakistan's leaders in all this...Pakistan though this and that.
A quick Google shows they are not covered in glory either and whilst there is some economic stability their legitimacy is questionable.

Imdunfer · 09/04/2026 08:21

EasterParadeHats · 09/04/2026 08:16

@Imdunfer and us safe twenty potential attacks from Iran foiled.
Eventually one may get through.

Those are home soil terrorist attacks. There was never any danger of Iran itself bombing us.

if you think bombing Iran will reduce terrorist attacks on the UK, dream on.

rainingsnoring · 09/04/2026 08:21

EasternStandard · 09/04/2026 07:13

To @EasterParadeHatsnot ‘Eastern’

She is a different poster. Can people tag posters to get it right.

Apologies @EasternStandard-similar names and views.

cloudtreecarpet · 09/04/2026 08:22

AgingLikeGazpacho · 08/04/2026 23:09

Regarding the blackout, Iranians can communicate with extreme difficulty and risk via numerous avenues including VPN, Starlink and even Bluetooth. It is extremely costly but it is possible.

What is underdiscussed is the amount of progress Iranian people were actually able to achieve over the past 30 years (I'm only going back that far because this is what I have personally been able to witness). Protests from within the country were actually able to effect change to women's rights and individual liberties. One very trivial (but symbolic) example of this is dress code - women have been able to win rights to wear make up, show hair, show forearms etc. As I said it is trivial, but it's a massive win for a population where women used to have their hair set alight for having it uncovered (in 1979 and the early 1980s).

Believe it or not, the heads of state that Trump recently assassinated were not the most extreme hardliners that Iran had to offer. I really believe that if the war hadn't happened, then there would have been appetite within Iran to continue electing less extreme leaders and get to a point where a true democracy could be attainable through successive, iterative and progressive changes. But now Iran has been replacing these assassinated figureheads with more extreme figures (e g. Mojtaba Khamenei rather than Hossein Khomeini).

Ali Khamenei was an old man, there was no need to kill him, turn him into a martyr and increase appetite for his son to take over. Hossein Khomeini was more of a reformist Republican who was more likely to back an easing of restrictions on the Iranian people.

Revolutions are unpredictable things, most Iranians have unfortunately witnessed this for themselves. They only work in the general population's favour if there is a strong and viable alternative on offer, and there simply isn't one at this point. I think the most likely winner if the Mullahs fell would be the army/IRGC (bear in mind the last Pahlavi monarchy was established through a military coup)

My ideal government would be a fully secular proportional representative democracy. It won't happen anytime soon though.

I'd like to note that there are other countries in the Middle East that aren't democracies where everyday life is more than tolerable (e.g. the UAE) albeit not completely free. This would be an improvement on the current Iranian situation and a welcome interim state.

My main hope though is that whatever future Iran holds, that is allowed to peacefully act in its own interests - it has previously been punished for daring to nationalise its own oil (1953 and 1979l and for arming itself in order to secure its own defence (largely talking about non nuclear arms here). I genuinely feel like the USA and the UK are threatened by the prospect of Iran daring to thrive so they are doing everything in their power to keep it as a 3rd world country.

It is a country rich in resources, heritage, intellectuals, beauty, amazing food, hospitable people and every imaginable terrain. It would be a prime tourist destination if its borders were open. Even under sanctions it has thrived as a scientific hub. I wish more people could visit it themselves and see what it's really like rather than just through news bites of women in black cloaks, religious fundamentalists, human rights abuses and protests. It is so much more than that.

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Your post is informative and interesting and you clearly know so much about the situation in Iran.
I would like to ask you though about the deaths of those who stood up to the regime before Xmas.

This is a genuine question and not meant to be in any way inflammatory.
What do you know about what happened and why? Were we told the true stories about that?

I think Trump and the US were wrong in what they did and should be held accountable for it. And I think they started the war for their own ends and to make money.
But the deaths of protesters are often given as evidence that they were right to act to ensure "regime change".
I would be genuinely interested to hear your take on this.

Llttledrummergirls · 09/04/2026 08:28

The level of some of the posts on this thread is nearly as batshit as Trumps lies Truth posts.

Trump needs to get his rabid attack dog on a leash and under control, although I suspect he's such a weak piece of shit he is incapable and neutered.

PandoraSocks · 09/04/2026 08:29

cloudtreecarpet · 09/04/2026 08:22

Your post is informative and interesting and you clearly know so much about the situation in Iran.
I would like to ask you though about the deaths of those who stood up to the regime before Xmas.

