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What is an experience you never want to experience again in your lifetime?

625 replies

sooo4455 · 06/04/2026 14:29

The most stressful time in my life started about 7 years ago and went on for 2 years and my mental health took an absolute battering and im still not over it. And now im super paranoid about it happening again.

I had bedbugs and a rat problem under the bath at the same time and pest control were useless.
i had a toddler at the time and their was 7 of us and I was advise to put everything we owned (twice) in the garden while they tried to get the bedbugs under control. I had to wash every soft furnishing and beds, draws, wardrobes had to be emptied and placed outside in bags in the sun. Only thing that was allowed in the house was furniture. I had postnatal depression at the time and I just remember sitting in the garden with everything we owned (twice). With the rats they were running around under the bath and were huge. My bathroom is downstairs and they’d chewed from the outside in, the smell was not normal and the noise all day from them scurrying around 🤮
It finally got resolved after 2 years but at that point I was shot to bits. I don’t think people realise how traumatic it is the live with a bedbugs. I’m so paranoid about getting them again I try and stay away from public transport and hotels or I will research the shit out of them before booking and even then I’m hyper vigilant and can’t sleep.

What is something you never want to go though again?

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PamelaFlowers · 06/04/2026 14:32

anal sex

Ihateboris · 06/04/2026 14:33

PamelaFlowers · 06/04/2026 14:32

anal sex

🤣🤣...same!! Never EVER again!

HappiestSleeping · 06/04/2026 14:33

The death of my wife. The last week was the most awful thing I can ever imagine experiencing. I am glad I was there to hold her hand, but I never want to go through that again, nor have anyone need to do it for me. It will be off to Dignitas when it gets to my time.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 06/04/2026 14:33

Uterine rupture

Mumofteenandtween · 06/04/2026 14:33

A global pandemic!

backagainohdear · 06/04/2026 14:33

A few things:

My child nearly died as A&E diagnosed wrongly & sent home with no tests. 3 days later I couldn’t wake him properly, rushed him in my car to the GP was immediately blue lighted to hostipal with a diagnosis of DKA and blood sugars of 114mmol. Was told if he was left 12-24 hours later he would of died.

Watching a family member die a horrible death from cancer.

Having a stillborn labour, I was so hysterical that they sedated me.

But if you want light humor my cat brought in an alive pigeon, who stupidly couldn’t figure out how to fly out the window. 😂 I was there for two hours chasing a pigeon with a broom around my house!

backagainohdear · 06/04/2026 14:34

HappiestSleeping · 06/04/2026 14:33

The death of my wife. The last week was the most awful thing I can ever imagine experiencing. I am glad I was there to hold her hand, but I never want to go through that again, nor have anyone need to do it for me. It will be off to Dignitas when it gets to my time.

🫂🫂🫂

Enigma54 · 06/04/2026 14:36

Being diagnosed with cancer number 5. I’m currently on my 4th diagnosis and it suck’s!

Decacaffeinatednow · 06/04/2026 14:38

Seeing a man being shot dead in front of me when I was a teenager.

backagainohdear · 06/04/2026 14:40

Mumofteenandtween · 06/04/2026 14:33

A global pandemic!

I quite enjoyed the pandemic. 😂 Lockdown was lovely especially with that summer we had, was so peaceful!

ohyesido · 06/04/2026 14:41

The tears and depression that accompany a bad hangover

Kirbert2 · 06/04/2026 14:44

2024

March 2024 my son went from a suspected tummy bug to a 17 minute cardiac arrest within the space of 24 hours. It was the start of a long 10 month journey including 7 weeks in intensive care where I was told he was unlikely to survive and if he did, he'd likely have a brain injury and the need to have his right leg amputated. He was ultimately diagnosed with a bowel obstruction, septic shock and then just a week later, we found out the cause of it all was cancer.

It changed everything. My son survived against all of the odds and though he didn't have a brain injury or have his leg amputated as they suspected, he is now disabled as a result. He's been in remission for 18 months now thankfully.

I never, ever want to experience a kind doctor with sad eyes telling me that my child probably won't survive again.

DripDripAprilshower · 06/04/2026 14:44

PamelaFlowers · 06/04/2026 14:32

anal sex

Can’t relate

ILoveDaffodills · 06/04/2026 14:44

@sooo4455 that sounds beyond traumatic. I'm not surprised your MH took a battering. It's a lot to go through 🌷💕

CaptBirdsEar · 06/04/2026 14:46

Watching my husband of 40+ years dying of cancer.

Lizzbear · 06/04/2026 14:46

HappiestSleeping · 06/04/2026 14:33

The death of my wife. The last week was the most awful thing I can ever imagine experiencing. I am glad I was there to hold her hand, but I never want to go through that again, nor have anyone need to do it for me. It will be off to Dignitas when it gets to my time.

Very sorry for your loss x

Musicmummy63 · 06/04/2026 14:47

Chemotherapy

keepswimming38 · 06/04/2026 14:49

Watching my 20 year old daughter decline before my eyes in A&E with suspected meningitis last Tuesday.

AgnesMcDoo · 06/04/2026 14:50

C section

LBFseBrom · 06/04/2026 14:50

backagainohdear · 06/04/2026 14:40

I quite enjoyed the pandemic. 😂 Lockdown was lovely especially with that summer we had, was so peaceful!

So did I. It started months after my husband died and I was glad not to have to see anyone, could be private. Lockdown helped me.

I wasn't unaware or insensitive to others who had great difficulties with lockdown, just that I didn't and was glad of it for me.

backagainohdear · 06/04/2026 14:50

keepswimming38 · 06/04/2026 14:49

Watching my 20 year old daughter decline before my eyes in A&E with suspected meningitis last Tuesday.

How is she now?

Ihateboris · 06/04/2026 14:51

keepswimming38 · 06/04/2026 14:49

Watching my 20 year old daughter decline before my eyes in A&E with suspected meningitis last Tuesday.

I hope she's getting better x

TigerRag · 06/04/2026 14:55

A seizure and hearing (I didn't see it thankfully) my dad have one

theoneandonlyhydro · 06/04/2026 14:55

Arrived to the airport with DH and 2 DC all packed and excited to spend a few days in Paris and then Disneyland. Got to top of queue to discover I had cancelled the flights the day before following instructions from thr airline to request a refund for over paid seat selections. Had to rebook for 24hrs later at a cost of €2k. Am not over it yet.

Iamblossom · 06/04/2026 14:55

Broken ribs
Vomiting because of too much alcohol