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I’m hating on the word ‘ cuppa ‘.

284 replies

hattie43 · 21/03/2026 07:16

A Facebook friend is really giving me the ick over her constant use of the word ‘ cuppa ‘ . I have developed an unreasonable hatred of it .

who fancies coming over for a cuppa
where’s the best place in town for a cuppa
I drink at least 6 cuppa’s a day
how do you take your cuppa

Its cup of tea

Ahhh just ahhh

OP posts:
Tryanalogue · 22/03/2026 19:32

Muffinmam · 22/03/2026 10:51

I hate when people write posts on mumsnet and use unnecessary exclamation marks.

Years ago someone made a post about how they were eating a chocolate orange and people responded “Yum!” And it really bothered me.

But it’s an exclamation.

Tryanalogue · 22/03/2026 19:35

FantasyFoodhall · 22/03/2026 04:04

My neighbour always says ‘wine o’clock’ and honestly I hate her every time, which is a
shame (or a ‘me problem, to use another hideous expression) as she is very nice otherwise. Although they do also have ‘cheeky soups’ for lunch.

I suppose it’s not made from ox cheek, this soup.

FantasyFoodhall · 22/03/2026 19:52

Oh now I hadn’t thought of that. I’m going to assume it is for the sake of neighbour relations.

thenightsky · 22/03/2026 22:22

MildlyAnnoyed · 22/03/2026 17:37

I’m not really bothered about ’cuppa’ but I can’t stand people saying ‘crips’ instead of ‘crisps’.

That's reminded me of how much I dislike people using 'arksed' when they mean 'asked'.

ThatSillyBee · 22/03/2026 22:32

Lush is used widely in the south west, especially in Bristol. It isn't necessarily just used to describe vegitation, unless you're David Bellamy.

GloiredeDijon · 23/03/2026 09:06

thenightsky · 22/03/2026 22:22

That's reminded me of how much I dislike people using 'arksed' when they mean 'asked'.

God, yes!
Although I have only ever heard this on the telly. Presume it must be a London thing?

Elbowpatch · 23/03/2026 10:45

GloiredeDijon · 23/03/2026 09:06

God, yes!
Although I have only ever heard this on the telly. Presume it must be a London thing?

Edited

I have only heard it once. From a young student in his first week at university. He was from London.

He must have learnt the correct pronunciation fairly quickly because I never heard him say it again.

FernandoSor · 23/03/2026 11:20

IglesiasPiggl · 21/03/2026 08:55

Oh God don't get me started on all the minimising verbs! Hop on the bus, ping me an email, jump on a call, bob over the road. They can all pop themselves in the bin!

'ping' used in a business context came from IT though, specifically the ICMP ping utility which is used to determine whether a remote server is contactable - it was named after a sonar 'ping' to detect an unseen vessel. It was then used in IRC (early internet chat) to 'ping' someone to see if they were available. It seems to have permeated into general non-technical business speech sometime in the late 90s/early 2000s. I have to admit, I don't have a problem with it - but then I've been working in IT since the days when no-one except us would have known what it meant. It's nice to know that it has effectively kept it's original meaning which can be traced all the way back to WWII sonar technology.

LarsenBiceshelf · 23/03/2026 11:46

Elbowpatch · 22/03/2026 15:08

You would hate this place then.

AAARRRRGGGHHHHH!!!!

LarsenBiceshelf · 23/03/2026 11:48

Empress13 · 21/03/2026 22:05

Picky bits ….. 🤢

Agreed. It's so infantile. I've even seen it used in a supermarket 😡

Idontcareforthat · 23/03/2026 12:43

@BananaSkinShoes my partner/boyfriend says tummy. It does not sit well with me at all. Every time he says it I sort of repeat his sentence back but using stomach. ‘Will that make your tummy sore’.
’No, my STOMACH will be fine.’
Thanks to my IBS, we have unfortunately regular gastro conversations 😁

Cuppa is awful. And I’m sure these have been already mentioned but:
hubster
kiddies
nom nom
picky bits

LaMarschallin · 23/03/2026 12:51

I've only know one hubby-ier but I have a friend who just calls her DH "Husband".
"Come on then, Husband, we'd best be on our way" or whatever.
It's like she's forgotten his name.

CloudPop · 23/03/2026 13:06

LaMarschallin · 23/03/2026 12:51

I've only know one hubby-ier but I have a friend who just calls her DH "Husband".
"Come on then, Husband, we'd best be on our way" or whatever.
It's like she's forgotten his name.

Yes I know someone who does that. Odd isn’t it.

YesssSpringHasSprung · 23/03/2026 14:27

Just having a nice cuppa as it goes, before I pop into town for a bit of a pootle 🤣☕️🚶🏽‍♀️

Mossey55 · 24/03/2026 07:48

YesssSpringHasSprung · 23/03/2026 14:27

Just having a nice cuppa as it goes, before I pop into town for a bit of a pootle 🤣☕️🚶🏽‍♀️

I’ve never heard of pootle , what is it

Myblueclematis · 24/03/2026 07:57

Mossey55 · 24/03/2026 07:48

I’ve never heard of pootle , what is it

Pootle or pootling, means driving/walking or doing something rather slowly I think. My dad used to say it and my brother does too sometimes.

SunnieShine · 24/03/2026 08:07

I say cuppa, brew, choccie and sarnie.
I even say - gasp - "fur baby"!
And I don't care. 😁

SunnieShine · 24/03/2026 08:08

I NEVER say "hating on" though. 🤢

CrazyCricketLady · 24/03/2026 08:12

My hates are
Holibob
Crimbo
Kiddo
Doggo
Comflab
Vicky Verca (vice versa, said by MIL)
Bambino

Mossey55 · 24/03/2026 08:13

SunnieShine · 24/03/2026 08:07

I say cuppa, brew, choccie and sarnie.
I even say - gasp - "fur baby"!
And I don't care. 😁

Omg fur baby I hate that ha ha

AgnesX · 24/03/2026 08:15

NessaCoaches · 21/03/2026 07:24

It doesn’t bother me. However “spag bol” or even worse “spag bowl” and someone saying “can I get” really do bother me.

I loathe " can I get" 😖

SirChenjins · 24/03/2026 09:22

AgnesX · 24/03/2026 08:15

I loathe " can I get" 😖

Perfectly normal up here - I'm as nit-picky as the next person, but 'can I get' is just so normal that it's odd to see it ever raised on here. Never cross the border into Scotland if it bothers you, you're liable to implode.

LadyVioletBridgerton · 24/03/2026 09:26

I’m ok with cuppa ☕️

What I hate on FB marketplace is when people are advertising something and they put ‘needs gone’ 😡 Not even sure why it bugs me but it does.

AgnesX · 24/03/2026 10:02

SirChenjins · 24/03/2026 09:22

Perfectly normal up here - I'm as nit-picky as the next person, but 'can I get' is just so normal that it's odd to see it ever raised on here. Never cross the border into Scotland if it bothers you, you're liable to implode.

I'm in Scotland...... (and it's so feckin irritating).

dailyconniptions · 24/03/2026 10:20

LadyVioletBridgerton · 24/03/2026 09:26

I’m ok with cuppa ☕️

What I hate on FB marketplace is when people are advertising something and they put ‘needs gone’ 😡 Not even sure why it bugs me but it does.

It's extremely annoying because it makes no grammatical sense. They've missed out 'to be'. Or better still say 'needs to go...'

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