This is a genuine question and not meant to be in any way inflammatory.
What do you know about what happened and why? Were we told the true stories about that?

I think Trump and the US were wrong in what they did and should be held accountable for it. And I think they started the war for their own ends and to make money.
But the deaths of protesters are often given as evidence that they were right to act to ensure "regime change".
I would be genuinely interested to hear your take on this.

If you search aginglikegazpacho's posts, she has explained her take on this.

rainingsnoring · 09/04/2026 08:30

EasterParadeHats · 09/04/2026 07:52

@AgingLikeGazpacho thanks for taking the time to reply . I can imagine you have been asked lots of questions and I hope you get everything you want for your country.

But we disagree that the USA and the UK want to keep your country as a third world giant prison where women have won the right to show their forearms etc.

The entire world will be safer if we bring all countries to stable democracy.

If you had some knowledge of the history of US initiated conflicts, you would not be making those bold statements.
If you had some understanding of how vital energy is to the economy (it is the economy), you would not make statements 'it's worth a mild recession'.

You have no evidence that the world would be safer if the US regime changes all countries. That statement is thoroughly imperialistic, arrogant and supports all the mass death and destruction caused by these regime change and thieving of other country's resources.
@AgingLikeGazpacho has taken the trouble to write long posts to help educate people, including about historical US led attacks on Iran because they did not want their resources nationalised and wanted to control the ME region. As she has said, and I have said on other threads, along with a number of other posters, many Iranians may hate the regime but they hate the US and they hate death and destruction more. You condemn the IRGC but fail to condemn all the death, destruction and chaos created by the US and Israel.

cloudtreecarpet · 09/04/2026 08:30

PandoraSocks · 09/04/2026 08:29

If you search aginglikegazpacho's posts, she has explained her take on this.

Thanks

Diosmonet · 09/04/2026 08:32

AgingLikeGazpacho · 08/04/2026 23:09

Regarding the blackout, Iranians can communicate with extreme difficulty and risk via numerous avenues including VPN, Starlink and even Bluetooth. It is extremely costly but it is possible.

What is underdiscussed is the amount of progress Iranian people were actually able to achieve over the past 30 years (I'm only going back that far because this is what I have personally been able to witness). Protests from within the country were actually able to effect change to women's rights and individual liberties. One very trivial (but symbolic) example of this is dress code - women have been able to win rights to wear make up, show hair, show forearms etc. As I said it is trivial, but it's a massive win for a population where women used to have their hair set alight for having it uncovered (in 1979 and the early 1980s).

Believe it or not, the heads of state that Trump recently assassinated were not the most extreme hardliners that Iran had to offer. I really believe that if the war hadn't happened, then there would have been appetite within Iran to continue electing less extreme leaders and get to a point where a true democracy could be attainable through successive, iterative and progressive changes. But now Iran has been replacing these assassinated figureheads with more extreme figures (e g. Mojtaba Khamenei rather than Hossein Khomeini).

Ali Khamenei was an old man, there was no need to kill him, turn him into a martyr and increase appetite for his son to take over. Hossein Khomeini was more of a reformist Republican who was more likely to back an easing of restrictions on the Iranian people.

Revolutions are unpredictable things, most Iranians have unfortunately witnessed this for themselves. They only work in the general population's favour if there is a strong and viable alternative on offer, and there simply isn't one at this point. I think the most likely winner if the Mullahs fell would be the army/IRGC (bear in mind the last Pahlavi monarchy was established through a military coup)

My ideal government would be a fully secular proportional representative democracy. It won't happen anytime soon though.

I'd like to note that there are other countries in the Middle East that aren't democracies where everyday life is more than tolerable (e.g. the UAE) albeit not completely free. This would be an improvement on the current Iranian situation and a welcome interim state.

My main hope though is that whatever future Iran holds, that is allowed to peacefully act in its own interests - it has previously been punished for daring to nationalise its own oil (1953 and 1979l and for arming itself in order to secure its own defence (largely talking about non nuclear arms here). I genuinely feel like the USA and the UK are threatened by the prospect of Iran daring to thrive so they are doing everything in their power to keep it as a 3rd world country.

It is a country rich in resources, heritage, intellectuals, beauty, amazing food, hospitable people and every imaginable terrain. It would be a prime tourist destination if its borders were open. Even under sanctions it has thrived as a scientific hub. I wish more people could visit it themselves and see what it's really like rather than just through news bites of women in black cloaks, religious fundamentalists, human rights abuses and protests. It is so much more than that.

