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Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?

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KnottyAndPistey · 02/03/2026 19:12

We bring such sad news, lovely wafflenose has lost her younger daughter (L) through tragic circumstances and we are just so desperately sorry, thoughts very much with waffle, her family and all who loved her daughter. Really really devastating. Life has been desperately cruel. You may well recognise waffle from music/education/Extra-curricular threads here on MN. Both her lovely daughters have been involved with Mumsnet.

We are so glad waffle would like to receive a Woolly Hug. For those new on here, this is a long standing tradition on Mumsnet where folk come together to make a blanket for one of our own who has been bereaved. There will be love crafted into every stitch. We want it to be a tribute and full of memories. We hope it may give whatever comfort it can.

People have described L as a quiet light, the gentlest of souls. Let us make something truly beautiful in her honour.

So we come again asking for help and shall need both crafters and donors of funds of wool. Can you help us? We would be truly grateful. Thank you

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

We have some ideas for themes..
Initials please E, G, L and K

She played the recorder, the clarinet and the cello, but focused mainly on the clarinet latterly and played in the National Children's Orchestra Under 10s for a while. Her NCO hoodie was bright blue - a bit like Yarnsmith dark turquoise.

She loved art and reading and was very creative. Loved Harry Potter and would probably have been in Hufflepuff house had she been at Hogwarts.

She had a quirky mind and used to love lego.

She was quite a fashionista. Loved Vogue magazine and Miss Dior perfume

Favourite colours were pink and white (pink more than white).

English literature was the love of her life. We are hoping someone can recreate a bookshelf square? One of her favourite books was Jane Eyre. She had also been studying Plath and Hughes.

She loved swimming and the great outdoors, particular the Quantock Hills. (Photo) We are hoping this may act as an inspiration.

Work/volunteering: she did Brownies and Guides and volunteered as a Rainbow Guider and also volunteered on a hospital ward for a while. She worked as a waitress and at the village pub.

She was interested in philosophy and was planning to become a psychologist/counsellor.

She liked Fleetwood Mac.

She kept tropical fish, hamsters and gerbils and loved all other animals especially cats.

She also liked art and photography.

She was very passionate about being an organ donor - and several people have now received life-saving operations because of her. A truly wonderful young woman.

Lots of ideas and ways to get to know L better. If you can recreate a theme on a square, wonderful, but we also need simple squares, A square in one of her favourite colours is perfect too.

The MAIN Colours. We will be using her favourites,
Pinks from pale baby pink through to magenta.
Cream, but only please Drops Merino Extra Fine - Off White (01) or Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - Off White (3045)
Lighter silvers
Greens pale to mid. Think nature inspired

Then embellishments and accents ONLY please (not whole squares)
Blues - sky to navy inc turquoise.
Sunset shades - red, orange, yellow, gold, but only if creating a sunset!
Browns taupe to mid
Charcoal grey
Black

The Yarn we will be Using for Consistency ….
Yarnsmiths Merino DK Superwash - a BIG sale at Wool Warehouse. Has the widest range of colours
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK only available on Love Crafts
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK.
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued or have become less easy to find- Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK, Patons Merino Extrafine DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Posting will be Teddington, please message if you need the address. If you'd like to include a card for her family , please send with your squares. And please don't forget to include your name!

If you can upload photos of your squares on here as we go along, that will be a lovely record, especially if you have donated yarn.

Will set the last posting date once we are underway but it will be approx 6 weeks hence

Thoughts and love very much with waffle, we are so so sorry. Remembering L Star

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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ChristmasStars · 06/03/2026 11:12

That's brilliant @SeptemberIRemember

KnottyAndPistey · 06/03/2026 11:43

This is what Fawley looks like after 5 Dreamies.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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WitchDancer · 06/03/2026 12:24

@KnottyAndPisteydid you get someone to do the initials? If not I will give it a bash as I’m feeling adventurous 😁

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KnottyAndPistey · 06/03/2026 12:30

@WitchDancer . Crack on , lovely. Thank you 🤩

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WitchDancer · 06/03/2026 12:40

KnottyAndPistey · 06/03/2026 12:30

@WitchDancer . Crack on , lovely. Thank you 🤩

Will do, thank you

MyrtleLion · 06/03/2026 12:54

WitchDancer · 06/03/2026 12:40

Will do, thank you

I'm doing them in light pink and pinkberry if you want to choose complementary colours ❤️

lcakethereforeIam · 06/03/2026 12:58

I've ordered some sage, a pale green on screen which looked lovely. I hope in read life it's the same. I'm waiting for the wool to be delivered. It should be here soon I hope. I always worry I've cocked something up.

