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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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KnottyAndPistey · 05/03/2026 18:22

No worries. It’s been years since it’s been our basic because it was discontinued 😔 but it’s still a great yarn if you have some tucked away. We had actual words our mate Debs when we met her! Obv nice ones because we are like that 😀

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Freya1542 · 05/03/2026 18:24

Boiledbeetle · 05/03/2026 18:16

Maud wanted to ensure there was still room for afters!

doh!! 🤦🏼‍♀️ but ofc, battenberg, how very silly of me 😊

PurpleFrog · 05/03/2026 18:27

bookbook · 05/03/2026 18:19

Gosh , Thank you for letting me know about the Cashmerino!! Sorry to have not realised

That’s OK. I always read that bit as I have a number of the old yarns in my stash!

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Castlerigg · 05/03/2026 18:43

Thank you @KnottyAndPistey, I shall get to work with the green.

KnottyAndPistey · 05/03/2026 19:39

Crack on @Castlerigg . May you craft like the wind is beneath your wings x

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KnottyAndPistey · 05/03/2026 19:42

bookbook · 05/03/2026 18:19

Gosh , Thank you for letting me know about the Cashmerino!! Sorry to have not realised

Don’t be daft, why would you? : we haven’t used it for years ! A few swears were had when they discontinued 🙄 We Just know what our yarn hoarding lovelies are like ❤️

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AlexandraLeaving · 05/03/2026 19:44

@SpiralArchitect that is beautiful :)

@SeptemberIRemember I am sure that pattern would be just as lovely without the beads - looks great.

@ifIwerenotanandroid how wonderful that you have created the means for yarn-gerbil proliferation. I hope many many people will use those instructions to bring joy through many blankets and other creations.

My square for the day is a bit of an odd one, to commemorate the time L hung a wire coat-hanger on a tree 'to confuse future archaeologists'. [Picture incoming. The green is lighter in real life than it looks on the screen, definitely a mid-green, honest...]

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
MyrtleLion · 05/03/2026 19:46

I think Maud has adopted the very sensible culinary method known as “assembly cooking.”

Procedure likely as follows:

  1. Obtain prepared food from trustworthy local establishment.
  2. Transfer contents with great seriousness to proper plates.
  3. Apply final garnish with spoon for professional appearance.
  4. Serve proudly.

From Maud’s perspective she is now cooking tea.

@KnottyAndPistey is receiving dinner prepared by a very earnest gerbil in an apron.

Everyone wins.

Castlerigg · 05/03/2026 19:49

It has been quite a while since I was involved with Woolly Hugs. I took some time away from MN, but am back now. And I’m determined to destash! (So that I can later re-stash with lovely new yarn!)

I’m pretty sure mum has some of the old blanket yarns in her stash too - which is considerably larger than mine, I might add!

KnottyAndPistey · 05/03/2026 20:05

@AlexandraLeaving . We adore that. Meaningful connections are everything. You superstar ⭐️

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KnottyAndPistey · 05/03/2026 20:08

The green is perfect even in that picture. We are avoiding dark greens that’s all x

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KnottyAndPistey · 05/03/2026 20:10

Listen @MyrtleLion , if we don’t have to plan it , shop for it , cook it & clean up after we are delighted!
Maud rocks!

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HalzTangz · 05/03/2026 20:21

I could do a book square if some yarn could be sent please

Boiledbeetle · 05/03/2026 20:33

KnottyAndPistey · 05/03/2026 20:10

Listen @MyrtleLion , if we don’t have to plan it , shop for it , cook it & clean up after we are delighted!
Maud rocks!

Everyone should have a Maud!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
KnottyAndPistey · 05/03/2026 21:50

@HalzTangz . Message us requesting yarn, lovely. Just need a name & address x

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KnottyAndPistey · 05/03/2026 21:51

We could do with several Mauds , @Boiledbeetle ! Just imagine what we could achieve 😀

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KnottyAndPistey · 05/03/2026 21:52

Ok , darlings. Will see you all in the morning. Rest well x

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SeptemberIRemember · 05/03/2026 23:16

Boiledbeetle · 05/03/2026 20:33

Everyone should have a Maud!

That's almost what all these famous people sang at The Proms.

"Everybody ought to have a Maid Maud."

KnottyAndPistey · 06/03/2026 09:31

Mornio beautiful people. It’s probs me @SeptemberIRemember but I can’t open the link. Maybe I need more coffee.

Maud is on it.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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ChristmasStars · 06/03/2026 09:50

I can't open the link either and assumed it was just me 😊

Boiledbeetle · 06/03/2026 10:05

KnottyAndPistey · 06/03/2026 09:31

Mornio beautiful people. It’s probs me @SeptemberIRemember but I can’t open the link. Maybe I need more coffee.

Maud is on it.

Maud will be bringing more coffee shortly, she's just trying to persuade her favourite cat to come in out of the rain.

They are currently haggling over how many Dreamies it's worth to go back in the house. Maud is trying to remain strong on her offer of 3. I suspect the eventual number will be higher.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
SeptemberIRemember · 06/03/2026 10:13

Here’s the link again - it was there last night…

Here

Otherwise, search “Everybody ought to have a Maid” and click on YouTube and Proms.

Boiledbeetle · 06/03/2026 10:14

Maud eventually raised her offer to 5 Dreamies. The increased number was found to be acceptable to both parties.

Coffee will be arriving very soon.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Freya1542 · 06/03/2026 10:36

Amma a bit partial tae Maud's Scottish vibe @Boiledbeetle 🦄

Yiayoula · 06/03/2026 11:05

@AlexandraLeaving - beautiful square,and an even more beautiful meaning.
Exemplifies the Woolly Huggers motto “Love in every stitch” xx

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