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Thank you for all of your posts @AgingLikeGazpacho

This is the first time I am replying, but I have read all with interest and what you write very much aligns with how I feel about the situation, including the historical context and hopes for the future.

I would also love to see Iran opened up for visitors to experience everything you listed.

Itshouldntbethisway · 09/04/2026 08:38

Twiglets1 · 08/04/2026 18:54

Yes I agree.

Clearly Iran should not have attacked Saudi Arabia's East-West Pipeline hours after the ceasefire was agreed.

And why was that? One of their bridges was bombed as cars crossed over it, there is footage of this. The US and Israel have been attacking their infrastructure since the start of the war.

Twiglets1 · 09/04/2026 08:49

Itshouldntbethisway · 09/04/2026 08:38

And why was that? One of their bridges was bombed as cars crossed over it, there is footage of this. The US and Israel have been attacking their infrastructure since the start of the war.

Attacking civilian infrastructure is still likely a war crime regardless of whether Israel attacked a bridge first (also probably a war crime).

Arraminta · 09/04/2026 09:37

ImGoingtoSayitButyouWontBelieveme · 08/04/2026 23:51

Hi, yeah I understand where you are coming from and totally get what ppl mean about the Terminator 2 likeness, definitely the force of the blast put me in mind of that. I can’t prove it’s true but I personally do believe it to be so. I haven’t even told Christian friends of ours as what am I supposed to say?! (Hey Jane, great to see you, by the way I’ve been given a vision of the nuclear war that appears to be near future (based on the modern architecture of the buildings), how are the kids doing?..)
I’m sorry I can’t give evidence but I am being honest in what I shared, I wouldn’t joke about things like this, that would be cruel and pointless.
It was a waking vision, very first hand and ‘in body’ (not asleep). My reason to believe is based on a lifetime’s personal walk of faith and many things God has shown me and spoken to me about over the years, I trust what He’s shown me. For example He warned me about a family member in imminent danger and only due to this were we (myself and another family member) able to intervene exactly in that moment on the day and prevent a tragedy. Another time He gave me a specific dream several weeks before I met the person the dream was for (I had no idea at the time). I didn’t recognise anyone in the dream or the place and the scenario was very specific and detailed. Unlike other dreams I remembered it completely perfectly, for many weeks even though it meant nothing to me. I was at a festival where there was praise times and teachings and at one of these I felt led to speak to someone there, a total stranger, and it turned out the dream was for them. They cried and hugged me! It bowled me over to be honest, it turned out the dream was to do with people they knew and work with, and a difficult work situation, it was something relevant only to them and it gave them a lot of encouragement. There have been many things like this, when I know it is the Holy Spirit speaking and revealing something or guiding me to something.
All I know is when I found out about the other vision - this was from a man called Maurice Sklar, the hair stood up on the back of my neck as he described what he saw and I remember thinking, he saw the bird’s eye view of what I did at ground level. The kids dreams and visions I found out about recently, there are so many on YouTube, mostly it is them describing being taken up and meeting Jesus and describing how he looks but also what we believe is the ‘final battle’, something we call the Day of the Lord and the destruction on the earth at this time. They have no guile and are just being honest in describing what they saw.
Sorry is late and tired but will come back on tomorrow if anyone wants to ask any more etc

Yeah, but no thanks FFS.

AgingLikeGazpacho · 09/04/2026 10:05

Twiglets1 · 09/04/2026 07:35

The hypocrisy is breath-taking.

They are a very evil regime and yet can pretend when it suits them to care about things like trust, confidence and (on occasion) human rights.

After the IRGC murdered thousands of their own people, I don't think Sky should even be giving Iranian diplomats a platform. It legitimizes rulers who should be proscribed as terrorists across the Western world.

As much as I dislike the regime, it would feel incredibly one-sided to not allow the Iranian diplomats to have a platform to also express their/the state's views

It's up to the newscasters to expose hypocrisy, propaganda, and lies - I am supportive of them interviewing whoever they like as long as they aren't just letting propagandists issue statements without appropriate challenge or commentary.

I've found it very interesting to see the points each side is focusing on - in particular, the fact that Iran doesn't seem to have taken the bait on Hegseth's framing of this as a religious war (I don't think it was a coincidence that the war began during Ramadan).

