Partner hasn’t paid our holiday and now cancelled …would you be angry ?

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We had a holiday to Mexico booked.
It cost £3,900
Every month i have been transferring him £300 for 6 months for my half.
He has told me today its been cancelled as he only paid the £500 deposit
He said he was borrowing in to the money and was going to pay it back but before he knew it he had to find the £3,400 and could only pay £2,000 off it so Tui have cancelled it.

Im so angry
He’s told me he will just book it last minute in June and we can still okay.
He said from next month he’s putting away £1,000
Im so mad

I see others have checked op history. So he is untrustworthy with money, prone to spending on impulse and an addict - op you deserve and should find better. 5 years have already been wasted on him. You could even try small claims to recover your money as it sounds like he has an income. Bear in mind he has squandered that as well as your holiday money. He is out of control. That 2k he “raised” towards the holiday is your money, claim it and leave.

Well he can give you back your money and then give you £1000 in April and May, then you can book it last minute.

Gambled it to win his share of the holiday costs would be my guess.

I'd also guess he was unsuccessful.

As far as I know, TUI don't offer a cash refund, they let you choose a different holiday tho with what ever money is on the account and if you cancelled you loose the full amount. So in my opinion he's not even paid more then a deposit if that

Personally this would probably be the end of the relationship.

So he basically stole your money in hope he'd be able to pay off holiday and you wouldn't find out, you might wanna consider kicking him out, if he's done this, is there anything else he's done you haven't found out about?

The word is though not tho

Lose not loose

Want to not wanna

Kick that loser straight to the curb!!

She won't. Shes posted other threads about how awful he is and she's still with him

That's theft of money, or at least acquiring money via deception. I'm so sorry they have done that to you, OP. Call your bank and ask for a charge back? It's a long shot, but you've been scammed, in a way. That 1K from next month, needs to go back into -your- pocket.

Well, lesson learned - you can't trust him with money. Can you trust him with your heart? You need to think long and hard here.

Dump him.

I wouldn't be worrying about a holiday to Mexico with him, because I'd be dumping his sorry arse. If you don't you'll be back here complaining about how he never does anything, never takes responsibility and kids (if you have them) will only amplify that. Get the cash you paid him back and go somewhere yourself to forget him. Sorry that's harsh, but that's what I feel. There are so many men who can't organise their way out a paper bag!

edited as commented on wrong post.

6 kids - what do they both have. He's a gambler and completely untrustworthy

He’s a con man, ditch him!

"He said he was borrowing in to the money and was going to pay it back "
"He said from next month he’s putting away £1,000"

He'll say absolutely anything - it doesn't mean you should believe him.
He will never be financially trustworthy - do you really want to stay with someone like this?

Amazed that people can afford to spend £4k on a holiday...

Personally I think people are overreacting. It's not great - I agree, but these things do happen. The money is not gone and the holiday can still be booked..

Just my personal view but I think he might have saved you some internal organs as well as money. I cannot understand why people see the lure of spending so much to visit Mexico in all honesty - especially if you're not Hispanic or don't speak and act as such, you're just going to stand out.

But the money hasn't gone. It's still there...

Ltb
I could not even bear to look at him

How you know

Sorry but I agree with this

Wait, so he's been "borrowing" the money that you'd put in? Or had you paid that to Tui already? Sorry, long day!