ChristmasStars · 06/03/2026 13:15

Look what just turned up! I'll try and do some cat related squares and the other is to do a little hug or something when I've finished.

ChristmasStars · 06/03/2026 13:16

Hmm it wouldn't let me add a photo so you just have to use your imagination 🤣

WitchDancer · 06/03/2026 13:27

If you’re doing initials I shall bow out to you and do something else Grin

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 06/03/2026 13:46

ChristmasStars · 06/03/2026 13:15

Look what just turned up! I'll try and do some cat related squares and the other is to do a little hug or something when I've finished.

I’m choosing to imagine it’s Maud’s twin sister!
Though I suspect it’s more likely to be wool!

Boiledbeetle · 06/03/2026 14:06

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 06/03/2026 13:46

I’m choosing to imagine it’s Maud’s twin sister!
Though I suspect it’s more likely to be wool!

I wonder if this is an old photo of Maud and Millicent? @ifIwerenotanandroid should be able to confirm or not

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
Yiayoula · 06/03/2026 14:32

Yarn just arrived , looking forward to trying Yarnsmiths Merino as it’s a new brand for me.
Thanks to the kind donor(s), very much appreciated - will try to make something beautiful for you, and for Waffle.

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ifIwerenotanandroid · 06/03/2026 14:33

@Boiledbeetle

Aw, that's so sweet! All six of the litter-mates were lovely. And they all grew up to be so different - you wouldn't guess it from that photo!

Freya1542 · 06/03/2026 14:48

Boiledbeetle · 06/03/2026 14:06

I wonder if this is an old photo of Maud and Millicent? @ifIwerenotanandroid should be able to confirm or not

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oh! gosh @Boiledbeetle is Maud an actual twin?!!

Or are they just equally adorable litter mates? 🐹🐹

MyrtleLion · 06/03/2026 14:52

Yiayoula · 06/03/2026 14:32

Yarn just arrived , looking forward to trying Yarnsmiths Merino as it’s a new brand for me.
Thanks to the kind donor(s), very much appreciated - will try to make something beautiful for you, and for Waffle.

Snap! My yarn arrived. Pinkberry and Light Pink

@WitchDancer that's very kind of you ❤️

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
KnottyAndPistey · 06/03/2026 16:07

mine too!

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
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PrizedPickledPopcorn · 06/03/2026 16:26

<Dashes downstairs to check the letter box>

ChristmasStars · 06/03/2026 16:58

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 06/03/2026 13:46

I’m choosing to imagine it’s Maud’s twin sister!
Though I suspect it’s more likely to be wool!

Oh I wish!

ChristmasStars · 06/03/2026 16:59

Yiayoula · 06/03/2026 14:32

Yarn just arrived , looking forward to trying Yarnsmiths Merino as it’s a new brand for me.
Thanks to the kind donor(s), very much appreciated - will try to make something beautiful for you, and for Waffle.

I'm such a fan of Yarnsmiths. I much prefer it to Style craft these days. Am I even allowed to say that?

IoWfairy · 06/03/2026 17:53

Oh no, now I have yarn envy!
I have a Drops ‘powder pink’ but that bright Yarnsmiths looks glorious.

Boiledbeetle · 06/03/2026 19:07

ifIwerenotanandroid · 06/03/2026 14:33

@Boiledbeetle

Aw, that's so sweet! All six of the litter-mates were lovely. And they all grew up to be so different - you wouldn't guess it from that photo!

Edited

After much searching I have uncovered a photo of the whole litter

Woolly Hugs. A blanket for lovely wafflenose who has tragically lost her daughter. Can you help us please?
ChristmasStars · 06/03/2026 19:13

What a beautiful picture boiled

Boiledbeetle · 06/03/2026 19:15

ChristmasStars · 06/03/2026 19:13

What a beautiful picture boiled

Maud is on the far left. She lost the bow for her hat!

ChristmasStars · 06/03/2026 19:37

Oh Maud!

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