Rather, Iranian figureheads seem to have chosen to focus their messaging on Epstein, the Minab schoolgirls, the futility of negotiating with the current US administration, Israel's actions, and Iranian sovereignty/US presence in the Middle East. Probably in a bid to appeal to western sensibilities and get US citizen sympathy/support

Given USA funding/support of terrorist organisations as well (e.g. the Afghan Mujahideen, Jundallah, various Syrian opposition groups that defected towards terrorism), it's shaky ground to proscribe Iran's leaders of terrorism and not the USA presidents who have also armed and funded these proxies too.

The war has certainly exposed a lot of hypocrisy and demonstrated how rhetoric around rights and war crimes etc are leveraged by propagandists at whatever point is convenient to them and dropped quickly once it no longer serves the larger political purpose

Etiennethemad · 09/04/2026 10:08

One can hardly class the Iran regime as being civilized. That said what Trump is doing is bonkers. He comes across as being completely unhinged. I have no sympathy for the Mullahs but a great deal of sympathy for the poor Iranians who are suffering under their control.

jhonmichal934 · 09/04/2026 10:10

He is a fuc__ink Mad Man of America.

jhonmichal934 · 09/04/2026 10:12

These are the people how lecture others about terrorism. And yet themselves are the biggest terrorists in the world.

ObsessiveGoogler · 09/04/2026 10:14

@AgingLikeGazpacho thank you. A really interesting and enlightening post.

Hallamule · 09/04/2026 10:16

Etiennethemad · 09/04/2026 10:08

One can hardly class the Iran regime as being civilized. That said what Trump is doing is bonkers. He comes across as being completely unhinged. I have no sympathy for the Mullahs but a great deal of sympathy for the poor Iranians who are suffering under their control.

Lol what is it that you think civilisation is?

nice2BeNice · 09/04/2026 10:24

A country that is either becoming too powerful or has the potential to, and/or has the key to sway the regional power dynamics, key resources, or is causing trouble to an ally, or are arming themselves, historic animosity, land grabbing intent, perceived threat ... more criteria can be added to this list.

Such a country's progress should be thwarted, so that their own positions are safe.

This has been the case always in history, Kingdoms or Nations, whatever the entity is called. Of course, spreading a religion was another cause, like in the case of the Crusades.

That's all it boils down to.

The rhetoric of protecting Human rights, removal of dictatorial regimes, all that is just fluff to disguise the true intent.

But, even if there was such a genuine intent, imposing western democracy isn't necessarily the required/best option.
The country in question quite often has complex dynamics and is far more heterogeneous than a typical western democracy. It's a different system of governance that it needs. It's a very colonial/supremacist mindset to think that somehow western countries know better how to govern the country in question.

Human rights violations are better addressed by a world body than individual countries. And there should be a blanket ban on military intervention by any country.

In some ways, Trump atleast has made his intent clear, that it's the oil/natural resources that he is interested in, Venezuela, Iran, Greenland, -- unlike other world leaders (think Tony Blair justifying this war, albeit articulated in a much more polished way, devoid of obsceneties) who would try and make a show of how they are trying to spread western democratic values and to help the people of that country (that they are bombing!).

That the might of the American Military has been showcased to the world now, it's going to make every country to increase their defence spending. NATO countries have already been forced to do so. Apparently, European countries have been spending too much on their social welfare schemes!

And if you want to be cynical, US leads the world in arms manufacture. So, there's that.

Probably nuclear proliferation will increase too. As was observed by a PP, the countries which aren't nuclear powers/part of an alliance like NATO, have found themselves really exposed. US wouldn't dare to "intervene"in North Korea for example, though they have bases in South Korea.

Twiglets1 · 09/04/2026 11:07

I don't know about that @AgingLikeGazpacho

Sky News weren't interviewing Hamas leaders during the war in Gaza as far as I recall, in the interests of not being seen as "one-sided".

I guess it's because the IRGC aren't a proscribed terrorist organisation yet in the whole Western world, just a large part of it. The sooner the UK do that the better, as far as I'm concerned.

rainingsnoring · 09/04/2026 11:24

AgingLikeGazpacho · 09/04/2026 10:05

As much as I dislike the regime, it would feel incredibly one-sided to not allow the Iranian diplomats to have a platform to also express their/the state's views

It's up to the newscasters to expose hypocrisy, propaganda, and lies - I am supportive of them interviewing whoever they like as long as they aren't just letting propagandists issue statements without appropriate challenge or commentary.

I've found it very interesting to see the points each side is focusing on - in particular, the fact that Iran doesn't seem to have taken the bait on Hegseth's framing of this as a religious war (I don't think it was a coincidence that the war began during Ramadan).

Rather, Iranian figureheads seem to have chosen to focus their messaging on Epstein, the Minab schoolgirls, the futility of negotiating with the current US administration, Israel's actions, and Iranian sovereignty/US presence in the Middle East. Probably in a bid to appeal to western sensibilities and get US citizen sympathy/support

Given USA funding/support of terrorist organisations as well (e.g. the Afghan Mujahideen, Jundallah, various Syrian opposition groups that defected towards terrorism), it's shaky ground to proscribe Iran's leaders of terrorism and not the USA presidents who have also armed and funded these proxies too.

The war has certainly exposed a lot of hypocrisy and demonstrated how rhetoric around rights and war crimes etc are leveraged by propagandists at whatever point is convenient to them and dropped quickly once it no longer serves the larger political purpose

Edited

I agree. Opposing views should be heard.

A lot of people in the West either don't know or ignore the fact that the US and other Western countries have regularly sponsored terrorists when it has suited them. They have installed an Al Qaeda terrorist as the Syrian leader, welcoming him to the White House. There is a great deal of hypocricy in the West in the way that behaviour of the Iranians is widely condemned but the same or worse behaviour by the US or Israel is not criticised or even applauded.

ImGoingtoSayitButyouWontBelieveme · 09/04/2026 11:45

TracyLords · 09/04/2026 00:42

I used to see similar.

it stopped once I started taking antipsychotics.

I can promise you I am a very boring, run-of-the-mill mum of two, my life is very domestic just trying to navigate life, kids, work, the delights of peri etc. It gets exciting when we all come down with the vomiting bug but I can’t claim a mental illness, thankful for that as my back gives me quite enough trouble.

ImGoingtoSayitButyouWontBelieveme · 09/04/2026 12:16

Anyway I’ll respect the political discussion on here and won’t post further. I just wanted to be honest, sometimes I do try to post about how close to the end it seems we are. If I didn’t believe or was anti-faith I still think I’d want to know other perspectives and consider the evidence for what might be coming. The churches certainly aren’t teaching on end times, at least no more than skirting the edges (it makes up a huge whack of scripture and biblical prophecy and is strange it’s almost intentionally avoided, I don’t get it).
Most ppl on MN appear atheist or anti-Christian and I’m not trying to convince anyone of anything, just to say there are other perspectives and things that seem to tie up with what we are seeing play out on the world stage. If I knew someone who knew what was coming I’d want to hear and weigh it up for myself. What I found so compelling particularly about the visions children are having is the sheer volume of them. So many children from different places.

ObsessiveGoogler · 09/04/2026 12:35

ImGoingtoSayitButyouWontBelieveme · 09/04/2026 12:16

Anyway I’ll respect the political discussion on here and won’t post further. I just wanted to be honest, sometimes I do try to post about how close to the end it seems we are. If I didn’t believe or was anti-faith I still think I’d want to know other perspectives and consider the evidence for what might be coming. The churches certainly aren’t teaching on end times, at least no more than skirting the edges (it makes up a huge whack of scripture and biblical prophecy and is strange it’s almost intentionally avoided, I don’t get it).
Most ppl on MN appear atheist or anti-Christian and I’m not trying to convince anyone of anything, just to say there are other perspectives and things that seem to tie up with what we are seeing play out on the world stage. If I knew someone who knew what was coming I’d want to hear and weigh it up for myself. What I found so compelling particularly about the visions children are having is the sheer volume of them. So many children from different places.

But the US are teaching this in many fundamental churches. And the role of Israel in “the rapture” Is one of the driving forces for the US’s uncritical support for Israel and lack of interest in any form of peaceful solution. I really have no problem with what anyone believes, but the “end of days” rhetoric is playing a crucial and dangerous role in geopolitics.

KeepPumping · 09/04/2026 12:51

EasterParadeHats · 08/04/2026 22:33

@AgingLikeGazpacho interesting. How do you think the Iranians will be able to overthrow the regime or do it from within.

On news tonight apparntly there has been an internet black out and no phones or something for a month ? The regime doesn't want people to communicate .

You said you don't like the idea of freedom that the USA sells..so what sort of government do you see

They didn"t have internet the last time they overthrew a regime in Iran?

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